In the animal kingdom, wolves have their own family and their own discipline. They are not as ferocious as lions, nor do they have any powerful weapons, nor any magic weapon to win, but they know how to attack and retreat, they are never timid, they will always fight hard, fearlessly, and are invincible, so they are In the animal kingdom, one can still roar from the highest point.
Wolf nature is fearless, wolves are fearless. Indeed, in the eyes of the wolf, the light of fear can never be found, because the wolf rejects fear. There are only wolves born for fighting, and there are no wolves born for fear of fighting. Their life is fighting, and even if they die, they will die on the battlefield. This is the law that allows wolves to survive forever - fearlessness.
Wolves have superhuman intelligence and are fearless, but what about us humans? Each of us hopes to live a comfortable, quiet and peaceful life. It is human instinct to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. No one wants to live in fear, but many people just want to stay away from fear, but they do not know that there are many fears They are all caused by one's own behavior. To achieve the root cause, we must grasp the source and start from ourselves.
Living in this era of fierce competition, before you have a full understanding and grasp of your own abilities, you must first reject fear. You must have a strong mentality - fearlessness, and only fearlessness can make you successful. These problems are far away from you. Therefore, if you want to succeed, if you want to have a world of your own in this competitive era, you must challenge your "dare" spirit, dare to be the first, dare to be responsible, dare to face failure, that is, have no courage. Only in this way can we move forward courageously and reach success.
Fear will only make people imprisoned to death. If you are afraid of competition, you will find ways to escape. A person who dare not face challenges and competition will never be able to win in the competition. If you don’t want to become a Loser, if you don’t want to be a lamb that dies in fear, you must be a brave man so that you can overcome all difficulties and challenges and succeed in the competition.
In the ancient Chu-Han conflict, Liu Bang was defeated many times in battles. In times of crisis, he even staged a good show of escaping on his own. Fortunately, Liu Bang was not disheartened by these repeated failures. He learned the lessons of the past, fought repeatedly, and became more courageous as he fought. In the end, he finally turned the tables and established the eternal hegemony of the Han Dynasty.
There are many such examples in real life. Many people fail and get up again without fear or flinch. They are not afraid of failure, move forward with an indomitable and fearless spirit, and finally achieve success. .
Hubbard said: "The biggest mistake a person can make is that he is afraid of making a mistake." Failure is not terrible, what is terrible is only the person who shrinks from fear of failure. If a person wants to achieve something, failure is inevitable, and it brings us a huge spiritual shock. In ancient and modern times, which scientists and inventors at home and abroad have never failed, and which successful people have not experienced setbacks and failures? Don't be afraid if they fail. If they try again, they will re-examine themselves and discover their shortcomings and shortcomings. They never give up trying, so they create success.
From those successful people we can see their fearless spirit. For those of you who pursue success, as long as you don’t give up trying and continue to do your best, you will create success. We must adjust our own state, sort out our mood, learn from the lessons of failure, and continue to work hard to do better. As long as we can do this, are we still afraid that success will not make us friends?
For those who are afraid of danger and failure, in fact, failure always follows, and danger is everywhere.
One day, the lobster and the hermit crab met in the deep sea. The hermit crab saw that the lobster was taking off its hard shell, only revealing its delicate body. The hermit crab said very nervously: "Lobster, what are you doing?" Can you give up the hard shell that is the only thing that protects your body? Aren't you afraid that a big fish will eat you up in one bite? Judging from your current situation, even the rapids will wash you up against the rocks, and you will die by then. "That's strange."
The lobster replied calmly: "Thank you for your concern, but you don't understand that every time our lobster grows, we must first shed the old shell in order to grow a stronger shell. The dangers we face now are just preparations for better development in the future."
The hermit crab thought about it carefully. He only looked for a place to hide all day long, without thinking about how to make it happen. You grow stronger and only live under the protection of others all day long. No wonder you will always limit your own development.
On the road of life, everyone has a certain safety zone. If you want to cross it, you must first surpass yourself. Then you must reject fear and be brave enough to accept challenges. In this way, you will definitely develop better than you imagined. medium is better.
An eagle swooped down from the top of the Eagle Peak and snatched away a lamb.
A crow saw it and was very envious and thought: It would be great if I also had such a skill! So the crow imitated the eagle's swooping posture and practiced hard.
One day, the crow felt that he had practiced very well, so he swooped down from the tree, jumped on the back of a goat, and wanted to grab the goat and fly up, but its body was too small. It was light, and its claws were tangled in wool. No matter how hard it flapped its wings, it couldn't fly. As a result, it was caught by the shepherd.
The shepherd's child saw it and asked what kind of bird it was. The shepherd said: "This is a bird that has forgotten its name." The child touched the crow's feathers and said: "It also It’s so cute!”
After reading this fable, most people will probably laugh at the crow. The crow actually wants to imitate the eagle and swoop down from the sky to catch the goat. This is simply overestimating its capabilities. . But it also reveals another truth: a spirit of doing something that you know you can’t do.
Throughout the ages, heroes have done something they knew was impossible. As wise as Zhuge Liang, he clearly knew that it was difficult to survive alone, but he still reorganized his army again and again and embarked on the journey again and again. In the eyes of many people, he is like this crow who knows what cannot be done but does it. This tells us that in many cases, we really need the spirit of overestimating our capabilities. If a person wants to move in the direction of his own efforts, he must have the courage to challenge himself and practice it. If we become timid and timid when faced with difficulties, we will never have the courage to start. The real heroes are not those who jump for joy when victory is in sight, but those who know that there is a world of knowledge ahead and still keep their chests raised and move forward fearlessly.
Human beings are born to work, to do things, to accomplish things, to accomplish great things, which means having a certain amount of courage and the fearlessness to take risks and overcome difficulties. People who are afraid of wolves before doing things are afraid of tigers behind them. They are timid and do not dare to step out of the way. They are always stuck in their own ways and do not dare to open the closed door. They can only linger and stand in that small area forever and never understand it. Looking at the beautiful scenery outside, you can never take the first step on the road to success.
Friends who like to watch football will easily realize that only fearless players will succeed. At the basket, the center dares to shoot and grab, and on the outside, the defender dares to take action. Only in this way can a successful team be achieved. Just imagine, if no member of a team dares to move forward to grab the ball and everyone retreats, then this team will definitely lose.
Isn’t that what it means to be a human being? Everyone wants to move forward according to the path explored by their predecessors without innovating. How can we as a species progress? Therefore, only by daring to think and do can you become an outstanding person. And these must have a fearless spirit. On the way forward, brave people are fearless and move forward because they know that only in this way can they have a chance of success.
As the saying goes, "The ignorant are fearless." Regarding ignorance and fearlessness, ignorant people must be fearless. As the saying goes, "blind men are not afraid of tigers", and fearless people are not necessarily ignorant. In fact, passionate people are also fearless, and this fearlessness is much higher than the level of "ignorance". The fearlessness under the rippling passion requires more rational support.
Are you a person who desires success? Do you want to become a master? If you think about it, then what are you afraid of? What are you afraid of? What are you holding back from? If the turbulent river is not hit by the reef, where will the beautiful waves come from? If the blue sky with thousands of miles of blue clouds is not washed by the violent wind, how can there be a beautiful rainbow? So, from now on, be a person who refuses fear and is brave and fearless! Only by rejecting fear can you minimize risks. Those who dare not take risks are taking the greatest risks; those who are afraid of failure are afraid of success. Success never bows to the weak, it only reaches out to the strong.
Be a person who refuses fear! The world will shine with your fearless spirit, and your life and your success will be dazzling and dazzling because of your fearlessness.
Wolf's self-report:
On this planet, we wolves have experienced millions of years of ups and downs. During this long evolutionary process, the wolf tribe has to face thousands of challenges. Despite the challenges faced by thousands of animals and the cruel slaughter of humans, we have not given up on our journey from excellence to excellence. Wolves are one of the most tenacious animals on earth. As the highest terminator in the biological chain, our existence prevents other animal species from being a little comfortable and slack. Nature maintains a moderate balance due to ever-present competition. Competition is always a "cruel game" for kings. The wolf respects the rules of the game and never admits defeat when facing challenges. Victory is the wolf's eternal destiny!
The "cruel game" of competing for the king
On the vast grassland, when the first ray of sunshine appears every day, lions and antelopes start racing. The lion vowed to catch the antelope, because if he catches the antelope, he can use them as his food. The antelope must run faster than the lion, otherwise it will become a meal for the lion. There is also a cruel competition between antelopes. The slowest antelope becomes the food of the lion, while the other antelopes can temporarily survive. This is the cruel competition among animals.
In the animal world where "the weak eat the strong", the wolves have a particularly strong sense of competition. Wolves not only face competition with different animal species, but also face fierce competition among wolf packs. Generally among all wolf packs in the same area, there will be a wolf king, who has the power to command all wolf packs in this area. When there is a need for collective hunting, the wolf king will howl to summon all the wolves. All members of the wolf pack must accept its unified deployment unconditionally. Of course, the position of the wolf king is also determined by the leaders of each wolf pack through competition.
Within the wolf pack, not everyone can get the position of alpha wolf, nor is it arranged according to age or seniority. Every male wolf is qualified to compete for this position. Only the wolf pack The strongest among them will get this position.
As the offspring of a wolf pack grow older, they will covet the position of leader. Although the leader of the wolf pack is their father, they have no guilt, because the wolf pack is a world where the capable is king. At the same time, there will be fierce competition between brothers. Finally, the most powerful male wolf becomes the leader of the wolf pack, and the other male wolves either surrender to it, lead some wolves to establish their own group, or wander around and become lone wolves, or join other wolf packs. When a wolf pack establishes a new leader, all wolves must accept his leadership. As the alpha wolf, it has absolute authority. Strict hierarchical order ensures the survival of the wolf pack.
There is another kind of competition among wolves, that is, the competition for territory. Due to limited food in nature, wolves often go to war with each other to compete for territory. Each wolf pack has its own territory, which they mark with urine and scent, but some wolves will invade the territories of other wolves because they cannot get enough food. This kind of invasion is similar to one human country invading another country. This is of course something that a wolf pack whose territory has been invaded cannot tolerate. As a result, a war for territory inevitably begins between the two wolf packs. The winning party is the owner of this territory, while the losing wolves are not qualified to hunt in this territory.
Looking back at the "cruel" games between wolves, we will find that "competition" actually exists in all areas of human life: ball games, swimming, boxing, track and field, chess, etc. There are sports competitions; there are music, poetry, drama, film and television, calligraphy, painting and other literary competitions; there are learning competitions, speech competitions, labor competitions, etc. There are countless organized competitions. In daily work and study, invisible competition that is secretly determined to catch up with others exists everywhere.
It can be said that competition is the driving force for the forward development of human society and personal growth.
Competition is a collaborative activity with a multi-dimensional psychological structure: competition is required to obtain achievements; there is a clear goal of striving for excellent results and winning; the level of achievement of both parties participating in the competition is revealed in comparison with the other party. , out of self-esteem and honor, competitors are under pressure; competitors are determined to overcome difficulties and strive for victory. Due to the coordinated activities of multiple psychological activities, participating competitors are full of energy, high morale, and complete tasks effectively.
American scientist Andrew Salley and French scientist Roger Guillemin simultaneously announced in 1955 that they had discovered in their respective studies that the "corticotropin-releasing hormone" released by the pituitary gland could be isolated from the hypothalamus. factor". Since then, the two have started competing to separate CRF. Everyone wants to take the lead and isolate CRF first. In the 22-year competition, although they failed to isolate CRF, their scientific research results during this period were brilliant. Salli was the first to isolate and synthesize "thyroid stimulating hormone releasing factor" and "luteinizing hormone releasing factor"; Guillemin was the first to isolate and synthesize "growth hormone release inhibitory factor" (SRIF). These research results of the two men confirmed the existence of brain hormones, thus opening up new ways to control certain important diseases and providing the possibility of finding safe methods of population control. They both won the 1977 Nobel Prize in Physiology and Medicine.
J.C. Chapman and R. B． Feder once conducted addition exercises for ten days for two groups of fifth-grade students, practicing for ten minutes a day. One group is a non-competition group. They just practice based on their own learning attitude without other incentives. The other group is the competition group. Their academic results are posted on the wall every day, and red stars are marked on the progressors and winners. The results show that the performance of the competition group has been on an upward trend, while the performance of the non-competition group showed a downward trend in the first five days, and then began to slowly recover. This means that the performance of the competition group far exceeded that of the non-competition group. The motivating effect of competition is evident from here.
Competition is a spiritual force that drives individuals forward. Its role is to inspire people to work hard and promote personal development and the progress of the entire society. A person who lacks a sense of competition is destined to not have much future.
The father was chatting with his daughter and her boyfriend in the living room.
The father asked his daughter's boyfriend: "Do you like playing ball?"
The boyfriend replied: "No, I don't like playing ball very much. I spend most of my time reading books, Listen to music."
The father continued: "Do you like betting on horses?"
Boyfriend: "No, I don't gamble."
Father. Asked again: "Do you like to watch track and field or ball games on TV?"
Boyfriend: "No, I have no interest in these competitive activities."
After the boyfriend left, the daughter asked her father: "Dad, what do you think of this person?"
The father replied: "I don't object to you being friends with him, but if you want to marry him, I firmly disagree. "
The daughter asked in surprise: "Why?"
The father said: "Most people will never keep orioles in their own cages. I will take it to the teahouse, because there are many oriole birds there. When this oriole bird hears the chirping of its kind in the teahouse, it will not be outdone and sing loudly. This is the way the birdkeeper trains the oriole bird. The trick.
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The daughter asked: “What does this have to do with my boyfriend?” "
My father added: "Birdkeepers stimulate the oriole's competitive nature and train it to sing beautifully. Without competition, this oriole may remain mute for life, unable to make any calls, because there are no other birds to compare with. "
The daughter nodded as if understanding.
The father continued: "This boyfriend of yours, after the conversation I just had with him, I found that he is neither I don’t like sports, I don’t like sports, I don’t like ball games, and I reject all competitive activities. I think that a man like this may not be able to achieve anything in the future, so I am opposed to you marrying him. ”
Indeed, it is impossible for people without competitive spirit to arouse the greatest motivation for progress in their hearts. It is difficult for such people to go very far in a society that advocates "winner takes all".
Some people who are diligent in making progress and learning well at work will encounter this situation: some people with worse conditions than themselves have achieved some kind of success before them, or they have been promoted faster than themselves. , or be more appreciated and valued by the boss than yourself. What is going on? The answer is the lack of "competition consciousness".
Human beings have always lived in various competitions. Among them, if a person wants to survive and develop in the workplace, he must have a sense of competition and a sense of doing better than his opponents.
Being brave enough to compete and being good at competing will make you better. One of the basic reasons for standing out from the crowd and being outstanding in your career is that if you just focus on the road without taking into account the situation of other opponents and lack the sense of competition to gain a foothold in society, you are likely to become a laggard at the beginning.
A person's intelligence and ability can only be brought out more effectively in competition. The best way for a person to become smarter and more capable is to have no sense of competition. , there will be no motivation to strive and make progress. Such people will not escape the fate of mediocrity and elimination.
Competition is a kind of ability, and only in competition can you feel the existence of life. Only in competition can we live a fulfilling and meaningful life, and only in competition can we truly realize ourselves.
In short, no matter what form of competition, no matter who the competition is against, or what the specific content of the competition is, the competition will not matter. It is all about overpowering and surpassing each other in terms of feelings and interests. Only by gaining psychological satisfaction from this competition of overpowering and surpassing each other can life become more meaningful.
At this point, this is true for wolves, and even more so for humans!