The annual summer vacation has ushered in the "liberation craze" in many places today. The beasts will spend nearly two months of free time at home. For some parents of children who do not have a good learning attitude, Talking, chanting, urging, and nagging endlessly.
In fact, instead of constantly reminding and nagging children about their learning and growth every day, it is better to let them develop some good habits. Habits, these habits will accompany them throughout their lives and last every moment. If they can develop some good habits during the summer vacation, it is not impossible for them to become academic masters in the next semester.
Summer vacation. It is a great opportunity for children to maintain their excellence and become academic leaders in the next semester. So how can parents guide their children to arrange their time reasonably and live a meaningful and fulfilling summer life? Parents can start with the following 6 good habits: < /p>
1. Morning reading
The whole year begins with morning reading. Good habits need to start with morning reading. Although the children are already on holiday, their morning reading habits should not be compromised just because of the holidays. It’s over, don’t let your children sleep in during the holiday morning. Reading vocabulary, memorizing poems, or reading some of your favorite quotes can make the morning sunshine more fulfilling and brighter.
< p>In order to make morning reading a part of children’s good habits, the following three suggestions are given to parents:1) Let children read in the morning according to their own interests, read loudly and confidently
2) Read with your children, improve your own strength and play a leading role in reading
3) Morning reading does not have to be too much time, it is important to develop a habit, even if it is 10 minutes a day
p>2. Planning
After morning reading in the morning, we also need to let children develop the good habit of planning, especially for some children who do things irregularly. Planning can make Children will be more regular and organized in doing things. The plan is also to cultivate children's organization and enthusiasm for doing things, including self-discipline. If your child usually watches TV for hours at home, but ends up watching it for a whole day without being reminded, then you need to guide your child. Develop a plan and make your life more regular.
For example: "The holiday has begun. Which aspect do you want to gain during this holiday? Whether it is vocabulary, mathematics, reading accumulation or physical exercise, give yourself one." Plan, let you secretly start to be different.” Guide children to implement goals in a planned way, which is often more motivational than parents urging them every day.
If the child cannot stick to his plan, don’t Forcibly blame them, let the children give themselves some small rewards, and guide the children to deal with important things when there are changes in plans. Planning is very important, but the ability to cope with changes will also be what they need to constantly hone in order to grow up and excel in the future.
3. Efficiency
In terms of developing good habits, parents should also ask their children to self-examine their progress in developing high efficiency. If the child always does things in three days Two days of fishing and drying the net shows that there is something wrong with the child's efficiency in doing things. We must also guide the child to complete everything in hand efficiently.
For example, when children are doing homework, they always do some little tricks to delay time, such as being thirsty, hungry, sleepy and wanting to sleep, etc. These seem to be the reasons why children do not want to do homework. It may be that they have encountered difficulties in writing homework, which has reduced their efficiency in writing homework. If you want to improve your children's efficiency, you must guide them to understand the problems they encounter difficulties.
Tell the child, "Actually, you worked very hard, but you didn't pay attention to some details and were too anxious. If you calm down and do it again seriously, you will find that it is not difficult at all." Guide the child with questions If you go over what you have done, you will find that it is more efficient to do it with the purpose of the problem.
4. Sharing
In modern parenting, many parents are reluctant to let their children endure hardships. Under the superior conditions of having clothes to eat, food to eat, and mouth to open, their children have grown up with everything they need from their parents. Children's dependence on children, including their ability to cope with setbacks, is relatively fragile when their dependence is strong. Summer vacation is an important stage for children to develop good habits, and this is also a time for them to share housework, enhance their awareness of self-labor, and their responsibilities, including Great time for affordability.
Suggestions:
Let children share some simple housework every day, such as washing dishes, sweeping the floor, and cleaning simple clothes and socks. Children will experience more when they have enough food and clothing by themselves. , when children need help, parents should also provide timely help, so that children can develop more practical abilities through appropriate exercises, which has a very sticky effect on their responsibility and ability to resist frustration.
5. Exercise
A good day should not start by going to bed late or getting up late. In addition to reading in the morning, you can also guide your children to run and exercise with the beauty of the morning. Start with exercise. Only by maintaining a healthy body can we welcome the beautiful days in the future. If the weather is bad, parents can also do some indoor sports with their children, such as aerobics, yoga or rope skipping.
6. Writing
Writing is not the main thing for children to become academic masters, but if every academic master has good handwriting and good habits, This is reflected in all aspects. Every child who takes learning seriously should also take his or her writing seriously. Sleeping in, watching TV and playing on mobile phones are all breeding grounds for bad habits.
In the development of good habits in the summer, if the children are more rebellious towards the above habits, parents must first set an example to infect the good atmosphere. I believe that the children will definitely learn in an atmosphere full of positive learning. It’s not too bad. At the same time, we can also take our children to some meaningful places to increase their knowledge, such as traveling, libraries, or more visits to the summer vacation life of top students. Under the influence of Jin Zhu Zhechi, I believe that children’s habits will be unconscious gradually developed.