1. Falling red is not a heartless thing, it turns into spring mud to protect flowers. Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you.

2. [Short Story 1]: A pig, a sheep and a cow were kept in the same corral by the shepherd. One day, the shepherd took the pig out of the corral, and the pig howled loudly and resisted strongly. The sheep and cows hated its howl, so they complained: "We are often caught by the shepherd, but none of us are as big as you." Hearing this, the pig responded: "Catching you and catching me are completely different things. He only catches you and divides your hair and milk, but he catches me and divides my life!"

3. It is difficult for people with different standpoints and different environments to understand each other’s feelings. Therefore, we should think about others’ frustrations, frustrations and pains with a tolerant heart. To understand and care about others.

4. [Short Story 2]: A couple drove a car to go sightseeing in the mountains, and got off the car halfway. I heard that the other passengers in the car did not go far when they encountered a hill collapse. As a result, all Lose your life. The woman said: We are so lucky, we got off the bus in time. The man said: No, it was because the car stopped when we got off the bus, which delayed their trip. Otherwise, we would not have happened to pass the landslide at any moment.

5. The essence of empathy is to put yourself in the shoes of others, that is, think what others think, and understand first. Understanding is indispensable between people. Understanding is an aspect of understanding and also a kind of tolerance. We have all been "offended" or "misunderstood" at times. If we hold onto this, we will have unsolvable "knots" in our hearts. If we can deeply understand the other person's inner world, we may be able to reach an understanding. Generally speaking, as long as it does not involve issues of principle, it is understandable. Forgiveness is a kind of love, a kind of consideration, a kind of tolerance, and a kind of understanding!

Extended information:

Putting yourself in other people’s shoes is a way of thinking in dealing with interpersonal relationships that puts you in others’ shoes, that is, thinks about what others think, and understanding comes first. People must understand and trust each other, and learn to think from other people's perspective. This is the basis of communication between people: tolerate and understand each other, and think from others' perspective.