Since ancient times, people have believed the saying "He who laughs last laughs best". Only after seeing the results will it be clear who will be crowned.
"There are several plums in the corner, and Ling Han blooms alone." In the raging cold wind and snowstorm, plum trees bloom quietly, and the snowstorm comes and goes, but the plums still bloom quietly. Finally, when the spring blooms, the cold wind of snow and ice has already disappeared, but the plum blossom can bear fruit, and let people remember the quiet beauty of cold ling alone.
indeed, the noisy things come menacingly, but they go in a hurry, while the quiet things can grow for a long time.
The flowers in the garden are rushing to open, and they are bustling. Their beauty is often easily buried in the noise, and they are also beautiful. However, when people look at it, they forget it in a blink of an eye. On the contrary, countless people are tempted by the orchid that is quietly blooming on the cliff. Her beauty does not have to be known to everyone, but she is quiet and unforgettable.
Sure enough, noise will make beauty short-lived, while silence can make beautiful things deeply remembered by people.
Just like a classic polished by masters for ten years, no matter how long time has passed, that classic can always remain in people's hearts with a quiet silence, which is beyond the reach of the noisy fast food culture in any case.
There is a lyric in the classic song "The Sound of Silence", which says "People keep their mouths shut, but their voices are heard". Compared with noisy talk, quiet expression can often express people's hearts better.
It is often said that "one can really think only when he is quiet", so the loudest people in the crowd often lack thinking, and what they express is often difficult to arouse people's attention.
I met an uncle on the train one night. As soon as he got on the train, he exchanged pleasantries with the people around him. At first, he just talked politely about each other's current situation, and there were quite a few people talking with him. The scene was very lively, and many people in the same car who were far apart looked at him. I remember very clearly that at that time, I was next to a mother with a child. The child was not very talkative. She also told her children to study hard. The uncle could speak so generously. This scene reminded me of myself when I was a child.
As it was late at night, the uncle didn't stop talking loudly, and most people around him were tired and didn't want to continue talking, but he didn't stop talking. He started from chatting at first to telling his experiences to the only two passengers opposite him who were still open-eyed, and even finally began to pour out his dissatisfaction with the people around him.
At about twelve o'clock, the mother with the child next to me shouted to the uncle that it was disturbing her child's rest, and the uncle stopped talking. Calm down, he looks very vicissitudes of life, with pain in his eyes, as if no one has really been communicating with him. Seeing this, I can't help but feel heartache for him.
since that experience, I have begun to understand that talking in a crowd is actually a sign of lack of thought. Too many people always want to cover up their inner vulnerability with noise.
Therefore, after a tumult in the crowd, we can often see some people's inner loss. Perhaps the tumultuous people may not remember what they have poured out to people afterwards, but they will feel that the tumult can dilute their inner helplessness, at least temporarily.
However, people who know how to calm down never need noise, because they can think quietly and seek a breakthrough. Even if they want to express something, their every emotion and idea can be hit the floor, like a trickle flowing into other people's hearts, achieving the effect of "people are stunned but their voices are heard".
There is an old saying in China that "a full pot is silent, and a half pipe is tinkling". Really powerful people often don't speak easily, while grandstanding people often don't know anything.
I remember when I was still at school, whenever I had the opportunity to speak, I would be the first to raise my hand to fight for the opportunity. Looking back now, I was so eager to show myself at that time, as if I were a strong person as long as I showed myself in public, and my vanity was really serious.
Later, after repeated setbacks, I began to understand my own problems and made up my mind to calm down and study with an open mind.
I believe many people will have similar experiences. No matter how well we behave in front of others and how beautiful our speeches are, it is difficult for us to truly become a strong person as long as we aim at expressing ourselves.
We often see that many people are usually unknown, but when people are fiercely fighting for performance opportunities, they can calm down and think deeply. Is it really because they don't have any thoughts in their hearts? No! However, when we are anxious to show off our half-baked opinions in front of everyone, they can hold their temper and think more deeply. They often make people feel that "if you don't speak, you will make a blockbuster", which is the power of silence and the demeanor of the knowledgeable.
When people are rushing for illusory vanity, they are more willing to be quiet learners and constantly learn nutrition to improve themselves. When one day we really don't know, they are still knowledgeable.
In this increasingly complicated society, people's hearts are becoming more and more impetuous, but at any time, we can't cover our eyes for glitz and lose ourselves for noise. No matter how loud the noise is, it will return to silence afterwards. The noise will come and go in a hurry, which will always make things worse and make people lost. But silence is the destination of noise, which can last forever, make things more real and beautiful, and make people stronger. Therefore, the real power has always been silence rather than noise.
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