To spoil a child is to kill a child", "To spoil a child without using a stick is to spoil a child", "The harder the beating, the more painful the injury, the deeper the love", "A bunch of radishes and a bunch of vegetables, one's own child Love yourself. Children raised by weasels are fragrant, while children raised by hedgehogs are light. ", "Strictness is love, tenderness is harm. "To spoil a child is like killing a child", "Parents who love their children have far-reaching plans." "A spoiled man is unfilial, and a fertile field will yield shriveled rice." ". The above are all ancient Chinese proverbs, and the source of the proverb cannot be found. There is also a proverb in Britain that says: "A child who is pampered cannot become a great person."