You have to have "characteristics" to get opportunities, and you have to have "color" to get achievements.
3. People should understand the importance of caution and the urgency of boldness.
4. Being a man and doing things can be pursued by fairness, but not by fairness. Fairness is relative and unfair.
5. If you find extraordinary things in ordinary life, you will be extraordinary, and if you find extraordinary details in ordinary little things, you will be extraordinary.
6. To be a man, you have to give up your interest to meet the opportunities in life and meet the difficulties actively, in order to get a breakthrough in life.
7. Find the weakness of the human heart, and you can find the secret of being a man. If you overcome the instinct of human nature, you can find the mystery of doing things.
8. There is always a foundation for success behind being a man, and there is always an ulterior motive behind doing things. Be self-disciplined and tolerant.
9. To be a man, you should learn to refuse at the right time and those who push your luck, and also learn to accept things appropriately and accept the unchangeable reality.
10. The degree of seeing yourself clearly determines whether you can do the right thing, and the degree of knowing others determines whether you can follow the right person. Following the right person will make you reach the top, and doing the right thing will make you get twice the result with half the effort.
1 1. To be a person, you must have a different personality style and an independent pursuit different from the secular, in order to have a life different from ordinary people.