No intention, no necessity, no solidity, no me. ——"The Analects of Confucius" Don't be too stubborn in your own thoughts, learn to be flexible and accept new knowledge; don't force to complete difficult tasks all at once, do what you can; don't force others to accept your own ideas; don't be selfish mentality, you should think more of others when dealing with others 1. Heaven is in good health, and a gentleman strives to constantly strive for self-improvement. ——"Book of Changes" (Translation: As a gentleman, you should have a strong will, a never-ending spirit of struggle, strive to strengthen self-cultivation, complete and develop your own studies or career. Only by doing so can you reflect the will of God and live up to it. The responsibilities and talents given to a gentleman by the universe) 2. Do not do evil because it is small, and do not do good because it is small. ——"Three Kingdoms" (Translation: For any thing, don't do it just because it is a small, inconspicuous bad thing; on the contrary, for some small good things that are beneficial to others, don't do it because it is of little significance. Don’t do it.) 3. Seeing good is like falling short, seeing bad is like exploring the soup. ——"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: When you see a good person, you are afraid that it will be too late to learn from him; when you see a good thing, you are afraid that you will not be able to do it if it is too late. When you see a bad person or bad thing, it is like coming into contact with hot water) Same, leave immediately and stay far away) 4. If you are generous to yourself but do not blame others, you will be far away from resentment. ——"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: Those who work hard and take the main responsibility for mistakes are "self-benefit". Being more understanding and tolerant to others is "taking less responsibility from others". In this case, there will be no resentment towards each other. .) 5. The beauty of a gentleman is the beauty of a man, but the evil of a man is not. The villain is on the contrary. ——"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: A gentleman always starts from the desire to be kind or beneficial to others, and wholeheartedly promotes others to realize their good wishes and legitimate requirements. He will not look at the world with cold eyes. Or he is afraid that the world will not be chaotic, Will not add fuel to the fire when others have failures, mistakes or pain. On the contrary, villains are always "the evil of adults, not the beauty of adults") 6. When you see a virtuous person, you think about them; when you see a virtuous person, you reflect on yourself. ——"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: When you see someone who has strengths and advantages that exceed your own in a certain aspect, humbly ask for advice, study hard, and find ways to catch up with him and reach the same level as him; when you see someone with certain shortcomings or deficiencies , you should calmly reflect and see if you have the same shortcomings or shortcomings as him) 7. Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you. ——"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: If you don't want (pain, disaster, misfortune...), don't impose it on others.) 8. Be responsible and don't give in to the teacher. ——"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: When you encounter a good thing that you should do, you should not hesitate. Even if the teacher is nearby, you should rush to do it. Later developed into the idiom "do your duty without hesitation.") 9. A gentleman wants to be slow in words but quick in deeds. ——"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: A gentleman does not talk too much, but does things quickly and dexterously.) 10. When two people are of the same mind, their sharpness can break through metal; if they are of the same mind, their stench is as bad as orchid. ——"Book of Changes" (Translation: People who work together are strong enough to break hard metal; people who work together express unanimous opinions and are persuasive. People are like smelling the fragrance of orchids and are easy to accept. .) 11. A gentleman hides his weapon in his body and waits for the time to move. ——"Book of Changes" (Translation: Even if a gentleman has outstanding talents and skills, he will not show off or show off everywhere. Instead, he will display his talents or skills when necessary.) 12. If you are full, you will suffer losses, but if you are modest, you will benefit. ——"Shang Shu" (Translation: Being complacent with the achievements you have achieved will lead to losses and disasters; being humble and always aware of your own shortcomings will benefit from it.) 13. Isn't it a gentleman if a person doesn't know something but doesn't get upset? ——"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: If I have achieved something and others don't understand it, I will never feel angry or aggrieved. Isn't this also a sign of gentlemanly demeanor?) 14. Be true to your word and bear fruit in your deeds. ——"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: When you say something, you must keep your word; when you decide what you want to do, you must do it resolutely and courageously.) 15. No intention, no necessity, no solidity, no me.

——"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: Tell the facts, don't make assumptions out of thin air; don't be arbitrary or capricious when it comes to things, do whatever is feasible; be flexible in your actions, not rigid; don't take "I" as the center in everything, don't be self-righteous, and be inconsistent with the people around you) Work together to complete the task together) 16. When three people are walking together, they must have a teacher. Choose the good ones and follow them, and change the bad ones. ——"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: When three people are together, there must be someone among them who is worthy of my learning in some way, then he can be my teacher. I choose his strengths to learn from, and learn from his shortcomings and deficiencies. , I will take it as a warning and correct it.) 17. A gentleman seeks for himself, while a villain seeks for others. ——"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: A gentleman always blames himself, looking for shortcomings and problems within himself. A villain often looks at others, looking for other people's shortcomings and deficiencies.) 18. A gentleman is magnanimous, while a villain is always concerned. ——"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: A gentleman is open-minded, frank and clean in thought, and his appearance and movements appear to be very comfortable and stable. A villain has too many desires in his heart and a heavy psychological burden, so he is often worried and worried, and his appearance and movements also appear uneasy. Often unable to sit or stand firmly) 19. Don't blame God, don't blame others. ——"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: When encountering setbacks and failures, never make excuses from an objective perspective, and never push the responsibility to others. Later it developed into the idiom "blame everything but others".) 20. Don't express your anger, don't make mistakes. ——"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: If you make a mistake, don't take it out on others, and don't make it a second time.) 21. A little impatience will mess up a big plan. ——"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: Even if you really want to do something that you shouldn't do, but insist on not doing it, it is called "forbearance". If you don't tolerate small things and have no tolerance, it will affect the overall situation and ruin the big things.) 22. Even the villain’s faults must be penalized. ——"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: A villain must cover up his faults.) 23. To make mistakes without correcting them is to make mistakes. ——"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: If you make a mistake and do not correct it, it is a real mistake.) 24. A gentleman should stick to his roots, and the Tao will be born from his roots. ——"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: A gentleman devotes himself to the fundamentals and establishes the fundamentals, and the "Tao" will naturally arise.) 25. A gentleman is ashamed of his words rather than his deeds. ——"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: A gentleman thinks it is shameful to talk too much and do too little.) 26. Think before you act. ——"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: Everything you do must be done after repeated consideration.) 27. Anyone who does unrighteousness will surely die. ——"Zuo Zhuan" (Translation: If you do too many bad things, you will eventually destroy yourself.) 28. No one has any faults, but if he can correct his faults, there is no greater good. ——"Zuo Zhuan" (Translation: Everyone may make mistakes, and as long as they correct themselves, they will still be the best people.) 29. Don't cover up your great virtue with a single glance. ——"Zuo Zhuan" (Translation: When evaluating a person, one cannot erase his merit just because of a slight mistake.) 30. If a person can do it once, he can do it by a hundred; if a person can do it by ten, he can do it by a thousand. ——"The Doctrine of the Mean" (Translation: If someone can master it once, if I try a hundred times, I will definitely learn it. If someone can master it ten times, if I learn it a thousand times, I will definitely master it.) 31 ． Knowing shame is close to courage. ——"The Doctrine of the Mean" (Translation: Knowing what is a shameful behavior is a good sign of bravery.) 32. Take fifty steps to laugh at a hundred steps. ——"Mencius" (Translation: Be complacent in thinking that one's own mistakes are smaller than others' and that one's shortcomings are fewer than others'.) 33. A gentleman never fails to be kind to others. ——"Mencius" (Translation: The greatest advantage of a gentleman is to treat others with a noble and benevolent heart.) 34. Everyone can be like Yao and Shun. ——"Mencius" (Translation: As long as they work hard, everyone can become a great sage like Yao and Shun.) 35. An embankment of a thousand feet will be destroyed by the holes of ants; a room of a hundred feet will be burned by smoke from the gaps. ——"Han Feizi" (Translation: A thousand-mile embankment may collapse because of ants digging holes; a hundred-foot-tall building may be burned down because of sparks emerging from the gaps in the chimney and causing a fire.) 36. Those who speak are not guilty, and those who hear are enough to be warned. ——"Preface to Poetry" (Translation: Those who make criticisms are not guilty.

When you hear other people's criticisms, you should carefully reflect on yourself. If you make mistakes, correct them. If they are not wrong, take them as advice given to you by others. ) 37. Good medicine is hard on the mouth but good for the disease; good advice is hard on the ears but good for deeds. ——"Confucius' Family Sayings" (Translation: Good medicine tastes bitter but is good for curing diseases; words of advice and advice may sound unpleasant but are good for people's behavior.) 38. A kind word warms you for three winters, but a bad word hurts you for six months. ——Proverb of the Ming Dynasty (Translation: A kind and helpful word can make the listener feel warm even in the severe cold of winter; on the contrary, harsh and vicious words can hurt other people's feelings and self-esteem, even in the heat of June. It can also make people feel cold) 39. According to thousands of scriptures, filial piety and brotherhood come first. ——"Zeng Guang Xian Wen" (Translation: According to thousands of classic principles, filial piety to parents and friendship to brothers are the first things that should be done.) 40. Good and evil are done by people, and misfortunes and blessings are caused by oneself. - "Zengguang Xianwen" (Translation: Good things and bad things are all done by oneself, and disasters and happiness are all caused by one's own words and deeds.) 41. Learn without thinking. , thinking without learning is dangerous. ——"The Analects of Confucius" (Translation: If you only study without thinking, you will not feel confused; if you only dream without studying, you will be tired and gain nothing.)