"There are icings on the cake everywhere, but there is no help in times of need." Similar famous sayings are as follows:

1. Living in poverty in a busy city and no one cares about you, but being rich in the mountains has distant relatives. ?

From "Zengguang Xianwen" of the Ming Dynasty. It means: when a person is poor, no one will pay attention to him even if he lives in a prosperous place; when a person is rich, no one will visit him even if he lives in a remote mountain.

2. Humanity is cheap and kindness is old, and righteousness in the world gradually declines.

It comes from "Dai Baitou Yin" by Bao Zhao of the Southern and Northern Dynasties. What it means is: Many people don’t miss old favors, and the world is like this. Once you decline, no one will help you.

3. If the situation is defeated, leave Yungui. If the family is destroyed, don’t talk about relatives.

From the judgment of Qiao Jieer in "A Dream of Red Mansions" by Cao Xueqin of the Qing Dynasty.

4. There are fair-weather friends from time to time, but those who have no money or power will not be close to each other.

It comes from "Zengguang Xianwen" of the Ming Dynasty. It means: You can have friends who drink and eat meat at any time, but there are certain prerequisites, that is, you must be rich and powerful; when you have no money and no power, even your closest relatives will stay away from you. It will also become less friendly.

5. When entering the mountains, you are not afraid of tigers that can hurt people, but you are afraid of double-dealing.

It comes from "Zengguang Xianwen" of the Ming Dynasty. What it means is: When people get along with each other, the most terrifying thing is the duplicitous person.