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Most mothers who manage housework at home have yelled at their children, always worried that their children are untidy and don't like a clean living environment.

The ancients said, "If you don't sweep a house, how can you sweep the world?" . A person can't even make his own living environment tidy and orderly, which reflects his personality characteristics, living habits and attitudes to a certain extent, and there are also great problems in dealing with people.

People usually think that girls like to be clean and tidy, but one of my roommates, Xiao Yan, is just the opposite. Things are always littered. I often can't find my pen. The quilts and clothes on the bed are piled together. People often complain that she can't see that she is a Virgo.

Later, I went to Xiaoyan's house to know what "dwarfing" means. Her living area is not small, but everything is in a mess, and her parents are too busy to clean up, so life is not very particular.

Xiaoyan grew up in a "garbage dump" environment, so she also developed bad habits such as not picking up things, forgetting things, being lazy, procrastinating and not being self-disciplined. And so far, I haven't found a partner, because others are discouraged when they see her untidy living environment.

Boys are usually regarded as "sloppy", but as a monitor, Chen Xiao always keeps his clothes clean and tidy, and the books on his desk are neatly arranged. He is very self-disciplined, serious and responsible, and never reveals it. Everyone trusts him.

Once there was a parent-teacher meeting, his mother came to attend, dressed simply and concisely. Everyone knows that Chen Xiaojiali runs a grocery store. Since he was a child, he often helped his mother work and counted the goods in the store, and naturally developed the habit of tidying up.

Obviously, whether a child develops good living habits and hygiene habits from an early age has a very important influence on his later life, study and work.

Some people think that Einstein, Picasso, Mark Twain, Zuckerberg and other celebrities all have a "quirk", that is, they don't like to tidy up their desks, but this does not affect them to become geniuses and make outstanding achievements.

Moreover, Einstein also famously said, "If a messy table means a messy brain, what does a blank table mean?"

In fact, Einstein spent his time cleaning his desk to study and think, but most people just used it as an excuse not to clean his desk and room, but spent their time playing games, watching TV, sleeping late and doing meaningless things.

Einstein, Picasso, Mark Twain, Zuckerberg and other celebrities are the decisive factors for their success. It is by no means "not fond of cleaning up."

As ordinary people, we don't have Einstein's brain. We don't learn his spiritual qualities of diligence, self-discipline and hard study, but only learn some superficial kung fu. Isn't this "learning from the East"?

From the practical experience, although the chaotic environment can make people unconstrained, break the rules and stimulate imagination and creativity, they must also have firm willpower and strong interest, otherwise they will be defeated by the idea of enjoying and being lazy.

Moreover, being in a disorderly environment can easily lead to anxiety and rage, such as not being able to find what you are looking for; Being in a neat and orderly environment can make people feel happy, full of energy, full of vitality, do things in an orderly way and be more efficient.

0 1 Diligence and self-discipline

If you don't like cleanliness and don't tidy things up, you are lazy. Children who love cleanliness will be more diligent. On the one hand, I can't stand the messy living environment, on the other hand, I am very self-disciplined, and I will clean it regularly even if my home is not chaotic.

Attention to detail.

Children who love cleanliness often pay great attention to details and don't let go of any garbage when cleaning. Not only in life, but also in study and work, we pay great attention to details and pursue the ultimate in everything. As the saying goes, "details determine success or failure."

Have a sense of responsibility

Such children share housework with their families since childhood, so they are more mature, sensible and responsible. Not only do you tidy up properly, but you are also helpful. For example, when you see garbage on the road, you will pick it up, and your bike will get up when it falls on the side of the road.

The impression that a person is "in a mess" is very direct. At first glance, a sloppy appearance will give a bad impression. Words and deeds do not pay attention to details, such as littering and chewing gum, which also gives people the impression of rudeness.

Relatively speaking, clean children show good family education and high emotional intelligence, leaving a good impression, which will be of great help to study, life and career. Therefore, it is very important for parents to cultivate children's clean and tidy living habits from an early age.

First of all, to cultivate children's sense of order is not to keep the home clean all the time, but to divide the region and time.

Zoning is because there are always "activity areas" and "storage areas" in a home. For example, Cherrie Ying asked Jasper not to put toys in the living room, but only in his own room.

In different time periods, such as when children are playing with toys, they can play as they want, and parents do not interfere; But after the game, children should be guided to put away their toys and put them in a fixed toy box.

Secondly, parents should set an example. Not only love cleaning, but also cultivate children's good habit of cleaning up garbage in time.

Nowadays, people advocate "garbage sorting" more and more, but it is a rather complicated matter. Even adults may not be able to distinguish between "wet garbage", "dry garbage", "recyclable garbage" and "non-recyclable garbage", so it is more necessary to teach children from an early age.

Don't worry, this children's popular science picture book "My First Garbage Classification Book" allows children to learn while playing, and gradually learn the knowledge of "garbage classification" through fun games.

Moreover, this book also won the "Dapeng Nature Award for Life Enlightenment Award" and "My Favorite Children's Book Award" in 2020.

Why is this book so popular with children and parents? The reason for this is the following：

(1) is rich in content and colorful in illustrations.

This book uses eight panoramic views, thick paper and colorful illustrations. The book introduces the historical changes of garbage generation, treatment and recycling, so that children can understand the necessity of caring for hygiene and garbage classification from rich and interesting picture books.

2 origami games to attract children's interest.

Four oversized origami trash cans are included with the book, namely "kitchen waste", "harmful waste", "recyclable" and "other garbage". Parents teach their children DIY trash cans to let them know several kinds of garbage.

3 junk cards to improve children's cognition.

336 junk cards were also presented, which were painted with common items in daily life, such as soda bottles, light bulbs, packaging bags and so on. Parents can also compete with their children who know more and put these junk cards in the corresponding trash can.

(4) It is entertaining and economical.

Original price 48 yuan. Now all you need is 30 yuan to take this book home. The price is similar to that of a toy, but it can be entertaining, so that children can learn very useful knowledge of garbage classification in the process of playing games and become "environmental guards".

Finally, parents should be willing to let go and cultivate children's independence. Some parents dote on their children, fearing that they will be tired and injured, and never let them do housework. In the end, children will become "life idiots", and once their parents are not at home, children will become "garbage dumps".

Today's topic: Does your child like to clean up?

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