Some people have a soft spot for the infatuation of the male host when watching idol dramas. For example, in Why Shengxiao Mo, He Yichen, the male host, famously said: If there had been such a person in the world, everyone else would have made do, but I didn't want to make do! ?

After many years, this line still haunts many people, and He Yichen's infatuation has moved countless people. So there is? He Yichen in the Millennium? To describe this rare man.

If we look at it rationally, art is higher than the idealization of life after all. In reality, how can there be such a good man, and even if there is, how can you just meet him? Human ideals are always human delusions.

In fact, in real life, many people spend their time making do. Not everyone, like He Yichen, can resist so many pressures and temptations and not be defeated by reality. Just like the story in the TV series "Parents Love", sometimes even if you have higher requirements for love, you have to give in to reality.

In the love between parents, except for the hostess and the hostess who are better, most people spend their time making do. If it's wider, even Angie will marry Jiang Defu, because she didn't like it at first, so she chose Jiang Defu because she had no choice. However, after marriage, the two people developed deep feelings in getting along and found a balance point to get along with each other.

actually,? Will it be? It is marriage and love that is the normal state of Parents' Love.

Jiang Defu's good friend Mrding, whose two marriages are obvious examples.

Mrding and his first daughter-in-law Wang Xiue belong to an arranged marriage, which is similar to Jiang Defu's first marriage. However, the difference between the two people's endings is that Jiang Defu divorced early and met the true love Anjie who can spend a lifetime. Mrding didn't.

Mrding is a cultural person, with ideals and pursuits. She has always been eager to find a woman who has the same language as herself, so that they can make progress together, have a heart in mind, and achieve spiritual harmony. It's a pity that in reality, Mrding can only live with an arranged and vulgar wife, Wang Xiue, raising three children, and being provoked by daily necessities.

When Wang Xiue first appeared, Jiang Defu laughed his head off, and Mrding was embarrassed and embarrassed. In particular, the contrast between Wang Xiue and An Jie, the level of the two, others can see with the naked eye. Of course, this is not to say that Wang Xiue is not good. It can only be said that Wang Xiue is a vulgar woman who has no knowledge, does not know how to take care of her family, and cannot educate her children. She is completely inferior to Angie's interest and exquisiteness.

During that time, Mrding's life went on like a year, and two people cooperated tacitly, one inside and the other outside, for fear that the old comrade-in-arms would tease Wang Xiue when they met him. The truth is, even this? A lout? The wife frequently humiliates Mrding outside, and he is helpless. Even if he is unwilling, he can only make do with it. On the one hand, it is for my career, on the other hand, it is for my children.

Some people may think that Mrding is a little weak and has no courage, but there are not a few people like him in real life. Looking closely at the whole society, how many couples with broken feelings choose to make ends meet for their children.

After Wang Xiue died in childbirth, Mrding had the right to choose again. At this time, he also wants to find a woman who is as knowledgeable as Anjie. But the reality played a big joke on him. It was so easy for an old man with three children dragged by his second marriage to find a daughter-in-law who was satisfied and could accept several children. Finally, I went around and found Dehua who loved him for so many years.

isn't this Mrding's compromise on reality? No wonder that when Mrding and the painter got drunk, they had to ask him to draw a portrait of Anjie. It's not that he adores Angie and covets the wife of his comrades-in-arms. Angie is just an incarnation of his ideal wife. He can't hide that he can't find such a woman, so he can only bury it in his heart and fantasize occasionally.

Mr. Ge is in the same situation as Mrding. In some cases, what are they? In the same boat? .

Mr. Ge is very similar to Angie in terms of personal conditions, but his background is a little poor. The difference between her and Anjie is that Anjie met Jiang Defu who could give up everything for her and take off his military uniform. Teacher Ge is not so blessed. He has wasted half his life and is still alone. Originally, it was also possible for her and Mrding, but it was ruined for various reasons. By the time I was in my forties, I finally had a Wang Debiao who was willing to marry her, but she was the one who made things difficult for her in the past.

if I were a stronger woman, I'd rather die than surrender. But Mr. Ge didn't, but immediately promised to fill the house for him willingly. Why is this? It's just a guarantee for my old age. To put it bluntly, she just wants to keep warm with Wang Debiao and live together, which is better than spending her miserable old age alone.

Some people say that there are two kinds of marriage, one is called partnership, and the other is called the rest of my life. Obviously, Mrding and Mr. Ge are partners in their respective marriages, and only Anjie and Jiang Defu are called the rest of their lives. Everyone longs for the rest of his life, but the reality is that most people have become partners, and let the years pass by while working hard and taking care of their children.

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