People who love psychology are all people with "problems" in their hearts.
Many people study the mysteries of psychology. This is the first group of people.
The second kind is: people with inner problems, or people who encounter problems in real life and don't want to tell others, are eager to solve their own problems to learn, and then fall in love blindly.
The third type: because of the need of career development, to learn and gradually love psychology.
But many people forget one sentence: doctors can't cure themselves, so the more they learn, the more confused they become.
Through this kind of study, you get anxiety, just like drinking sea water when you are thirsty, and the more you drink, the more thirsty you are.
Therefore, people now study, not simply to improve, but to show off their skills after learning!
Back to our topic, people who study psychology are sick and want to heal themselves. Those who don't study psychology are ill and don't know it, that's all.
I hope it will be helpful to the questioner and welcome other friends to participate in the discussion.
I don't work in psychology, and I haven't done such a survey. But I am interested in psychology. Tell me why.
I am a highly sensitive person. I can feel the beauty of a flower and a grass. I also care about other people's words and deeds, a look, a frown ... I can't help wondering where I have offended ta. Therefore, in daily life, we often struggle with some small details that make you laugh to death [tears streaming down your face], so we will be a little tired and have too much meaningless internal friction. If you express your inner thoughts, it is easy to conflict with others and lead to unhappiness. It is also uncomfortable to struggle for a period of time without showing it. So how can I handle these thoughts, emotions and relationships with TAs? Therefore, it is as simple as having fun to reduce inner conflicts by understanding psychology. It is said that one in five people is highly sensitive, and there are still many. I feel that there are many people who love psychology, many of whom are like me [laughs].
I'm not sure about the rest, maybe it's just my career and financial resources.
Thank you. Self-righteous and neurotic
Doubt. People who love psychology know that people are unpredictable, so they basically don't trust people. Once, these people had too much psychology because of their hobbies, but they really didn't have the ability to fully understand and doubt everyone's life. Therefore, their psychological cognition is only the theoretical expertise of metaphysical dogma, and their relatively ever-changing psychology is the opinion of nine hairs, which comes from the suspicion of heart disease.
Selfish. Generous people are often ruthless and fierce, and people who love to study people's psychology are often selfish and self-centered. Because it is too difficult for them to predict themselves psychologically, they love to study psychology, and they are greedy for perfection, caring only about their own feelings and ignoring others' feelings, which is selfish.
Intense jealousy. Caring about everything is a common feature of people who love psychology. If they can't hide the kindness of others, they will get angry. These people are jealous because they have a heart in mind, but they can't beat others psychologically, so they are jealous.
People who like to study people's psychology must be careful. Careless people can't study the psychology of others. Careful thinking will form caution. Over time, habits will form too cautious, because too narrow-minded, narrow-minded.
People who love psychology, at least, know psychology. Without it, they can't study and analyze psychology. To understand psychology, we must first understand the influence of each other's personality, thoughts, family situation, occupation and external environment. Understand each other fundamentally, correctly understand each other and guide each other. Let them be psychologically liberated.
Psychology is to cure and adjust some different misconceptions caused by psychological pressure. For example, a person with low self-esteem is a person who has lost hope in life and lacks self-confidence. For such people, we should encourage and guide them to regain their confidence. Let him re-establish a correct outlook on life.
We should not discriminate or suppress such people. They are depressed and have no motivation. You criticize, pressure, and attack irony. Their psychology has not been improved, but it has aggravated their antipathy and depression. Not only did I fail to do it well, but I was tired and resigned.
Everyone is willing to listen to the words of "flattery", which makes people praise and be happy from the heart. Good spirits, everything is fine. Everything goes well and the career is vigorous. This kind of feeling, not only I have, I believe everyone has it! Heart disease still needs a cardiologist. This sentence is a famous saying from ancient times to today. Drug treatment is only one aspect, and sometimes drugs are ineffective.
I feel that many people who don't understand psychology especially "mystify" psychology, thinking that those who study psychology or understand psychology can see through all the psychology of others, and feel that those who study psychology are particularly terrible; Some people are misled by some film and television works and think that people who study psychology are "abnormal" in their hearts. Actually, it's not.
I want to say:
1. People who actively study and love psychology are "introverts". Because psychology is a science, a science related to human beings, because people who are curious about human beings and love psychology hope to know all kinds of reasons about themselves through understanding and learning scientific knowledge?
2. People who really love psychology and study psychology are mostly warm-hearted. They hope to help people around them, answer their doubts, relieve others' confusion and guide them to find their inner direction through mastering knowledge and improving energy.
People who love and study psychology are thoughtful people. They want to find a "reason" for their inner thoughts, or see other people's thoughts and reactions, think about the direction of life, and explore the logic behind the problem.
Because psychology is ubiquitous in this era, they may come from all walks of life, may be professionals who are committed to organizing research, improving management and applying management psychology, may be parents who are committed to improving children and parenting education, may be professional psychological counselors or career counselors who are trying to help others, and may also be personal growth people who are committed to self-improvement.
In short, as long as you are on this road of exploration, you may be here.
I am a person who likes psychology very much, but I don't like all the subjects of psychology, but I have a strong purpose.
20 19 has a very popular psychology course: Harvard happiness course. Professor shachar, a lecturer, said that when he switched from engineering to psychology, it was because he realized that he had been educated by the world's top class and had always performed well, but he was always unhappy. His motivation to study psychology is to learn or cultivate a kind of ability that can make him happy, which led to the Harvard Happy Course more than ten years later.
I believe that many people who begin to understand psychology also want to make their lives better and cultivate an ability that can make them happy or happy.
Unfortunately, not all psychology subjects are suitable for those of us who want to be more active and happy. People who come to class have nothing to say, and they need to have a systematic understanding and combing of all psychological disciplines, so as to be conducive to critical thinking and research in the future. But as a monk who wants to change our daily life, if we read those pathological analyses, the more we read, the more painful we will be.
So, if you love psychology, you might as well start with positive psychology, listen to Harvard's happiness course or read seligman's "Sustained Happiness" and other books. These theories are rigorous in logic, supported by a large number of research data, practical and can be easily applied to life.
Most people who love psychology are actually very simple and just want to live a better life. Life needs wisdom. When we can't draw enough nutrients from experience and environment, we might as well learn psychology and maybe find the direction of our efforts. At least, I feel happier now than before.
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Happy MengMeng, deeply cultivate the psychological field. Welcome to pay attention and explore the mystery of psychology with me.
Psychology is a tool, and those who love psychology are all high-quality people with certain self-awareness.
I think people who love psychology have a desire to explore themselves, and their psychology has a "why". This reason may be related to their growing environment, people or their own emotions. When we try to understand others, we should first understand ourselves. Only in this way can we have empathy.
In my opinion, people who love psychology will have some similar characteristics:
For example, it may have strong learning ability, self-awareness and self-reflection ability.
Most people who love psychology should be sensitive, kind, delicate, good at capturing details and tolerant, plus professional knowledge and practical skills, in order to help more people.