I want to make my aura stronger, more confident, and more courageous. How can I do this in life?

To make your aura strong, self-confidence is necessary. How to make yourself confident? You must have your own opinions in doing things, but you are not blind. You must have leadership skills so that others can trust you. , you will unconsciously feel that you have aura. How can short girls make their aura stronger?

First of all, don’t compare your shortcomings with the strengths of others. Maybe I am short in stature, but as long as I am capable and have a calmer mind, my confidence will increase, and my aura and other things will naturally improve. Secondly, aura can also be divided into good and bad. A good aura can affect the emotions of many people around you and soothe their uneasy and negative emotions. For example, Mother Teresa, after she enters the venue, everyone present can feel her energy field, and everyone can become peaceful because of her. This is the truly powerful aura, and how to make your own aura strong

If you are selfless, fearless, calm and magnanimous, and your inner world is full of beauty, your aura will become strong.

In layman's terms, if you pursue a noble ideological realm and quality cultivation, and make yourself upright, your aura will become stronger.

Girls. Quiet. But I feel more relaxed when I'm with people I know well. Not confident. Don't like to quarrel with others. Avoid trouble if you can. I haven't said any bad words in front of others. Like to keep a low profile.

I feel like they think I am weak. Just as weak as the wind. And I'm very thin. That's not actually the case with me, I just don't want to get into trouble.

And they think I don’t know anything. Don't know anything. Because I don't like to go out and play. It feels a bit looked down upon.

Although they usually take good care of me.

How to make yourself stronger? I know that being strong does not mean being domineering, nor does it mean being able to speak dirty words. It doesn't mean you have a bad temper. I want to be the kind of woman with aura that emanates from her heart.

Don’t speak. Facial paralysis. Pretending to be mysterious

There is a book called "Aura Training Techniques" that I highly recommend you read. I was a person with a very weak aura at the beginning, but after reading this book my aura slowed down. The slow start strengthens a lot. This book is now available online at Dangdang. It is quite cheap.

Let me give you a rough idea. First, it is necessary to hold your chest up and raise your head, and then you must have confident eyes, but Qian Don't become conceited, haha, that may be annoying and counterproductive. This will greatly increase your aura.

Another way is to practice in the mirror, say to the mirror "I am a noble and elegant queen." Then observe your own expression, remember it, and then slowly master it so that this expression can be relaxed and relaxed.

As for the details, I can't I can’t explain clearly, but I suggest you read that book. After all, it was written by a master, haha.

I’m not a salesperson. It’s true that this book is very good. I Will highly recommend!

There are also trial readings of e-books online and you can try them out. How to make your aura stronger?

A person's "aura" is the influence of respect brought about by the person's speech, behavior, conduct, conduct and other comprehensive temperaments. To sum up the previous aspects, if a person wants to improve his influence and be respected by others, he must be: confident, self-respecting, calm, capable, talk less, do well, optimistic, calm, moderate, powerful, and resourceful. Defensive, offensive and powerful.

1. You must be confident. Only if you believe in yourself will others believe in you. If you don't have confidence in yourself, others will not have confidence in you either.

2. You must respect yourself. As long as you value yourself, others will value you. If you don't value yourself, others won't value you either. In other words, you must regard yourself as a "character" so that others can regard you as a "character". On this issue, people should avoid the two extreme "births". One is to not regard yourself as a "person" and be too humble. In this way, others will look down upon you and think that you have no strength, ability, experience, and influence. This is a kind of life.

We must also avoid the other extreme "life", that is, treating yourself too much as a "person" and giving people the feeling of arrogance. Such people will give you the impression that they are too unmeasured, do not understand the rules, and do not know the weight. This is another problem. An extreme "life". Both kinds of life are unacceptable.

3. Find your position. Whatever your identity and role are, just do words and deeds consistent with it, so that others will think highly of you. If he is in his position, he will seek his own government; if he is not in his position, he will not seek his own government. Those in higher positions should not think too carefully, while those in lower positions should think more about implementation. You are a subordinate in front of the leader, a leader in front of the subordinates, and a colleague among peers. Only by grasping your position in work, entertainment, and social interactions can you be comfortable and recognized by others.

4. You must be generous and calm in your speech and behavior, so that others will think that you are capable and have good psychological quality, and it is easy for them to trust you.

5. The key is to get things done. It is important for people to observe a person and listen to his words, but the key thing is to observe his actions. No matter how well you do something, no matter how well you say it, but if you don't do it well, over time, others will think that you are exaggerating and have no real ability, and they will deny you.

6. Generally don’t talk about yourself. In general situations, especially social situations, generally do not talk about yourself, including your outlook on life, hobbies, ideals, likes and dislikes, personality, ways of doing things, etc. This is very, very important, and this is a very important experience for me. The reason is that a person's authority, influence, charm, and image are actually all "distance produces beauty, and obscurity produces beauty." If you talk about yourself too much, then there will quickly be no distance between others and you, and others will regard you as If you see clearly, people will think, "This is who you are, and you are nothing more than this." In this way, other people's awe, respect, and admiration for you will quickly disappear.

7. If you must talk about yourself, try to talk about your successful experience as lightly as possible. Note that this experience refers to a successful and objective fact. Even if you don't talk about it, others may know it. Rather than your inner world, your ideological success and excellence should not be neglected as mentioned in the previous article. Don't take your experience of failure lightly, as this will only make people look down on you even more.

8. Don’t show off your knowledge, don’t show that you have unique insights on many issues, and don’t talk high and low on many issues. Doing this will either make people jealous or disgusted, or make people think that you are boastful, or make people think that you are sour, or make people think that you are immature and stable. Moreover, as mentioned above, this will make people see your attitude clearly. Thought. Moreover, many times, others may not agree with your views.

9. On some occasions, speech cannot be too realistic, and sometimes certain clichés are even needed. As the saying goes, "The truth is hard to hear." Real implementation is sometimes hard to hear, and often points out other people's problems or social problems. In this way, either others will not like to hear it, or it will make people think that you are a bit "angry". Furthermore, telling the truth shows your true thoughts to others. As mentioned above, sometimes your true thoughts cannot be revealed. Moreover, telling the truth often leads to mistakes. What you say may be wrong, or others may not agree with your point of view. So sometimes a certain set of words may not be well said, but at least it will not make mistakes, and it will not make people see your true thoughts too clearly.

10. Don’t always agree to others, learn to say “no” when necessary. If you are easy to talk to and always promise others, it will be easy for others to get rid of you, and it is easy for you to do things according to other people's intentions. In this way, it is often others who influence you, not you who influence others. In this way, your The “portions” have to go way down.

11. Have a certain temper. When others do something that makes you feel sorry for you or hurts you, you should show it again and let them know that you are unhappy with what they did, so that they will not mistakenly think that you are okay or even satisfied with what they did. When you show After you are relieved of your discomfort, you may be able to avoid the next one.

12. Be a good person, but not a good person who is weak and can be bullied. The ancients said, "A good horse can be ridden by others, and a good man can be bullied by others." There is also a saying that "it is better to offend a gentleman than a boy." This is a wise saying. If you are a good person who is easy to bully, then others will certainly not take you seriously. If others feel that you are not so easy to bully, then they will naturally not dare not take you seriously.

When others are planning to plot against or harm you, they will not be scrupulous, and they may even simply give up plotting against and harming you. When others don't dare to plot against or hurt you easily, your influence will increase invisibly. At the same time, when you are afraid to offend you easily, what you say and what you do will not be easily denied. Naturally, your influence or "aura" will increase. To take it a step further, when they have hurt you, or have plotted against you, then you should find a way to make them pay for their plotting or harming behavior, or otherwise, if they have not paid for their plotting or harming behavior. At any cost, they will continue to hurt you next time, even more. How to make yourself confident in life?

As long as people understand themselves correctly and can view others and themselves comprehensively, they will feel that they are not so bad, but they may feel that they are not in the best state or care too much about other people's opinions or ideas. Others' views or ideas are often one-sided, causing you unnecessary inferiority complex. As long as you do something you can't do well a few times, you will gradually become familiar with it, and you can do it well. Give yourself more encouragement and believe that you can do it well! People can't back down when they encounter difficulties. Face it bravely! And make corrections resolutely! Be more optimistic! Smile more! I believe you will get better! You will be more confident. How can you make your aura stronger?

Of course To practice internal strength, you must first make your heart strong. This requires you to have enough experience and connotation to have strong enough self-confidence. A brother above said it right, light radiates from the inside out. If you are strong on the outside without inner support, it means you are fierce and weak on the inside. How to build your own self-confidence in life!

How much influence do other people have on you?

Their words will neither really make you succeed nor really make you fail.

What really determines your success or failure is yourself: whether you have done it or not, and whether you have done it right.

If you always look at other people’s faces and listen to other people’s words to do things, are you still doing things for yourself?

Are you using other people’s requirements to do things for yourself?

First of all, what you need to know is that no matter what you do or how you do it, there will be people who will look down on you, laugh at you, accuse you... But what does it matter? Only those who are too timid to do anything will judge you.

The message starts from reluctance, and reluctance comes from jealousy. Jealousy is because you are better than them, so sometimes it is not that you are worse than others, but that what you do is not perfect enough.

Then turn other people’s words or looks into motivation for you to work harder!