1. Sentences and explanations about etiquette in the Analects of Confucius
Sentences about etiquette in the Analects of Confucius in the Spring and Autumn Period:
1. Those who are not benevolent cannot last long You can't enjoy yourself while making an appointment. A benevolent person is at ease with benevolence, and a wise person is beneficial to benevolence.
Vernacular interpretation: People who do not have the cultivation of "benevolence" cannot maintain their simple nature for a long time, cannot be content with a frugal life, and cannot experience the inherent and long-lasting happiness of life. People with the cultivation of "benevolence" insist on and adhere to the character of "benevolence", and wise people will use the principle of "benevolence" to seek benefits.
2. Self-denial and restoration of propriety are benevolence. If one day restrains oneself and returns to ritual, the world will return to benevolence. It is up to oneself to be benevolent, but it is up to others.
Vernacular interpretation: To restrain oneself and do what is required by etiquette is benevolence. Once you restrain yourself in this way and follow the requirements of etiquette, everyone in the world will praise you as a benevolent person. The practice of benevolence depends on oneself, does it also depend on others? ”
3. In the use of etiquette, harmony is the most valuable.
Vernacular interpretation: The application of etiquette should be able to consider profits and losses, and the most valuable thing is to be calm and neutral.
< p> 4. Thinking of justice when seeing profit, giving orders when seeing danger, and not forgetting the words of his life for a long time, he can become an adult.Vernacular interpretation: As long as he can think of morality and justice when he sees financial gain, he will be successful when encountering it. A person who is willing to sacrifice his life when the country is in trouble and does not forget his daily promises even when he is in poverty for a long time can become a perfect person.
5. The use of etiquette and harmony is the most precious thing. This is beautiful; small and large, there are things that cannot be done, and it is impossible to be harmonious without etiquette.
Vernacular interpretation: The function of etiquette is to make people get along harmoniously and socially. Harmony. The beauty of the ancient sage kings lies in this harmony. No matter how big or small, everything is done to make people's lives more harmonious, but there will be times when it doesn't work. It won't work without appropriate restrictions with Li Lai.
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Confucius is the center of the description in The Analects, " The Master's style is overflowing with the maxims" ("Wen Xin Diao Long Zheng Sheng"); the book not only contains static descriptions of his manners and manners, but also vivid portrayals of his personality and temperament.
In addition, around the center of Confucius, "The Analects" also successfully portrays the images of some Confucian disciples, such as Zilu's straightforwardness and recklessness, Yan Hui's gentleness and virtuousness, Zigong's intelligence and eloquence, Zeng Xi's chic and refined character, etc. They all have distinctive personalities and can leave a deep impression on people.
Confucius taught students in accordance with their aptitude and gave different treatment to different objects, taking into account their different qualities, advantages and disadvantages, and the specific circumstances of their moral cultivation. Teaching. It shows the valuable spirit of being tireless in teaching.
According to "Yan Yuan", when the same disciple asked about benevolence, Confucius had different answers. He answered Yan Yuan that "restraining oneself and returning to propriety is benevolence" (one of the manifestations of benevolence). To restrain oneself and restore etiquette, do something not to do).
Answer to Zhong Gong: "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you." It is the choice of one's subjective initiative, and giving is the practice of one's subjective initiative. In terms of good intentions and bad intentions, to prevent good intentions from doing bad things, one must be careful in giving. Therefore, he answered with the principle of "Benevolence", and answered with details to Zhong Gong and Sima Niu.
Another example is, "Confucius answered Zi Lu: "My father and brother are here, how can I hear this and act like this?" "Because you also have people, so retreat." Answer Ran You: "Hear this and do it."
Because "asking also retreats, so advance." This is not only a matter of teaching students in accordance with their aptitude, but also It also contains Confucius’ high sense of responsibility for his disciples!
The main characteristics of "The Analects" are concise language, far-reaching meaning, and a graceful, gentle, gentle and implicit style. There is also the presentation of characters in simple dialogues and actions. At the same time, the language is easy to understand and close to spoken language, which is also a feature. 2. Confucius’ famous sayings on etiquette
If you don’t learn etiquette, you can’t stand up.
——Confucius
Confucius · Civilization · Politeness · Etiquette
If a person is rude, he will not be born, if a matter is rude, it will not be successful, and if the country is rude, it will not be respected. .
——Confucius
Civilization · Confucius · Etiquette · Politeness
Knowing shame is close to courage.
——Confucius
Civilization · Confucius · Morality · Etiquette
Words without words will not go far.
——Confucius
Etiquette
Etiquette means respecting others.
——Confucius
Etiquette
Be knowledgeable in literature and make appointments with etiquette.
——Confucius
Civilization · Politeness · Confucius · Etiquette
A gentleman does not compare himself with others, while a villain does not compare himself with others.
——Confucius
Confucius·The Analects·Friendship·Etiquette
A gentleman is a metaphor for righteousness, and a villain is a metaphor for benefit.
——Confucius
Confucius · Ideal · Analects · Law
Gentlemen are harmonious but not uniform; villains are homogeneous but not harmonious.
——Confucius
Confucius · The Analects · Virtue · Etiquette
Etiquette is like wine to people.
——Confucius
Politeness · Confucius · Etiquette · Inspirational
A gentleman is magnanimous, but a villain is always concerned.
——Confucius
Confucius · The Analects · Moral Cultivation · Integrity
A gentleman loves money and gets it in the right way.
——Confucius
Confucius·Integrity·Confidence·China
A gentleman is peaceful but not arrogant, and a villain is arrogant but not peaceful.
—— Confucius
Confucius · The Analects · Modesty · Etiquette
—— I have a bottom line —— 3. What famous words did Confucius say about etiquette and politeness? , or etiquette
If you don’t learn etiquette, you can’t establish it.
Do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you.
If you want to establish yourself, you can establish others; if you want to achieve yourself, you can achieve others.
If you are generous to yourself but do not blame others, you will be far from resentful.
When you see a virtuous person, you think about them all; when you see a virtuous person, you reflect on yourself.
When three people walk together, they must have a teacher. I will choose the good ones and follow them, and change the bad ones.
Be respectful in your place, respectful in your work, and loyal to others.
A gentleman is respectful and courteous, and he is respectful and courteous to others. He is a brother in the world.
He is loyal in words and respectful in actions, even in a barbaric country. If you are not faithful in words and sincere in deeds, how can you do it even if you live in the state?
He who behaves his own way with shame, and who can be used in all directions without dishonoring the emperor's orders, can be called a scholar.
Confucius said: "He who can do the five things is benevolent in the world." Please ask. Said: "Gong, generosity, trust, sensitivity, and benefit. Being respectful means not insulting, being lenient means winning people, being trustworthy means being able to do whatever you want, being sensitive means being successful, and being merciful means being able to win over others."
A gentleman takes righteousness as a pledge, conducts it with etiquette, develops it as a grandson, and fulfills it with faith. What a gentleman!
To make mistakes without correcting them is to make mistakes!
If it is passed, it will be changed in a hurry.
Don’t express your anger and don’t make mistakes.
Three armies can seize the commander, but an ordinary man cannot seize the will.
If a person has no long-term worries, he must have immediate worries.
No desire for haste, no small gain in sight. If you want haste, you will not achieve anything; if you see small gains, you will not achieve great things.
If you don’t uphold your virtues and don’t believe deeply, how can you live or die?
When making friends, keep your word.
Use literature to make friends, and friends to help people.
Three friends will benefit you, and three friends will harm you. Friends who are straight, friends who are understanding, and friends who are knowledgeable are beneficial. If you have friends, you will be brave. If you are friendly, you will be gentle. If you have friends, you will be sycophantic, which is a loss.
A gentleman wants to be slow in words but quick in deeds.
A gentleman who has nothing to eat and nothing to live in, who is sensitive to things but careful in his words, is Taoist and upright, and he can be said to be eager to learn.
Clever words mess up morality, and small impatience messes up big plans.
Clever words and charming words are fresh and benevolent.
Strongness, perseverance, woodiness, indifference and benevolence.
Those who are virtuous must educate themselves in words, but those who are eloquent do not need to cultivate virtue.
Listen to what they say and watch what they do.
A gentleman does not use words to promote others, nor does he use people to waste words.
The ancients couldn’t say anything, and they couldn’t catch it in shame.
A gentleman’s name must be something to be said, and his words must be actionable. A gentleman is nothing more than scrupulous about his words.
If you can talk to someone but don't talk to them, you will miss someone; if you talk to someone you can't talk to, you will miss your words. He who knows does not know 4. Verses about Etiquette
Verses about Etiquette
Three Character Classic:
Fragrance of nine years old can cultivate the bed; Fragrance of four years old can make the plow
The Analects of Confucius:
Those who are unkind cannot make appointments for a long time, and cannot enjoy themselves happily. A benevolent person is at ease with benevolence, and a wise person is beneficial to benevolence. "
"If you are determined to be benevolent, there is no evil in it. ”
“When you see danger and give orders, when you see benefit, think of justice”
“Don’t look at anything that’s not polite, don’t listen to anything that’s not polite, don’t say anything that’s not polite, don’t move that’s not polite”
"Poetry·Xiaoya·ChuCi": "The offerings of rice and glutinous rice are intertwined, and the ceremony is complete. "
"Zhou Li·Chun Guan·Si Shi": "Every country respects the teachers and chief ministers, regulates their etiquette, and assists the uncle. "
"Historical Records·Book of Rites": "When the Qin Dynasty was established in the world, they studied the etiquette of the six kingdoms and chose the best. "
"Book of Northern Qi·Huangfu Hezhuan": "It is long, deep and elegant, and especially etiquette. "
Clothing and appearance: "Disciple Regulations" requires: "The crown must be straight, the buttons must be knotted, and the socks and shoes must be tight."
Behavior: Confucius said: "A gentleman If you are not serious, you will not be powerful, and if you learn it, you will not be solid." (Note: "The Analects of Confucius·Xueer").
"Don't look at anything that's not polite, don't listen to anything that's not polite, don't speak that's not polite, don't move that's not polite" (Note: "The Analects of Confucius·Xueer") "The Analects of Confucius·Yan Yuan")
Confucius said: "If you can talk to someone but don't talk to them, you will miss someone; if you talk to someone who can't talk to you, you will lose your words. He who knows does not lose people, nor does he lose words." (Note: "The Analects of Confucius·Wei Linggong").
"Book of Rites" says: "Those who practice courtesy humble themselves but respect others" (Note: "Book of Rites·Qu Li Part 1").
The ancients said: "Don't blame others for what they can't do, don't force others for what they can't do, and don't suffer for what others don't do well" (Note: "Wen Zhongzi·Wei Xiang"). "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you (Note: "The Analects of Confucius·Yan Yuan")"
"Book of Rites" says: "It is not polite to go back and forth, but not to come back, it is not polite; it is not polite to come and not go back." It’s not etiquette” (Note: "Book of Rites: Part 1 of Quli").
Be civilized and polite
Although it is important to learn to be first,
It is also important to be civilized and polite.
Comply with school rules and regulations.
Be polite when meeting teachers.
The classmates are friendly to each other,
Friendship is held tightly by small hands.
Don’t worry about protecting public property.
I will do it to establish a new trend.
Civilized Bus Song
Students, please remember,
Line up when getting on and off the bus.
Get on the bus, don’t run around,
Prepare some change to buy the ticket.
In the carriage, don’t shout,
Be quiet and orderly.
If there are seats, don’t grab them.
The elderly and children will be taken care of.
There is no crowd when getting off the bus.
It is easy to fall if you waste time.
Be civilized and polite,
Go to school happily.
Everyone praises the white rabbit for being polite
Little white rabbit, cross the bridge,
Go to the bridge and take a look,
Oops, Father Goat is coming,
Waddling onto the bridge.
Little white rabbit, run back,
Stand at the bridge and wave with your hands.
"My father-in-law, please go through first.
Walk step by step."
The river laughed after hearing this,
The fish jumped up and down after hearing this, and praised the white rabbit for being polite.
Beautiful campus
The teaching building is really lively.
The willows are green and the flowers are pretty.
Classmates, jump and jump.
Be civilized and polite.
When you see the teacher, say hello.
When you meet your classmates, say hello.
Love the environment and come up with new tricks.
If there is garbage, a dedicated person will take care of it.
When you see waste paper, you bend down to pick it up.
It is everyone’s responsibility to protect the environment. < /p>
2. It is not possible to be harmonious without using etiquette.
3. Respect is closer to etiquette than shame.
< p> 4. It is better to be rich and polite than to be poor.5. The way is to be virtuous, and to be equal is to be polite.
6. Confucius said: "'The prime minister defends the public, and the emperor Mu Mu', is it a shame to take it from the hall of the three families? Confucius said: "If a person is not benevolent, what is the use of etiquette?" If people are not benevolent, what joy will there be? "
7. Lin Fang asked about the origin of rites. Confucius said: "What a great question! It is better to be thrifty than to be extravagant in etiquette; it is better to be sad than to be easy in mourning. Said: "After the ceremony?" Confucius said: "It's time to talk about the poems."
8. Confucius said: "I can speak about the rites of Xia, but I can't describe them in Qi; I can speak about the rites of Yin, but I can't describe them in Song Dynasty." Or he said: "Who can say that the son of the people of Zhen knows the rites?" ? When you enter the Ancestral Temple, ask about everything. When the Master heard about it, he said, "This is etiquette."
9. Confucius said: "Gift! You love his sheep, and I love his etiquette."
10. Confucius said: "If you serve the king with courtesy, others will think you are flattering.
11. The Master said: "It is not generous to live in a superior position, it is disrespectful to be polite, and it is not mournful when mourning. How can I observe this?" "
12. Confucius said: "Can a country be governed by courtesy? Why! If the country cannot be governed by courtesy, then what is the use of courtesy? "
13. Confucius said: "A gentleman is knowledgeable in literature, and if he makes an appointment with courtesy, he can also stay with me! "When Zi met Nanzi, Zilu said nothing.
14. Zi said: "Being respectful but rude will lead to fatigue; being cautious but rude will lead to strangulation; being brave but rude will lead to chaos; being straight but rude will lead to strangulation. . Isn’t it important to consider benevolence as one’s own responsibility? Isn't it just a matter of time before death? ”
15. Confucius said: “It flourishes in poetry, establishes itself in etiquette, and succeeds in music. "
16. Confucius said: "The hemp crown is a courtesy; now it is also pure and frugal, so I follow the crowd. Bowing down is a courtesy; bowing down now is a courtesy. ”
17. Confucius said: “To advance in ritual and music is a savage; to be late in ritual and music is a gentleman.” ”
18. Confucius said: “To restrain oneself and restore propriety is benevolence. If one day restrains oneself and returns to ritual, the world will return to benevolence.
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19. “It is up to oneself to be benevolent, but not up to others? Yan Yuan said, "May I ask what his eyes are?" Confucius said: "Don't look at anything that's not polite, don't hear anything that's not polite, don't say anything that's not polite, don't do anything that's not polite." "
20. A gentleman is respectful and courteous to others.
21. Confucius said: "If you are knowledgeable in literature and make appointments with etiquette, you can also be close to each other. ! ”
22. If the name is not correct, then the words will not go smoothly; if the words do not go well, the things will not be accomplished; if the things are not accomplished, the rituals and music will not flourish; if the rituals and music are not flourishing, the punishment will not be appropriate; if the punishment will not be appropriate, then the punishment will not be appropriate. The people have nothing wrong with their hands and feet.
23. The Master said: "What a villain, Fan Xu!" If you are good at etiquette, the people will not dare to be disrespectful; if you are good at righteousness, the people will not dare to be disobedient; if you are good at trust, the people will not dare to be unkind. ”
24. Confucius said: “If Zang Wuzhong has the knowledge and public humiliation, if Bian Zhuangzi has the courage, if Ran Qiu has the art, and writes with ritual and music, he can become an adult.
25. Confucius said: "If the etiquette is good, the people will be able to do it easily."
26. The next day he will be independent again, and the carp will cross the court and say: 'Learn from "Etiquette" 》Huh? ’ He replied: ‘Weiye. ’ ‘If you don’t learn the Rites, you won’t be able to establish yourself. ' Li retreated and studied "Li".
27. Confucius said: "The clouds of rites and rites are like clouds of rites, jade and silk are like clouds? Are clouds of music and music like clouds of music, and bells and drums are clouds?"
28. A gentleman has not performed rituals for three years. , the etiquette will be ruined; if you don’t take pleasure in it for three years, the pleasure will collapse.
29. Zigong asked: "Do gentlemen also have evil?" Confucius said: "There are evils: evil people who call others evil, evil people who live at the bottom and talk about superiors, evil people who are brave and rude, Those who are bold and bold will suffocate them."
30. Confucius said: "If you don't know destiny, you can't be a gentleman; if you don't know etiquette, you can't stand up; if you don't know words, you can't understand people." 6. About etiquette in the Analects of Confucius.
1. Youzi said: "The purpose of etiquette is harmony. The way of the ancient kings is beautiful." - "The Analects of Confucius: The First in Learning"
Youzi said: "The function of etiquette is to make harmonious relationships between people valuable. The former kings regarded this as 'beautiful' when they governed the country."
2. "Faith is close to righteousness, and words can be restored." Respect is closer to etiquette and far away from shame. Even if you are not a relative, you can also be a descendant." - "The Analects of Confucius·Xue Er"
Promise must be consistent with righteousness, and words can only be implemented if they are consistent with righteousness; respect must be If you comply with etiquette, you can avoid shame; if you rely on reliable people, you are worthy of respect.
3. Confucius said: "Xia Li, I can speak about it, but Qi is not enough to conquer it; Yin Li, I can speak about it, but Song Dynasty is insufficient to conquer it. That is why the documents are insufficient. If it is sufficient, I can conquer it. "——"The Analects of Confucius·Eight Yi"
Confucius said: "I can speak of the rites of the Xia Dynasty, (but its descendants) Qi State is not enough to prove my words; the rites of the Yin Dynasty are not enough. Li, I can tell, (but its descendants) the Song Dynasty is not enough to prove my words. This is all due to the lack of written materials and people familiar with Xia Li and Yin Li. If there are enough, I can get proof. . ”
4. Youzi said: “If you don’t know how to be harmonious, it is impossible to do so without etiquette.” - "The Analects of Confucius: The First in Learning." "
Youzi said: "This is true in all matters, big and small. When it doesn't work, it is not feasible to seek harmony simply for the sake of harmony, without using propriety to control it. "
5. Confucius said: "If you serve the king with all the courtesy, people will think you are flattering." - "The Analects of Confucius·Eight Yi"
Be able to serve the monarch completely in accordance with the true spirit of etiquette, and be able to perform courtesy according to the golden mean. . But it was regarded as flattery.