Satisfying children's desire for control is the first project. A strong-willed child. They like everything under their control. They want a free life, and they want a life that is not controlled by their parents. John F. Kennedy's famous words of freedom) So when a child is too stubborn to manage, this is the only command that parents can give to the child. You have to do this. You have to do this. Change your mind and give your children more choices. When giving orders, give them two or three choices and let them choose for themselves. In other words, satisfy children's desire for control and give them freedom. When children are free, there will be less fighting between parents and children.
It's also a good idea to try to distract children. When children begin to stubbornly express their views and it is useless to give them two or three choices, you can use your wisdom calmly, selectively adjust their attention direction and find their excitement. For example, because the child didn't buy ice cream, communication is useless. Is it effective to take children to visit Disney/see a movie? Sure, most of them will do. Divert the children's attention, wait until the children calm down before quarreling with them. After the parents and children calm down, it is much more effective to communicate on the premise that everyone is calm, right?
Don't nag your parents until you lose your temper I don't know if you have the same feelings as us. When someone nags in front, they will feel disgusted and bored. If you feel the same way as me, you should understand your children better. They also hate nagging parents. The child is stubborn, it's no use if you don't chew it repeatedly. Try not to scold children, relax for a minute or so before getting angry. If you calm down before persuading your child, it will have a good effect, and the child will be willing to talk to you then. Define the boundaries of children's behavior. Because most stubborn children often constantly challenge the limits of life, it is very important for parents to treat their children after they have challenged the boundaries set by their parents. For example, if you have agreed on a certain boundary with your child, the punishment agreed upon after the child challenges the boundary is necessary. Instead of maliciously punishing, attacking and insulting your children.
Take a deep breath and be the first supporter of your child. Deep breathing is an important skill all parents should master. Fighting with children is a lifelong matter, so learning to breathe deeply is really a very important skill and a necessary skill. What parents need to think about in life is to make themselves and their children live a happier and safer life. Parents can't let their children's lives get worse every day. Although the child is stubborn, he has been destroying it. If parents are more willing to arrange this behavior for their children to explore the world actively, you will find that you face the challenges brought by your children calmly. After mother calms down, will the world be restless?