Every family has a "book of relatives": Sister-in-law has no job, so you have to take part in planning; If brother in law wants to study, you have to care about all kinds of things. All kinds of things bother you because they have become your family. At this time, you are required to warm this big family with love and maintain the unity and friendship of this big family with your true feelings and enthusiasm. If you want to get along well with them, you must learn to pay skillfully. Below, we offer you several suggestions for your reference.

(1) Keep smiling at every relative. After marriage, people, whether they are relatives of their mother's family or in-laws, have frequent contacts for various reasons. You must learn to smile at these relatives and friends who come to the door. Because a smile means friendliness regardless of race or region, a heartfelt smile can quickly shorten the distance between people and invisibly increase your charm.

(2) Women who learn to understand and care for their loved ones are sensitive in nature. If you pay attention to the needs of others and care about helping relatives and friends out of trouble, your thoughtfulness will warm others' hearts like warm sunshine. For example, when your husband's sister-in-law is seriously ill, you should remember to visit more often and talk about topics she cares about or is interested in; When she is sad and unhappy, you should ask more kindly; When she is depressed by setbacks or blows, you should encourage her more. Your thoughtfulness and concern sometimes don't require much effort, but others will feel it.

(3) The word "thank you" warms people's hearts. In the process of communication with relatives and friends, the word "thank you" will be very effective if it can be used properly. Here are some rules: "Thank you" must be sincere. Say it when you really want to thank the other person, and give it feelings and life.

thank you directly. When thanking, don't mumble vaguely, and don't let others think that you are embarrassed to thank him.

find opportunities to thank others. Try to cultivate this good habit, because thanking others is not an innate quality.

(4) When mastering the art of apologizing brings trouble to your relatives or causes unhappiness to others, you must apologize to the other party, no matter how small it is. The most common way to apologize is to say "I'm sorry".

Apologizing to your loved ones in time can avoid causing a headache quarrel or even more serious conflict. From this point of view, apologizing is much more important than thanking. Apologizing is generally asking the other person to forgive himself, so it must be straightforward. When apologizing to others, you should be brave enough to take all the responsibilities, and it is best not to make any excuses for your actions, because finding excuses for your own mistakes will definitely dilute the atmosphere of apology and probably lose the opportunity for others to forgive you.

be good at accepting apologies. When relatives make sincere apologies to us, we should be considerate of him and forgive and comfort him in time.

Sincere apology and sincere understanding will make people feel the best feelings between people and deepen their relationship.

(5) Be grateful. Although those complicated and hard-to-remember relatives and friends make you feel strange, think about it. Those people have been with your closest and favorite person for twenty or thirty years. When you are not around, they are taking care of your lover.

aren't you grateful for this? So don't just be nice to your parents' relatives, but accept your husband's relatives and friends with all your strength.

(6) Always greet your relatives. Remember to greet your relatives on holidays and let them know that you have them in your heart and they are very important to you.