Those who cannot tolerate others are not worthy of being tolerated by others - Bernay

Only when you are not arrogant can you be arrogant, not by favoring others. Author: Zhuge Liang

The past is forgotten like smoke, and the world is wide with selflessness in my heart. Author: Tao Zhu

Life is empty and dull only in the eyes of dull people. Author: Chernyshevsky

The heavy night is the prelude to day. Author: Guo Xiaochuan

People full of joy and fighting spirit always welcome thunder and sunshine with joy. Author: Aldous Huxley

When you are angry, shut your mouth tightly to avoid increasing your anger. ——Socrates

Good temper is the best clothing a person can wear in society. —— Du De

No matter how you express your anger, do not do anything irreparable. —— Bacon

We should be careful not to hurt other comrades with words, but we should also be able to bear it when others use words to hurt us. ——Liu Shaoqi

Those who have a humble, cheerful, sincere attitude, and at the same time a spirit of patience are very lucky. —— Seneca

The vastest thing on land is the ocean, the sky is wider than the ocean, and the human mind is wider than the sky.

Tolerance contains the principles of life. Life without tolerance is like walking on a knife's edge. Children, if you can choose virtues, please choose tolerance first!

——Franklin

Tolerance is not only a kind of magnanimity, civilization, and mind, but also a state of life. Tolerating others is equivalent to tolerating oneself. While being tolerant, it also creates the beauty of life.

——Emerson

Tolerance is a kind of light of kindness, a supreme blessing, a relief for others, and a kindness to oneself. Only how many people can a person's mind accommodate, can he win as many people as he can.

A short story of tolerance

Zigong, a student of Confucius, once asked Confucius: "Teacher, is there one word that can be used as a lifelong principle?" Confucius said: "That is probably 'Forgive'. ""Forgive", in today's terms, means tolerance.

The prime minister can punt a boat in his belly

During the Three Kingdoms period, the Shu Kingdom appointed Jiang Wan to preside over the government after the death of Zhuge Liang. One of his subordinates named Yang Xi was withdrawn and slow to speak. Jiang Wan spoke to him, but he only responded. Some people couldn't stand it and muttered in front of Jiang Wan: "Yang Xi is so disrespectful to you!" Jiang Wan smiled calmly and said: "Everyone has their own temperament. Let Yang Xi It's not his nature to praise me in person; if he criticizes me in front of everyone, he will feel that I can't stand up, so he has no choice but to keep silent. place." Later, someone praised Jiang Wan as "the prime minister's belly can hold a boat."

Asking for punishment while carrying a thorn

Lin Xiangru was named Shangqing because of his meritorious service in "returning the jade to Zhao intact", ranking above the incorruptible ones. Lian Po was very unconvinced and threatened to humiliate Lin Xiangru in person. After Lin Xiangru learned about it, he tried his best to avoid and tolerate it, and not to conflict with Lian Po. Lin Xiangru's retainers thought he was afraid of Lian Po, but Lin Xiangru said: "Qin did not dare to invade Zhao because of me and General Lian. My tolerance and concession to General Lian was to put the country's danger first and my personal safety." Put your personal grudges behind you!" This was heard by Lian Po, and the story of Lian Po's "asking for forgiveness" began.

Renyi Hutong

During the Ming Dynasty, Dong Duxing, a native of Jiyang, Shandong Province, served as an official in the capital. One day, he received a letter from his family saying that he had a quarrel with his neighbors because he was building a house as a foundation. He hoped that he could use his power to come forward and resolve the matter. After reading it, Dong Duxing immediately revised a letter and said: "Sending books thousands of miles away just for the wall makes me laugh; you are kind and we are close neighbors, so why not give up two feet." After reading it, his family felt that Dong Duxing was right. So he took the initiative to give up a few feet when building a house. When the neighbors saw what the Dong family was doing, they also had some insights and followed suit. As a result, the two families gave up an eight-foot-wide space. After the house was built, there was an alley, known as "Renyi Hutong" in the world.