You put "isolation" in quotation marks. I don't know if it is to highlight the meaning of "ignoring" the child. Yanyan discovered in her parenting practice: Sometimes, children are "isolated" purposefully and Not a bad thing. Here are my personal opinions:

First, when parent-child interaction or parent-child play time, you must accompany your children wholeheartedly.

For example, today is a parent-child outing, so from planning to outing process, get along with your children throughout the process, communicate, explore, and enjoy the harvest together. Don’t answer a phone call, hold a WeChat meeting, or I will check the Moments and so on.

Being wholeheartedly means that your body, mind, and behavior are highly consistent with your child.

Second, when it’s time for everyone to take responsibility, everyone should do their part.

For example, when a child does homework at night, this is his task, and my task is unfinished work or my reading plan. The same study room, two lamps, two or three people, each busy, the years are quiet, but that's it.

I will not be like the camera at the intersection, staring at the strokes of children's homework. Each is responsible for doing his or her own thing well. If you need help, you can come to me, but if the problem is simple, yes If I can find the answer myself, I will not give it easily. I wonder if this approach counts as "isolation" in the quotation marks in the title? If so, then sometimes "isolation" is to cultivate children's true independence.

Third, both adults and children should understand that a child is an independent individual and must have the ability to think and act independently.

As parents, when it comes to the growth process of your children, you must do everything well for them - teach your children to try by themselves through demonstration - watch your children do it themselves, and become more and more proficient - able to do it themselves Everything needs to be done by parents and children - children are completely independent and do not need parents.

To paraphrase the classic saying: Parenting is a graceful exit. How to behave appropriately? How can we make parents feel at peace and let their children walk calmly? Purposeful "isolation" should be an insurmountable path.

I am Yanyan, a close mother. I integrate the Analects of Confucius and the Three Character Classic into parenting practice. Follow the public account: Two Moms