Nails and bad temper

There was a boy with a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him to hammer a nail in the backyard fence whenever he lost his temper.

On the first day, the boy nailed 37 nails. Slowly, the number of nails hammered down every day decreased. He found it easier to control his temper than to hammer those nails.

Finally, one day, the boy will never lose patience and lose his temper again. He told his father about it, and his father told him that from now on, as long as he could control his temper, he would pull out a nail.

Day by day passed, and finally the boy told his father that he had finally pulled out all the nails.

My father took him by the hand and came to the backyard, saying, You have done well, my good boy. But look at those holes in the fence. These fences will never be repaired. What you say when you are angry will leave a scar like these nails. If you stab someone with a knife, no matter how many times you say you're sorry, the wound will last forever. The pain of words is as unbearable as the real pain.

Say softly: people will always hurt each other because of some persistent insistence. If we can all start from ourselves and start to be tolerant of others, I believe you will receive many unexpected results.

friend

In Arabic legend, two friends were traveling in the desert. During the trip, they quarreled over a trivial matter, and one slapped the other. Feeling humiliated by being beaten, he wrote in the sand without saying a word, "My good friend slapped me today."

They walked on until they came to an oasis and stopped to drink water and take a bath. By the river, the one who was beaten almost drowned, but fortunately he was saved by his friend. After being rescued, he picked up a small sword and wrote on a stone: "My good friend saved my life today." A curious friend asked, why did you write it in the sand after I hit you, but now you want to carve it on a stone? The other replied with a smile: when you are hurt by a friend, write it in a place that is easy to forget, and the wind will be responsible for erasing it; On the contrary, if we get help, we should engrave it in our hearts, and no wind can erase it.

Friends often get hurt unintentionally; Help is sincere. Forget those unintentional injuries; Remember those who have really helped you, and you will find that you have many sincere friends in this world. ...

well-known saying

1, Pro 27:6 A friend's wound is out of loyalty, but an enemy's kiss is unnecessary.

It's not easy to beat yourself. This requires great courage and firm information. Think about it, have you hit yourself many times? I still indulge myself a lot. -romain rolland

3. It's never too late-it's never too late to start and never too late to be happy. -jane fonda beauty