Interpretation: Only by being generous and generous can we tolerate others. Only when you are morally noble and full of sentiment can you get the appreciation and esteem of others.
Only a tolerant attitude can tolerate others, and only a heavy moral character can take on great responsibilities.
1. "Tolerance can tolerate others"
Psychologists warn that a person who is not tolerant will be caught in troubles all day, leading to narrow-mindedness and easy to get angry, which is extremely harmful to his health. Imagine, if a person can't let go all day, defend others everywhere, and even be hostile to others, is it meaningful for such a person to live? A tolerant person is bound to be open-minded, kind to others, strict with himself and naturally respected by others. Life experience tells us that tolerance can make the other side learn from it and re-examine their behavior; Tolerance can keep yourself away from troubles, and naturally feel the peace of mind and the satisfaction of mind brought by tolerance.
Tolerance has rich connotations. Tolerance is a kind of tolerance, which reflects a person's purity of mind and maturity of thought. The so-called "stepping back and broadening the horizon" refers to the state of mind of tolerance and tolerance.
Tolerance needs to constantly reflect on yourself and improve yourself. Tolerance is a way to resolve contradictions and solve problems. Tolerance is to let go, as the saying goes, "a big belly can accommodate things that are difficult to accommodate in the world." Once a person lets go of those unpleasant things and forgives others, his life will be more meaningful.
Tolerance is the premise of harmony and the expression of civilization. A warm greeting and a kind smile can improve the indifferent interpersonal relationship. As the ancients said, "Harmony is precious", which shows the importance of a word "harmony".
Let's learn to be tolerant. There is a famous saying, "When you extend two fingers to condemn others, the remaining three fingers are just pointing at yourself." People always live in contradictions. To resolve the contradictions between them and tolerate others is to tolerate themselves.
second, "only thickness can carry things"
a gentleman should be like the earth, thickening virtue and containing everything. Paying attention to virtue means educating people and benefiting things with profound virtue. Nowadays, it is mostly used to train students to become talents with lofty morality and profound knowledge. As Liang Qichao said: "A gentleman receives things, measures generosity, and the land of Judah is full of everything. I blame myself very much, but I blame others very lightly. The name is noble and graceful, and it looks like it, that is, it is warm. "
"goodness is like water" means "Laozi": "goodness is like water, and all things in water conservancy are indisputable." That is to say, the highest level of good deeds, like the nature of water, is favored by everything without striving for fame and fortune.
the words "being kind as water" and "being virtuous" have the same meaning.