Passivity is guided by the will of others, and you are a participant, keeping up with others' footsteps.
When chatting with friends, I inadvertently mentioned that women are good at talking when they are in love. Ying Ge speaks softly like water. How can a word reach the lung tube after marriage? As cold as ice! Jokes are jokes, but they are very philosophical topics.
Women are like water.
Water is warm, hot and frozen. It is said that women are made of water. If you meet them at 0 degrees, the water will freeze immediately, which may hurt you. You pay with 100 degrees, and the water immediately boils and the reaction is enthusiastic. The heating and cooling of water is a passive behavior, which is changed because of certain external interference.
Life is like water.
Water can adapt to any environment, which is an active behavior. Whether it is flat or bumpy, whether it encounters mountains or rocks, it can always change direction silently, smooth everything and move on, no matter how many thorns and bumps there are at the bottom of the water.
The initiative of water is also manifested in "indisputable", and "water is good for all things without contending" is the wise saying of Laozi. Only by going down can we pour into the sea, be neither poor nor surplus, and abandon vanity. When time is not enough, we will continue to accumulate strength, and when the time is ripe, we will break through the obstacles and rush into the sea to complete our mission.
Be good as water, follow good advice, be active and passive, and listen to your heart. If you are quiet, I will keep it for a long time and never disturb your peace; If you are hot, I will boil, and I will never reduce your enthusiasm; I will freeze if you are cold, and I will never ignore your cold.