once, he suddenly stopped rehearsing and said, "This scene is the key to the whole play; If the heroine still plays so badly, the whole play can't go down! " At this time, the audience became silent, and his elder sister didn't speak for a long time. Suddenly, she looked up and said, "rehearsal!" " Sweep away the previous inferiority, shyness and formality, and act very confident and true. Stanislas Fukey said happily, "We have a new performing artist."
This is a thought-provoking story. Why is the same person so different? This is the difference between inferiority and self-confidence.
2. The story of Seiji Ozawa
Seiji Ozawa is a world-famous music conductor. Once he went to Europe to take part in a conducting contest, he was placed last in the final. The judges handed him a piece of music, and Seiji Ozawa was absorbed in conducting with a little preparation. Suddenly, he found a little disharmony in the music. At first, he thought it was a mistake, so he directed the band to stop and perform, but he still felt unnatural. He felt that there was something wrong with the score. However, the composer present and the authority of the jury all stated that there would be no problem with the score, which was his illusion. Faced with hundreds of international music authorities, he could not help but waver in his judgment. However, he thought twice and firmly believed that his judgment was correct. So he said loudly, "No! The score must be wrong! " As soon as his voice fell, the judges on the judging table immediately stood up and gave him warm applause to congratulate him on winning the contest.
It turns out that this is a trap carefully designed by the judges to test whether the conductors can stick to their own judgment when they find a mistake and the authorities don't admit it, because only those with this quality can truly be called world-class music conductors. Among the three contestants, only Seiji Ozawa believes in himself and doesn't agree with the opinions of the authorities, thus winning the title of this World Music Conductor Competition.
Self-confidence is a kind of strength. No matter whether you are in prosperity or adversity, you should face life with a smile and calmly. With self-confidence, life will have hope. "since heaven gave the talent, let it be employed!", even if fate plays tricks on us again and again, as long as you have self-confidence and a self-improvement and positive heart, success will belong to you sooner or later. Of course, self-confidence should be measured, otherwise, overconfidence will lead to arrogance and arrogance, which will inevitably lead to failure.
3. Discussion points of the story "Self-confidence-the light that shines on our success"
There should have been more Newton, Edison, Darwin and Einstein in the world science field, and there should have been more Tolstoy, Balzac, romain rolland and Dickens in the world literature field. However, many people who could have become outstanding talents have been buried, buried by what? Inferiority!
Because of inferiority, there is no courage to choose the goal of struggle; Because of inferiority, I dare not get ahead in my career; Because of inferiority, I lost the courage to overcome difficulties; Because of inferiority, you have to muddle along and drift with the tide ... Therefore, it is no exaggeration to say that inferiority is self-burying, self-burying and self-strangling! If a person wants to write down my regretful youth and write magnificent poems of life, he must get rid of the trouble of inferiority and light the lamp of self-confidence!
Lin Qiaozhi, a respected expert in obstetrics and gynecology in China, was an unwelcome person at birth-because she was a girl. When I was studying, I was discriminated against by my male classmates; In a final exam, a male classmate swaggered at her and said, "It's not easy for your female classmates to pass the exam!" Lin Qiaozhi replied without weakness: "What about female students? You get 1 points, and we want 1 points! " Spurred by self-confidence, she studied hard and won the first place in the exam.
Madame Curie said: "We should have perseverance, especially self-confidence! We must believe that our talent is used to do something, and no matter what happens, the living will always work as usual. " It is self-confidence that supported her to win the Nobel Prize twice after suffering the blows of lovelorn, widowed and social gossip, and made great contributions to the scientific cause of mankind.
of course, when I say self-confidence, I don't mean water without a source or trees without a root. Our self-confidence comes from our belief in the bright future of our motherland. We are a note of the movement of the times and a drop of water in the ocean of the motherland. Therefore, in the face of any setbacks or frustrations, we should not be pessimistic and decadent, and we should not despair and hesitate.
Students, get out of the valley of inferiority and light the lamp of self-confidence! We should all be strong in learning and living. Our life will therefore shine with magnificent brilliance.
4, masterpiece
The famous inventor Edison once said, "Self-confidence is the first secret of success." Archimedes, Madame Curie, Galileo, Zhang Heng, Zhu Kezhen and other well-known scientists in history, so they can succeed, first of all, because they have lofty aspirations and extraordinary and self-confidence. If a person wants to succeed in his career and be a strong man in life, he should first dare to think. Dare to think is to set your own goals, and you must pursue them. Never dare to think if you are not confident. I dare not even think about it, of course, I can't talk about success. Chen Jingrun, a famous mathematician, has poor language skills, and his teaching is difficult and unqualified. But he found that he was good at scientific research, so he increased his self-confidence and devoted himself to the study of mathematics, and finally became a famous mathematician.
the second is to dare to do it. It's not enough just to dare to think. The goal is only verbal, and it can't be achieved anyway. A person with strong self-confidence must be a person who dares to do and act. He will never take a negative attitude of waiting and waiting for life and lose all kinds of opportunities. He will show his talent in action and practice. Of course, the daring to think and dare to do here is not blind, let alone subjective fantasy and recklessness. This is proved by Lin Deman, a German psychiatrist, through personal experiments. In July, 19, Lin Deman sailed into the choppy Atlantic alone in a canoe. He was conducting a psychological experiment that had never been done in history, and he was prepared to pay the price with his own life. Lin Deman believes that a person can maintain mental and physical health if he has confidence in himself. At that time, the whole German nation was concerned about the tragic adventure of crossing the Atlantic alone. More than 1 brave men had failed in sailing one after another, and no one lives. Lin Deman concluded that these encounters were not physically defeated at first, but mainly died of mental breakdown, panic and despair. In order to verify his point of view, he conducted the experiment in person, regardless of the opposition of his relatives and friends. During the voyage, Lin Deman encountered unimaginable difficulties and was on the verge of extinction for many times. He even had hallucinations before his eyes, and his sense of movement was paralyzed. Sometimes he really felt desperate. But as soon as the idea appeared, he immediately blamed himself loudly: coward! Do you want to make the same mistake and die here? No, I will succeed! Finally, he crossed the Atlantic successfully.
Thirdly, I dare to face the reality and not be afraid of setbacks. There are inevitably some setbacks in one's life. If you want to succeed in your career, you must dare to face the reality and not be afraid of setbacks. In the face of difficulties, adversity, indomitable, indomitable. Only those who dare to think, dare to do, dare to face the reality and are not afraid of setbacks can have a successful career and be truly strong. Sima Qian inherited his father's ambition to be an official order. Unexpectedly, when he set out to write Historical Records, disaster fell from the sky? The implication of "the disaster of Li Ling" forced him to quit writing, but he was determined, endured humiliation, suffered from corruption, and became angry. After more than ten years of hard work, he finally wrote a masterpiece "Historical Records". Today's young students, I hope you will choose your goals, be firm and confident, and be a strong person. The road to success is in front of you.
5. Famous sayings
We love our nation, which is the source of our self-confidence. -Zhou Enlai
Give up on yourself. This is a poisonous snake that corrodes and eats the soul forever. It sucks the fresh blood of the soul and injects the poison of world-weariness and despair into it. -Marx
Nothing is more sinful than giving up on yourself. -Cheng Yi
Being born is not good for the time, and dying in obscurity is self-abandonment. -Tao Kan
Frustration leads to disappointment, and disappointment leads to vacillation. -bacon
The future of our motherland lies in us, and our future lies in our hands. -declaration of middle school students
We should have perseverance, especially self-confidence! We must believe that our talents are used to do something. No matter what happens, the living will always work as usual. -Madame Curie
Believe in yourself first, and then others will believe in you. -turgenev
self-confidence is the first secret of success. -Edison
Hard-working bees never have time to be sad. -Blake
Conceit is a kind of destruction to people and art, and pride is a terrible misfortune. -dimitrov
Inventors have the courage to advance in the unknown world only with the support of a great confidence. -Balzac
People who are not confident are not celebrities! ! ~
is it ok? Good luck! ~~
After Einstein's "Theory of Relativity" was published, someone once concocted a book "A Hundred People Refuting the Theory of Relativity", which collected a group of so-called celebrities to make a huge attack on this theory. However, Einstein was confident that his theory was bound to win, and he was dismissive of Dafa. He said: "If my theory is wrong, it is enough for one person to refute it, and a hundred zeros add up to zero." He strengthened his belief in winning, persisted in his research, and finally made "Theory of Relativity" a great theory in the 2th century, attracting worldwide attention.
One day, Newton was walking in the garden. Suddenly, a ripe apple fell from the tree and hit him right on the head. This very common thing caused Newton to think deeply. He thought: why do apples have to fall underground when they leave the branches? Why not fly to the sky and other directions? Therefore, he speculated that the center of the earth has an attraction, and that this attraction exists for any substance. Through research, he put forward a formula to calculate the magnitude of gravity. In this way, Newton discovered the "law of gravity" that shocked the world by dropping apples, and made great contributions to the development of science.
Madame Curie had won many honors that the world envied, but she was never intoxicated by them. A friend of Madame Curie was invited to visit her home. When she entered the room, she saw her little daughter playing with a gold medal just awarded to her by the Royal Society. She was shocked and immediately said to Madame Curie, "It is a very high and rare honor to get a gold medal from the Royal Society now. How can you play for your child?" Madame Curie smiled and said, "I just want children to know from an early age that honor is just like a toy, which can only be played. You must never keep it forever, otherwise you will accomplish nothing." It is really important to see that you will accomplish nothing by keeping your grades.
Edison was born in a humble background and lived in poverty. His "education" was only three months of primary school in his life. Because the teacher was always tongue-tied by his strange questions, he even said to his mother that he was a fool and would not have any future. Although Edison did not receive a good school education, he achieved great success with personal struggle and extraordinary intelligence, self-confidence, self-reliance and self-reliance. Self-taught, he stood up from thousands of failures with perseverance, rare enthusiasm and energy, overcame countless difficulties and became an American inventor and entrepreneur. He invented the automatic telegraph motor and phonograph; Experiment and improve the electric light (incandescent lamp) and telephone. In his life, there was a new invention every 15 days on average, so he was known as the "king of inventions".
Fan Zhongyan was interested in the world in Song Dynasty. He lost his father at the age of two, and his mother was poor and helpless, so he remarried to a family named Zhu in Changshan. After being a little sensible, Fan Zhongyan learned about his family background, said goodbye to his loving mother, and went to Nandu Academy to study hard day and night. In the middle of five years, he didn't unbutton his clothes and sleep well. Sometimes I feel very sleepy, so I wash my face with cold water. He doesn't even have enough thick porridge, so he often stays hungry until the afternoon before eating. In this way, he studied diligently, and all the five classics, namely, Poetry, Book, Rite, Book of Changes and Spring and Autumn Annals, were understood and mastered, thus passionately expressing his great ambition of taking the world as his duty. He not only put forward the great ambition of "worrying about the world first, but enjoying the world later", but also became a famous politician and writer in the Song Dynasty.
Mao sui recommended himself
during the warring States period, the army of the state of Qin besieged Handan, the capital of Zhao. Zhao sent Ping Yuanjun to Chu for help. Ping Yuanjun's diners were very confident, recommended themselves and asked to go. As a result, he finally persuaded the king of Chu to agree to rescue Zhao. Later generations used "volunteering" to describe volunteering and self-recommendation. This story also reflects that Mao Sui is a confident man.
Yan Zi made Chu
During the Spring and Autumn Period, Qi and Chu were both big countries. Once, the King of Qi sent a doctor, Yan Zi, to Chu, and the King of Chu, relying on his country's strength, wanted to take the opportunity to insult Yan Zi and show the prestige of Chu. Knowing that Yan Zi was short, the King of Chu had a hole five feet high next to the city gate. When Yan Zi came to the State of Chu, the King of Chu asked someone to close the gate and let Yan Zi get in through this hole. Yan Zi looked at it and said to the receptionist, "This is a dog hole, not a city gate. Only when you visit' Dog Country' can you go in through the dog hole. "I'll wait here for a while, and you should first find out what kind of country Chu is?" The receptionist immediately passed Yan Zi's words on to the King of Chu. The king of Chu had to tell him to open the gate wide and welcome Yan Zi in.
Jingwei fills the sea
After Yandi's daughter drowned in the East China Sea, her soul turned into a bird named Jingwei. Although small, Jingwei is full of confidence in the face of the vast sea. He often takes wood and stones from the western hills to fill the East China Sea and vows to fill it up.
Seiji Ozawa is a world-famous symphony conductor. In the final of a world excellent conductor competition, he conducted the performance according to the score given by the jury, and keenly found the discordant voice. At first, he thought the band made a mistake, so he stopped to play again, but it was still wrong. He thinks there is something wrong with the music. At this time, the composer present and the authority of the jury insisted that there was absolutely no problem with the score, but he was wrong. Facing a large number of music masters and authorities, he thought it over and over again, and finally said firmly and loudly, "No! There must be something wrong with the score! " As soon as the voice fell, the judges on the bench immediately stood up and gave him warm applause to congratulate him on winning the contest.
It turns out that this is a "trap" carefully designed by the judges, so as to test whether the conductor can stick to his correct opinion when he finds that the score is wrong and is "denied" by the authority. Although the first two conductors who participated in the finals also found mistakes, they were eventually eliminated because they echoed the opinions of the authorities. Seiji Ozawa, however, won the World Conductor Competition because of his confidence.