1, learn to praise, look for each other's advantages, and use "warm" language to make good medicine not "bitter". Enlarge or take advantage of each other's advantages to help them change their shortcomings. For example, teach playful children to do their homework with peace of mind. "You are so devoted when you play, and you will be equally devoted when you do your homework." Good words are warm in winter, and bad words add up to more than half a sentence, which also reflects the role of eloquence in communication. Say, "Say something warm, me?" Ensure good communication effect.
2. Learn to listen and listen to each other. When communicating, don't speak in a hurry. Say first, you don't have to win first. We have one mouth and two ears. Listen more and talk less, listen more and talk more.
3, learn to be frank, heart-to-heart, speak the truth, the truth to the mouth. To tell the truth, I like honest people and honest language very much.
4, keep pace with the times, browse the news more, know the buzzwords, and give people the feeling of "tide". Communicate with young people, if you can mention Xifeng's marriage, ant tribe and so on. , will undoubtedly narrow your mind.
5, just to his liking, Mao Zedong said, look at people to eat, tailor-made, according to people. It is necessary to know astronomy, history and geography, learn famous sayings and epigrams, quote classics, and improve the gold content of language. "Say straw as gold bars and gold bars as straw."
In addition, the following four points are also important:
First, study persistently and strengthen knowledge accumulation. Nowadays, people often mention speech and eloquence in their lives, but people's understanding and understanding of it have deviated. In addition to positive understanding, some people usually think that "eloquent" and "eloquent" are wonderful eloquence; Some people even think that the best eloquence is "silence is golden", one is "talking too much will suffer", and the other is "facts speak louder than words"! The reason for these statements is that they don't realize the essence of speech and eloquence and have a one-sided understanding of it.
Second, caring for life, strengthening life and accumulating life are the source of success of speech eloquence, and wonderful speech eloquence comes from wonderful life. The speaker Cai Chaodong's speech "Long live understanding" deeply touched the hearts of thousands of listeners in Qian Qian, Qian Qian, because he fought bloody battles in the front line of Laoshan and starved in the dark and humid cat's ear cave, witnessing the heroic scene of countless brave people dying for their country. Zhang Haidi's bumpy life experience and strong spirit of being physically disabled and determined make her speech have unique charm. Therefore, what you experienced personally is the most convincing and infectious.
Third, advocate true feelings and strengthen emotional accumulation. "Speech and eloquence are very emotional people. Eloquence without emotion, especially in speech contests, means that people have no life. On the surface, the eloquence of a speech is nothing more than telling it with your mouth. In fact, it is the speaker's intention and emotion that communicate with the audience. Of course, feelings can't be created out of thin air, and feelings should come from the usual experience and accumulation.