1. In other words, life is unsatisfactory nine times out of ten. In other words, it is impossible for a person to have everything go as he wishes throughout his life. There will be more or less "accidents" that cause frustration in various encounters on the road of life! If these "accidents" happen at different stages of life, even if there is "frustration", we can quickly adjust our mentality to face it~ If we say that we must take these "detours", we cannot escape, Then try to avoid not walking~ Look at the sentences below. By doing this, you can avoid a lot of detours~~ 1. Buy an alarm clock so that it can wake you up on time.

Snooze and lack of punctuality will become stumbling blocks to your work and career, at any time. Not only must we learn to be on time, but we must also learn to be ahead of schedule. Just like when you go to a certain place by car, the scenery along the way is so beautiful that you can't help but get out of the car and take a look. Later, although you still arrived at a certain place, you didn't arrive on time. The "alarm clock" is just a simple symbol and reminder. Really flexible and practical time is in everyone's heart.

2. If you don’t like your current job, either resign or keep silent.

When they are just starting out, they often have high ambitions but low ambitions, and are arrogant and arrogant. They are unable to do big things and are unwilling to do small things. Don't make a habit of being picky. Don't worry about holding an umbrella on rainy days. If you don't bring an umbrella, you are afraid of getting caught in the rain, and you will show dissatisfaction everywhere. Remember, if you don’t do it, it’s okay. If you do it, you have to do it well.

3. Everyone is lonely sometimes.

You must learn to tolerate loneliness, so that you can mature. Young people are used to laughing and joking, but when they arrive in a strange environment and face all kinds of people and things, they suddenly feel at a loss. Sometimes there is not even a place where they can talk to each other. At this time, don’t be impetuous, learn to meditate, and learn to endure loneliness. Think in solitude, mature in thinking, and sublime in maturity. Don't be distracted by loneliness and do boring and useless things, wasting precious time in vain.

4. Be prepared to be unlucky when you are lucky.

One day, a fox walked outside a vineyard and salivated when he saw the juicy grapes inside. But there is a fence blocking the outside, so you can't get in. So he went on a hunger strike for three days. After losing weight, he finally went into the vineyard for a feast. When it was satisfied and wanted to leave the vineyard, it found that it was too full and could not get through the fence. I believe no one would want to be such a fox. The retreat is equally important. Bring dry food when you are full and an umbrella when the weather is sunny. If you accumulate little by little, everything will fall into place. Some things may seem worthless today, but they may be worth a hundred times as much one day.

5. Don’t be as fragile as glass.

Some people always stare at themselves, so they cannot grow taller and cannot see far; they always like to complain about others, which also makes others extremely annoying. If there is no bitterness in the bitterness, how can there be sweetness in the sweetness? Don't be as fragile as glass, but as transparent as crystal, as brilliant as the sun, and as strong as wintersweet. Since you open your eyes and enjoy the coolness of the wind, don't complain about the tiny grains of sand in the wind.

6. Watch your mouth.

Don’t talk about yourself, let alone others. Talking about yourself often leads to arrogance and hypocrisy, and you lose yourself in the name. When discussing others, we often get entangled in trivial matters of right and wrong. Drinking and chatting with your colleagues and friends after get off work every day is not a good thing, because talking about colleagues and friends is often the topic. It's always bad to talk about people behind their back, especially talking about other people's shortcomings. These will lower your personality.

7. Opportunities are never "lost". If you lose them, others will get them.

Don’t take everything for granted, just wait and see, let alone place your hopes on “opportunities”. Opportunities are only relative to those who are fully prepared and good at creating opportunities. Perhaps, when you were regretting and complaining about losing an opportunity, the opportunity was seized by the same "unlucky guy" opposite you. If there is no opportunity, we must create it. If there is an opportunity, we must seize it skillfully.

8. If the phone keeps not ringing, you should call.

Many times, the phone will bring you unexpected gains. It is not a vase, but just a decoration. When you make new friends, don’t forget old ones. Having more friends makes life easier. One of the secrets of communication is to take the initiative. Good popularity and good reputation often help your career to reach a higher level.

9. Never get married hastily just because you are of marriageable age.

If you want to get married, you must find a partner who can share your heart and soul and support each other. Don't fall in love because of indulgence and games, don't let love affect your work and career, and don't let your life be hindered by a hasty and failed marriage. Being emotional can often lead to a penny gain.

10. Write down the things you want to do in your life, put the list in your wallet, and take it out often.

Life must have goals, plans, reminders, and a sense of urgency. When you string together small goals one after another, they become the big goals of your life. As life becomes richer and the environment improves, don’t forget that seemingly thin list in your wallet.