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This problem is too difficult to be explained clearly in one or two sentences. Some people have lived all their lives and are puzzled. Sadly, they never think.
I think the meaning of life lies in what kind of outlook on life you have and what kind of conclusions you will draw. Maybe it's more than just eating, drinking and dressing well. To put it simply, it is to strive to maintain a happy state of mind, a peaceful state of mind, courage to go forward, and selective amnesia that is good at forgetting unhappy things.
Perhaps the meaning of life is simpler, just in a delicious meal you have eaten, in your dream, in an unforgettable trip, in a pleasant long talk all night, in an unforgettable love-I am happy in the process of posting to you, and I really have a sense of accomplishment as a teacher and attending classes. For me, this is the meaning of life.
The meaning of life may lie in life itself. The essence of life is complicated. What kind of attitude you take to face life will let you see its side. I suggest you read Hugo's essay The Blind. The living are all blind. We believe in many things, but we can't see our stupidity and absurdity.
Let's find it together, which is a meaning of life in itself.
Let's be a good person, a person with a sense of humor, enthusiasm, interest, thinking, knowing how to enjoy life and appreciate it.
Not without knowledge.
Knowledge alone is not enough.
What is more important than knowledge is wisdom.
More important than wisdom is morality.
More important than morality is faith.
Morality can often fill the defects of wisdom, but wisdom can never fill the defects of morality.
(Dante)
That's how people should spend their lives. When he looks back on the past, he will not regret wasting his time, nor will he be ashamed of his mediocrity. In this way, when he dies, he can say: All my life and energy have been dedicated to the most magnificent cause in the world-the struggle for the liberation of mankind. (ostrovsky)
Motto of Life: (Selected)
Desire is half a life, indifference is half a death.
(Lebanese Ji Bolun)
A young man can lose this thing or that thing and give up this idea or that idea, but in any case, he can't lose and give up the desire to live. A person who loses and gives up his desire for life will inevitably become a person who is self-indulgent, indifferent to life and lives in despair.
Boredom is not an easy thing, because it makes life a heavy burden.
Everyone has a heart, some hearts can accommodate the whole human race, and some hearts can't even accommodate themselves. Everyone has a pursuit. Some pursuits give your soul peace and comfort, while others make your soul restless and distressed. People! What kind of person should I be?
The ocean is the largest in the world, the sky is bigger than the ocean, and the mind is bigger than the sky.
People can't be arrogant, but they can't be without pride.
(Xu Beihong)
Poverty is strong, not falling into the sky.
Wang Bo's Preface to Wang Tengting
Night light, five chickens,
When people are studying,
Black hair didn't know to study hard,
White hair regrets reading late.
No wealth is not poverty, no learning is poverty;
No position is not cheap, but cheap;
No year is not death, and there is no saying that it is death;
No children, no loneliness, no moral integrity.
Night talk around the stove 86
Poverty is the wealth of scholars, and frugality is the wealth of farmers.
Night talk around the stove 89
It is better to teach one son at a time than to leave a basket full of gold.
Rich family is not as good as poor skills.
If you don't learn, you can't be versatile, and if you don't want to learn, you can't succeed. You can't be energetic if you are promiscuous, and you can't control your sexual desire if you are dangerous and impetuous. Time goes by, your intention goes by ... what will happen!
I advise you not to cherish witch hazel,
I advise you to cherish your youth.
Flowers can be folded straight,
Don't wait for no flowers and no skills. (Tang poetry)
If you have nothing to do, just lie still.
Lie down until noon,
If you live to be seventy,
Only thirty-five. (folk songs)
Genius is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent effort.
The so-called genius refers to people who have perseverance, hard work, selflessness and selflessness.
(Kimura Kuiyi)
There are towering trees outside the forest.
There are many talents outside the university.
No matter how smart a person is, he will be lost if he has more concerns; A fool may give advice to a wise man.
What the madman says, what the saint chooses.
There must be my teacher for a three-person trip.
Where there's a will, there's a way. If you burn your bridges, 200 Qin passes will eventually lead to Chu.
Hard-working people are rewarded by heaven, and they have tasted courage. More than 3,000 armour can swallow Wu.
(Pu Songling)
You are constant, so why do you get up at night and sleep at night?
The most useless thing is to be exposed to the cold wind for ten days.
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With copper as a mirror, you can be well dressed;
Taking history as a mirror, we can know the rise and fall;
Take people as a mirror, you can know the gains and losses.
Philosophy makes people wise, history makes people wise, mathematics makes people careful, and logic makes people able to contend.
A year's plan is nothing more than a tree valley; The ten-year plan is nothing more than a tree; A century-old plan is nothing more than cultivating people.
The mystery of time
"It is impartial to everyone. In front of it, the emperor is as rich as a beggar. There are clear rewards and punishments for different people. It has brought fruitful results to some people, but only emptiness and sighs to others. For workers and peasants, it is wealth; For nurses, it is life; For soldiers, it is a victory; For self-learners, it is knowledge. "
Time is the fastest, slowest, longest, shortest, most ordinary, most precious, most easily overlooked and most regrettable thing in the world. uot。 (Gorky)
Husband, spring tree peaches and plums, summer shade, autumn fruit to eat; Trees in spring are thorns, so you can't pick their leaves in summer, but they have thorns in autumn. From this point of view, today is not a tree person, but a gentleman chooses and plants first.
Yuan Weimin talks about ecstasy.
If a person is really addicted to his career, even three sets of carriages can't be pulled back.
If you really want to make a difference in your career, you must first have a strong enterprising spirit, as well as a superman drill and amazing infatuation under the control of this enterprising spirit.
"Ecstasy" can make a restless child "quiet".
Ecstasy can make an adult who is keen on his career indulge in the pursuit of pleasure.
"ecstasy" can make people's thinking highly concentrated, enlighten people's wisdom and tap people's "talent"
A person in his infatuated world, no matter how bitter and tired, will feel endless fun.
Successful scientists are often people with a wide range of interests. More knowledge comes from erudition, and erudition requires a wide range of interests. The richer the knowledge, the greater the possibility of putting forward important theories.
When reading a book, I just feel as if there are very few things that can be used.
It takes time to realize that there is too much to read.
I just feel that I can't finish reading it all day.
When I grow up, I know that the time I can spend studying is too short.
Reading is the harvest, but also the sowing of tomorrow.
Reading is fun, but also sleepy, in order not to feel sleepy.
It is not easy to understand the words in the book and the years outside the book.
It is not easy to study, or you can't write your own life.
Confucius stresses learning.
& uot kindness is not easy to learn, but its cover is also stupid; If you know well and don't learn well, your cover will waver; Honesty is not easy to learn, and its cover is also a thief; Straight board is difficult to learn, and the cover is distorted; If you are brave and study hard, your cover will be messy; It is difficult to learn, but it is also crazy. & UOT (The Analects of Confucius Yang Huo)
Translation: I like benevolence but don't like learning. If I don't know the truth, I will be fooled if I become a good gentleman. I like being smart but I don't like learning. I can only play tricks and be bohemian; If you like honesty but don't like learning, you won't know right from wrong, hurt your sense of justice and harm others and yourself; If you like frankness and don't like learning, you will be reckless and impulsive, and you will hurt people without thinking. If you are courageous and don't like learning, you will easily make trouble; If you like strength and don't like learning, you will be willful, self-righteous, bold and reckless.
It is right to be angry.
"Ancient people were rich and famous, but they couldn't remember, but they were very attractive."
Gaspar was caught playing Zhouyi? 》; Zhong You wrote Spring and Autumn Annals; Qu Yuan's exile is a tribute to Li Sao. Zuo Qiu is blind and has "Mandarin"; The ruler of the revised version of Sun Tzu's Art of War; It's not Shu, but Lu Lan. Han Fei imprisoned Qin, expressing embarrassment, loneliness and anger. There are 300 poems, which is also an angry move of great sages. This person has a sense of stagnation and can't understand it, so he tells the past and thinks about new people.
At the invitation of Li Na, I gave her four favorite aphorisms:
"If Heaven wants to bring him down to Sri Lanka, he must first suffer from his heart, work hard on his bones and muscles, starve his body and skin, empty his body, and mess with his actions, so he is tempted to get what he can't do."
A thorough materialist is fearless.
"The road is tortuous and the future is bright."
"under the lash of fate, my head is broken, but I still don't look back."
Huang Zongying talks about learning.
A studious and persistent person will change his mind and temperament;
A family with studious people will change the family atmosphere;
There are more studious people in a society, and the social atmosphere will change.
May John Ruskin talks about reading.
"I'm serious here. I can tell you with great confidence that you should get into the habit of carefully pondering a word and finding out its inner meaning ... because you can read all the books in the British Museum (as long as life permits), and you are still illiterate and uneducated. However, a good book, if you read ten pages word for word and carefully, then in a sense, you will always be a knowledgeable person. "
Yesterday was an invalid check.
Tomorrow is an irrevocable deposit.
Today is the cash in front of you
Make good use of it, today.
Wisdom should be round, action should be square, courage should be big, and heart should be small.
Practice is close to benevolence, inquiry is close to wisdom, and shame is close to courage. If you understand these three rules, you will know how to cultivate self-discipline.
Anti-warp and self-cultivation
Money can arrive &; Uot house and uot, but less than &; uotHome & uot；
Money can arrive &; Uot drugs and drugs; , but less than &; Uot health and uot;
Money can arrive &; Uot gourmet uot, but less than &; Uot appetite and uot;
Money can arrive &; Uot jewelry; , but less than &; Uot beauty and UOT;
Money can arrive &; Uot Entertainment uot, but less than &; Uot Happy &; uot；
Money can arrive &; Uot books and others; , but less than &; Uot wisdom uot;
Money can arrive &; Uot flattery. , but less than &; Uot respects &; uot；
Money can arrive &; Uot partner and uot, but less than &; Uot friend uot;
Money can arrive &; Uot luxury goods &; Uot but less than &; Uot culture UOT;
Money can arrive &; Uot power and uot, but less than &; Uot prestige and uot;
Money can arrive &; Uot obeys &; Uot but less than &; Uot loyalty &; uot；
Money can arrive &; uotfalse & amp； uot； , but less than &; Uot practical learning and action; ;
Money can go to the villain &; Uot heart uot, but not as good as a gentleman &; uotchi & uot；
Selected Prose of Sun Danning's Peasant Woman
Stubborn people are blessed with light, and harmonious people will have money; Those who practice hard live long, while those who are generous live long.
Caigentan 22
With a formed personality, it can be popular everywhere.
(Tolstoy)
A prostitute's voice is good at night, and her marriage is fine all her life; A virgin loses her bald head and suffers for the rest of her life.
As the saying goes, "look at the second half by looking at people." That's a famous saying. Tan caigen
Fame and fortune are small breaks;
Living through life and death is a breakthrough.
buttery hatch
Teach children to be strict enough and calm;
Respect for the villain, respect for the heart can turn nausea.
Night talk around the stove
A rich family should be generous, but not jealous. It is both rich and poor. How can I enjoy it?
Smart people should hide, but show off. He is both clever and stupid. How can he be invincible?
Tan caigen
People who are filial to their parents will have feelings for society and the country, and will be loyal subjects.
An unsympathetic heart does not necessarily make a person a hero.
When you are rich, don't forget your friends and abandon your sad wife.
Although the cold kiln can shelter from the wind and rain, the love between husband and wife is bitter and sweet.
If there were no women in this world, there would be 50% less truth, 60% less kindness and 70% less beauty.
Family members have it, so they should not be furious and should not be abandoned easily; It's hard to say, there are other things to suggest; If you don't realize it today, you will be warned tomorrow.
If the spring breeze thaws, if the air melts, this is the family model.
Love needs understanding.
Loving a person is not complete possession, but a kind of trust and consideration. As long as it's not his intention, what can't be forgiven and understood? Because each of us has our own way of life and pursuit of goals, home is not the whole of life, but a comfort and sustenance. As long as the lover's heart will never change, then this home will always be stable and comfortable. What could be happier than this?
Only when young women living in the times cherish their ideal sentiment and moral quality in social communication can their survival have lofty value and she can get real happiness. If you don't cherish the golden years and use your youth as a commodity in exchange for your copper smell, then what awaits them will only be a sad ending.
A good wife and husband have less disasters, and a dutiful son and a loving father have peace of mind.
The ancient people's experience in teaching children: first, choose teachers to get people; second, be cautious in making friends; third, be respectful.
If there is a good home, there must be Qing Yu; If the family is not good, there will be more disasters. It can be seen that it is of far-reaching significance to accumulate good deeds and pass them on to future generations.
If you are virtuous and have more money, you will lose your ambition; Foolish and rich will benefit from this. It can be seen that accumulating wealth and bequeathing it to future generations will do endless harm.
Night talk around the stove
"Friends of gentlemen are as light as water, and friends of villains are willing to endure; A gentleman is indifferent to his relatives, and a villain is willing to rest. " (Zhuang Zhou's "Mountain Wood")
People who combine because of interests will abandon each other when they are persecuted by difficulties and disasters; Because of their nature, they will hold hands with each other in times of disaster and danger. The friendship between moral people is indifferent like water, while the friendship between greedy villains is the same as sweet wine; The relationship between moral people is indifferent but more and more intimate, while the relationship between greedy people is easy to break off. Therefore, whatever is aggregated for no reason will be dispersed for no reason.
Friendship is not known until you die;
Poverty and wealth are a state of knowing each other;
One is expensive and the other is cheap, and friendship can be seen.
(Zhai Gong)
Clear water means no fish, while clear people mean no friends.
Work with courageous people and never read without words.
(Zhou Enlai)
Smart and loyal people should look for;
Smart and hypocritical people should be vigilant;
Foolish and loyal people should have compassion;
Stupid and hypocritical people should be abandoned.
(Indian proverb)
Friendship doubles happiness and halves pain.
(bacon)
Make friends.
Moral confrontation, dereliction of duty, fear of friends;
Priorities can be * * *, life and death can be entrusted, and friends are also;
Sweet as candy, games are chasing each other, and friends are there;
Interests compete, sufferings depend on each other, and thieves are friends.
Brothers are not necessarily friends, but friends are often brothers.
(Franklin)
Live, let your friends not become enemies, and let your enemies become friends.
Pythagoras, Ancient Greece
Don't get friends by giving gifts, you must contribute your sincere love and learn how to win a person's heart in a proper way.
(Socrates)
The more stupid you learn, the more ignorant you don't learn, and the more stupid you can be.
Friends can achieve virtue, people without friends are ignorant, and virtue cannot be achieved.
Friendship is a kind of quiet and peaceful love, which is guided by reason and cultivated by habit. It comes from long-term understanding and recognition with * * *, without jealousy and fear. (USA)
Knowing each other is the most important thing. When people know each other, it is very important to know each other.
(Monk)
Friendship needs: loyalty to sow, enthusiasm to water, principle to cultivate, understanding to care.
People are always emotional animals, and people's hearts are always fragile. Can't stand the blow or the excessive warmth. Hatred can make people unforgettable, and kindness can also make people dream.
A woman in black, Chen.
The grace of dripping water should be rewarded with a spring.
Good words are not beautiful, good words are not beautiful. (Laozi)
People who want to become rich will not give their private wealth to others; People who value glory will not give their fame to others; People who value power will not give it to others. (Zhuang Zhou's "Tian Yun")
You can cheat everyone at some point, or you can cheat some people all the time, but you can't cheat everyone all the time. (Old Lincoln)
People are not as good as the sky, people are people, everyone knows him, and the sky is people, which is subtle and difficult to understand.
There is nothing wrong in the world, and there are no prisoners in prisons.
Chigo is few, Chigo slanders many.
The husband is loyal to the Lord, and the husband is loyal to the vulgar, so it is natural. Therefore, the trees in the forest are beautiful, and the piles to be destroyed by the wind come from the shore. The traffic will be turbulent and the journey will be higher than that of people, but the public will not.
Real light
It is by no means a time without darkness.
Never be overwhelmed by darkness.
The real hero
It is by no means that there will never be humble feelings.
Never give in to humble feelings.
(Fu Lei)
If you are brave, you will become stupid. (Su Dongpo)
Big things are clear, small things are confused;
Be generous to others. Self-encouragement)
Small is a big prank.
Be angry for one day, lest you complain for a hundred days.
Letter from Zheng Banqiao
A letter thousands of miles away is just a wall, so what's the harm in letting him go three feet? The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but the former Qin Shihuang is not there.
People will insult themselves, and then others will insult themselves;
The family will destroy itself, and then people will be destroyed;
The country will cut itself, and then the people will cut themselves.
Mencius' On Li Lou
Anger is to punish your own foolish behavior with other people's mistakes.
Unfortunately, it may be a blessing in disguise. (Laozi)
Once frustrated, I have deepened my understanding of life.
A mistake adds one point to the awakening of life.
Unfortunately, once, my understanding of the world was mature.
After suffering once, I understand the meaning of success again.
Those who destroy people are not beautiful, and those who destroy people slander and repair can be freed and promoted;
Deceiving others is not a blessing, but people who are deceived by others will grow up in appearance when they encounter resistance, and they can turn disasters into joy.
Caigentan 96
If heaven wants to harm others, it must first repay arrogance with micro-blessings, so the blessings need not be happy, depending on what he will suffer;
God wants to bless people, first of all, it must be minor disasters, so don't worry about disasters, it depends on whether he will be saved.
Caigentan 98
If you are trapped in death, you will live and stay. Biography of Huaiyin
Cruel disasters are more common in negligent people; Full of merit, often defeated by subtle things. Therefore, as the saying goes: "beginning of life is inherently good, so it is necessary to prevent one person from being annoyed; Everything has merit, so we should prevent one thing from going away. "Vegetable root tan 56
The disaster that has become attached to the world is very tragic and fast;
Be prepared for danger in times of peace, the taste of freedom is the lightest and the longest. Tan caigen
Wide and fierce, soft and hard;
Love your enemies and kill your demons;
Seeing people bully, not the color, has an infinite wonderful taste in my heart.
(Message from Zhang Youfen)
I feel that people's deception is invisible to words, and people's insults are unmoved by color. There are infinite meanings and benefits. Tan caigen
Truth can always be bought at a price, but it may not be sold at once. (Qin Zhaoyang)
"Only without selfishness can he complete his selfishness." "Don't take other people's things, this is the real take." (Jia Yi)
If you want to be selfish, you will harm yourself;
If you are willing to be a servant, you will eventually become a master. buttery hatch
People who can make others rich when they make a fortune can't be poor if they want to be poor; When you become an official, you can let others be officials, but you can't get off if you want to; If you can make others have good luck after your own, you can't even think of bad luck. Mei Fu, who lived in seclusion in Siming Mountain, Ningbo, summed up this philosophy as: "The essence of achieving others is to achieve yourself, block others, and finally block your own way."
At first I was with others, listening to what they said and believing what they did. Now that I am with others, I listen to what they say and observe their nature. The Analects of Confucius Gongye Chang
Everyone knows that useful is useful, but they don't know that useless also has its role. (Zhuangzi)
You know honor and disgrace when you are full and warm, and you can compete for benefits when you are cheap.
But if I refuse to help others, I can't help others
No one can deceive me, and no one dares to deceive me.
Night talk around the stove
When working with others, don't work with others, and avoid working with others;
You can share weal and woe with others, but you can't share happiness with others. * * * Happiness is the enemy.
Tan caigen
The evil of attacking others is not strict, but thinking;
Teach people not to be too good, but to be capable. Tan caigen
I can't miss the advantages of others, but I can't miss them;
I can't forget people's kindness to me, but I can't forget my grievances.
Tan caigen
Don't blame the villain, don't send others for personal gain, and don't leak old and evil.
These three can cultivate one's morality and do harm to others. Tan caigen
It is indispensable to harm others, and it is indispensable to prevent others. This commandment has also been ignored; It is better to be bullied than to be bullied and hurt the police; Two languages coexist, smart and vigorous. Tan caigen
Translation: "The heart of hurting people is indispensable, and the heart of preventing people is indispensable." This sentence is used to advise people who are not alert enough when interacting with others; "I would rather be cheated by others than expose others' scams in advance" is used to warn those who are too alert. If a person can keep these two sentences in mind when getting along with others, it is also a simple and generous way to remain vigilant.
After vanity fair, it is not appropriate to be alone, but it can do harm to the whole body.
Instead of putting all the insults and humiliation on yourself, you should introduce some to yourself, so as to keep a low profile and cultivate morality.
Tan caigen
Living in a public language, he said, "Only public and clear, only honest and strong."
There is a saying at home that "only forgiveness means peace, and only thrift means prosperity." Tan caigen
Don't be hostile to villains, villains have their own enemies;
Don't flatter a gentleman. A gentleman is selfless. Tan caigen
I am expensive and serve, and I am honored with this crown;
I'm mean and humiliated, and I'm insulting this linen.
But it's not for me. Why am I happy? Why am I angry if you don't insult me?
There are officials who are poor and have no officials, and when they arrive, they are glorious.
-Qing Songping's poem "Friends Go to Be Officials"
The wind blows the sleeves to the sky, so as not to talk short.
-Yu Ming Qian "Going to Beijing"
There are only three ways to be an official: being clear, cautious and diligent.
-Luzon Benzhong
Let the people escape from the Tao, although they try not to complain, they live to kill people, although they die indignantly.
Pro-sages, far villains, this first Han is so prosperous; You little people, far from being wise ministers, have been so depressed in the Han Dynasty ever since.
(Zhuge Liang)
When there is a way in the world, saints have achieved their careers; When there is no road in the world, saints live happily.
(Zhuangzi)
Those who dare to shake the Lord kill, and those who are furious do not reward.
Do as you would be done by.
On Wei Linggong
Don't remonstrate with the past, but those who come can still catch up. The Analects of Confucius
Although wise, it is better to follow the trend; Although there is a foundation, it is better to wait. Mencius, gongsun and Chou.
Women are bosom friends, and scholars are bosom friends.
If a gentleman has a good name, he will think of deceiving others; The villain is justified, but he is afraid of others. When an old friend has a good reputation, he opens the door to deception; Making people unknown is the only way to become good people. Those who insult a good name should judge and blame the gentleman, not the villain.
Caigentan 90
Confucius said: "If the Tao is governed by politics, it will be punished and the people will avoid it; Tao is virtue, courtesy, shame and dignity. "
This passage of Confucius means that relying on politics, law and punishment to govern the country can prevent people from committing crimes out of fear, but it cannot make people feel ashamed; Relying on moral education to govern the country can make people feel ashamed and consciously embark on the right path.
The general public pays attention to wealth and wealth, honest people pay attention to special fame, sages and gentlemen advocate ambition, and saints cherish spirit. (Zhuang Zhou's "Tian Yun")
He who knows people is king, and he who supervises them is a minister.
A gentleman does not attract people with words, nor does he waste words with others. On Qi Gong Ling
An upright man is open and poised, little people are always sad.
Baili died in danger, but he dominated Qin. He is not stupid but wise in Qin, using and not using, listening and not listening. Biography of Huaiyin
All that can be said and done is a national treasure, not a national talent, a national tool or a national evil.
A defeated general cannot be brave; Dr. national subjugation can't save himself.