The essence of Hu Shi's Family Style Family Instructions:

To be the best person

To be the best person, this is an ambitious child. But ambition should be in your heart, in your kung fu, never in your mouth, never in your eyelids. No matter how ambitious you are, you must not be proud of others. Hu Shi's letter to his son Hu Sizu.

Introduction

Hu Shi (1891-1962), whose pen names are Tianfeng, Zanghui, etc. People from Jixi, Anhui Province. Modern famous scholars, poets, historians, writers and philosophers. He used to be Professor Peking University, Ambassador of the Republic of China to the United States, President of the National Peking University, and President of the Taiwan Academia Sinica.

Hu Shi is one of the leaders of the New Culture Movement advocating literary improvement, and the first scholar advocating vernacular Chinese and new poetry, which has had a far-reaching influence on the modern history of China.

Hu Shi preached liberalism, skepticism, democracy and science all his life to save China, and advocated the method of making bold assumptions, carefully verifying and proving what he said.

Hu Shi was deeply influenced by British philosopher Huxley and American philosopher John Dewey, claiming that Huxley taught him how to doubt and Dewey taught him how to think. These influences also went deep into his family education thought.

after becoming a father, Hu Shi, who has a strong Chinese and western cultural background, consciously undertook the historical mission of cultural maintenance, and also tried to practice the family training of towel country style with the western modern educational concept.

Traditional family precepts attach great importance to teaching children to be human beings, and Hu Shi also attaches great importance to the education of children to be human beings, even putting it in the first place. After the birth of Sizu, the eldest son, Hu Shi wrote a famous poem "My Son": Since you have come, I can't help raising you and teaching you. That is my obligation to humanity, not to treat you with kindness.

When you grow up in the future, this is what I expect from you: I want you to be an upright person, not my filial son.

In Hu Shi's view, being an upright person is more important than being a dutiful son.

This is nothing short of empty footsteps in the traditional old China where filial piety comes first. When Sizu left his parents to study in Suzhou, how to let his children learn to live in harmony with others and how to deal with interpersonal relationships were important issues that Hu Shi considered.

He admired Dewey's idea and habit of * * * sharing activities, so he put forward the sense of gregarious, and warned Sizu to learn to get along with others and think about how to get along with others.

You should do your own thing, but don't interfere with others; Try your best to help others, but you can't help others to do bad things. There is a basic rule of gregarious, that is, always think for others, and always think about what I should do if I do him. I can't stand it. Can he stand it? I don't want to, will he? You are a good boy if you can think like this.

No matter how good your grades are, you should always be humble and kind to others. The more people respect and love you, the more proud you are, the more people hate and despise you. The towel he gave his son was ambitious and showed how to be upright, while modesty showed how to get along with others.

No matter how to be a person or how to get along with others, its core value and purpose are to guide children to become independent adults and become independent people with the ability of independent thinking, independent observation and independent judgment.

Fu Lei's family training and introduction _ famous sayings and sentences

Fu Lei's family training and introduction _ famous sayings and sentences _

Fu Lei's family training is the essence of being a man; Finally, the pianist

First, be a man; Second, be an art tomb; third, be a musician; Finally, the pianist. A parting message from Fu Lei to his son Fu Cong.

Introduction

Fu Lei (198-1966), whose name was Nuan, was named Nuan. A native of Nanhui County (now Shanghai), Jiangsu Province. China is a famous translator, writer, educator and art critic. I studied at the University of Paris in my early years. He translated a large number of French works, including Balzac, Roman Roland, Voltaire and other famous works. His two sons, Fu Cong, Fu Min and Fu Cong, are world-renowned pianists.

Fu Cong was born in 1934, and he showed extraordinary musical talent since he was a child. Fu Lei once wrote: When Fu Cong was three to four years old, he loved classical music when he stood on a stool with his head just as high as my desk. As long as western music is played on the radio or record player, no matter whether it is vocal music or instrumental music or works of any music school, he listens quietly and will not make noise or doze off for a long time.

Fu Cong began to learn piano at the age of seven, and was sent by the China government to study in Poland in 1954.

In 1955, in the 5th Chopin International Piano Competition, Fu Cong won the third place, becoming the first musician from New China to win the prize in the international piano competition.

Fu Lei attaches great importance to his son Fu Cong's piano talent, but pays more attention to being a man other than piano talent. On the one hand, because morality can often make up for the defects of wisdom, and wisdom can never make up for the defects of morality, Fu Lei earnestly enjoins Fu Cong to keep a childlike heart, feelings for home and country, and an independent spirit; On the other hand, the improvement of piano talent also requires a sound personality and profound artistic accomplishment. As Fu Cong himself said: Although competitions can make people famous quickly, many players who win the first place often disappear quickly. Music is not used for competition, and whether you have a deep understanding and unique views on music itself is the first important thing. Pianists should not be just horses racing. (Pianist) We should study the culture, art, philosophy and so on of the East and the West.

Fu Lei is rigorous, meticulous and meticulous in his work. In his letter to his son Fu Cong, he covers everything. Even the font size on my son's envelope and the paste position of stamps are clearly stated. In the future planning of his two sons, he also thinks for a long time. Fu Cong also succeeded in this order designed by his father.

Fu Cong said: My father's teaching is a natural reflection on me, so I don't need to think about it at any time. It has become a part of me, and it is my reason. When communicating with Fu Cong, composer Chen Gang talked about his understanding of Fu Lei's sentence: what Fu Cong learned from his father was Li Bai and Du Fu, and it was China's poetic feeling.

Fu Cong's interpretation of Chopin's lifeless flavor of Li Bai and Li Houzhu's melancholy of dying pain and hatred of home and country is to melt China's poetry and painting into European music. An artist should first be a person, a living person who loves life, a person with culture and spirit.

He Shuheng Family Style Family Training and Introduction _ Famous Words and Sentences

He Shuheng Family Style Family Training and Introduction _ Famous Words and Sentences _

He Shuheng Family Style Family Training Essence: Don't dare to relax a little

Discuss things about making a living, and all things that waste money and energy should be carefully considered, and should be done only when life is beneficial at present. Happiness is by no means given by the gods of heaven and earth, and illness is by no means limited by fortune, but is caused by people themselves. If you don't understand this reason, you are busy and have no future in your life. I will never regret my opponent's past failures in my life: I will never be forced to be lucky in the future: I dare not relax a little only what I should do now, so I will be relieved of many troubles. He Shuheng's letter to his son Xin Jiu.

Introduction

He Shuheng (1876-1935), whose musical name is Qi Xuan and his scientific name is Zhan Xiu. People from Ningxiang, Hunan.

proletarian revolutionist. A scholar in the late Qing Dynasty, graduated from Hunan Provincial First Normal School, a key member of Xinmin Society, and a member of Changsha * * * production group. China * * * early leader of the production party, a big representative of * * *. In 193, he returned from studying in the Soviet Union and served as the main person in charge of the International Relief Association and the National Freemasonry Association. In the autumn of the following year, he went to the Central Soviet Area and served as the executive member of the Central Committee of the Chinese Soviet Union, the People's Committee of Workers and Peasants Inspection, the acting minister of the Great J Affairs Department and the chairman of the temporary court of the central government.

after the long March, the main force of the red army stayed in the base area and persisted in the struggle. In February 1935, when passing through Shanghang County, Fujian Province, he pursued and died heroically for the enemy.

He Shuheng was born in a peasant family, and his father was a hardworking and simple farmer, who had a great influence on He Shuheng in doing things and being a man. When He Shuheng was 7 years old, because there were many children at home, his father restricted the children's appetite. He Shuheng has only one bowl of rice for every meal, so he is often hungry. One day, He Shuheng herded cattle home, and ate up his meal in a few minutes, but he still felt very hungry. He said to his father, if only you could eat like a cow eating grass, and you could eat freely. Father immediately told him: When you grow up, you will be full as long as you act like an ox. He Shuheng firmly remembered his father's words.

In 1927, in Shanghai, which was surrounded by white terror, He Shuheng was bold and cautious, resourceful and resolute in responding to the sabotage and stalking of Kuomintang spies, and persisted in the underground work of the Party with great perseverance. In July 193, faced with the arrest of Du Yanqing, the lover of two daughters and the second daughter He Shisi, Xia Chibing, the lover of the eldest daughter He Shishan and the secretary of the Special Committee of Southeast Hunan, was killed by the enemy in the streets of Changsha. He Shuheng held back his grief and educated his family to be determined to give up his life and forget his home. He said: A party member should not die in a hospital bed, he must die in the main road.

in 1928, He Shuheng was sent by the party organization to study in the special class of Sun Yat-sen University in Moscow, and participated in the Sixth National Congress of China. During his stay in Moscow, he was still concerned about the domestic situation and everything at home. This is a letter he wrote to his son Xinjiu in Moscow in 1929.

one of them wrote, my outlook on life is by no means to live in the countryside for a good end, and I must never be promoted and made rich for the whole family to be foolish and cowardly. Please pay attention to these words. These words of hit the floor have become important family precepts.

He Shuheng left his family to carry out the revolution, but he couldn't help but feel the feeling of being slaughtered for his son who was supporting his mother in his hometown but didn't come out for the revolution. In another letter, he told his son in detail: You should do whatever your eyes and ears can hear and your hands and feet can do, and you should learn to calculate, write, read, punch, shoot shotgun, play flute and so on. I hope he will be a man, filial and friendly. Few descendants of He family have made great achievements, but all of them have their own books and live by their own skills. They have been staying in the village of Youzichong, where their former residence is located, farming and working on the deep and shallow hillside, and living a farming life with their backs facing the loess. As long as you are capable and willing to suffer, you will have food. We all rely on our own labor to support ourselves.

We go in and out of the former residence every day, feeling upright and worthy of our grandfather. The descendants of He said.

family style, family discipline, family rules and famous sayings

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2. save the country by killing your body.

3. Don't be a wealth fan.

4. all the virtues's filial piety comes first.

5. If you have a clear conscience, why worry about rats?

6, full of pride, frustrated and calm.

7. To be ashamed is to make progress.

8. You must have a large body and a broad mind.

9. Revenge with justice.

1. It's hard to succeed in your family.

11. Speak with one's heart, and children will not cheat.

12. Make a promise for one thing, and your daughter will never change.

13, people without faith, everything is empty.

14, Zhang lost his life, shame is the most important.

15. Don't forget to be gracious.

16. If you are eccentric, you will regret many mistakes.

17. Get up at dawn and sweep the court.

18. Time flies, and the sun and the moon fly.

19. A promise is a promise.

2. People are happy, so don't be jealous.

21. Eat well, and the more delicious the garden vegetables are.

22. If the young don't work hard, the old will be sad.

23. A hundred acres of fertile land is not as good as taking your skills with you.

24. A penny wider in everything adds up to a penny.

25. We should pay more attention to our ideals and strive for the world.

26. Mo Daojun walked early, and there were even more early pedestrians.

27. Be tolerant of others, and be practical in the world.

28. If the motherland is in trouble, you should be a forward.

29, reading must be intentional, and a word is worth a thousand dollars.

3, from frugality to luxury is easy, from luxury to frugality is difficult.

31. Hiding resentment and using an arrow in the back will delay future generations.

32. Manage your family frugally, and there is nothing else to do.

33. utensils are clean, and tiles are better than gold.

34. If you think carelessly, you will lose more than your family.

35. A hundred years will pass easily, and youth will never come again.

36. If you really put it into practice, nothing can be achieved.

37, you should know that learning is difficult, and you should care about being diligent.

38, the ambition is to be fat and willing to mourn, and the heart is indifferent.

39. People should not be happy when they are in trouble.

4. You can't live without your neighbors.

41. Money is like dirt, and benevolence is worth gold.

42. Don't make the elders suspicious or make their parents angry.

43. A thousand miles does not bully the solitary, and a single tree does not make a forest.

44. It's better to be ungrateful to me than to me.

45. Respect teachers and attach importance to morality, love people and be kind to others.

46. A good wife and a good husband have fewer disasters, but a filial son and a generous father.

47. Always leave room for complacency.

48. Reading more books and understanding the past and the present can save you from worries.

49. Those who are lonely and lonely must try their best to be considerate.

5. You can't be a son of man if you value wealth and neglect your parents.

51. When you are in a rich place, you should pity the poor.

52. Be greedy for unexpected wealth and drink too much wine.

53. You should plan ahead for a rainy day, and don't dig wells when you are thirsty.

54. Don't be boastful when you are in control, but you should learn from yourself when you are slandered.

55. blame yourself and others, and love your beloved.

56. A distant mountain is hard to put out a near fire, and a distant relative is not as good as a close neighbor.

57. Sit still and always think about yourself. Gossip is not about people.

58. Don't complain about regrets, and don't count shame.

59, people should never follow, and people should not be happy when they are sad.

6, evil is not great, and a bad mind is in trouble.

61. If you show your talents without relying on yourself, you will be lucky if you don't try.

62. When you are young, you must appreciate the bitterness of aging.

63. You must be frugal in offering yourself, and the banquet guests must linger in haste.

64. Forgiving others is not an idiot, and idiots will not forgive others.

65. Being addicted to love is a sea of suffering, while being eager for profit is a pit of fire.

66, before the official, only respect, not one by one.

67. If you don't frown all your life, there should be no gnashing of teeth.

68. The back waves in the river push the front waves, and the new people in the world drive the old people away.

69. Don't talk nonsense, and don't be short-sighted and far-sighted.

7. There will always be days to think about, so don't wait to think about it all the time.

71. A year's plan lies in spring, and a day's plan lies in the morning.

72. Being lucky without virtue is not a good omen. Too much money in troubled times is a curse.

73. A white hair urges you to go, but you can't buy back two thousand gold.

74, beauty is not beautiful, water in the countryside; Kiss or not, hometown people.

75. Take the pleasure as a gift early, and the sunset will be short.

76. When the township party is in harmony, it disputes litigation interest, and the couple is in harmony and the family is prosperous.

77. Don't keep up with the times at any time, and don't be refined.

78. The father and son live in harmony and the family is unbeaten. Brothers live in harmony and the family is not divided.

79. Ying Hua is worried about the old scenery, so how can she teach others?