Giving is always more pleasant than taking.
In life, everything has cause and effect, and everything has reincarnation.
If you do too much evil, you will definitely get retribution; if you do too much good, you will get blessings.
As the Buddhist scriptures say: "Everything you give to others will eventually return to yourself."
Therefore, if you want to be loved, you must love others first; To get, you must learn to give.
Life is sublimated through giving again and again.
Giving is a kind of open-mindedness.
The poet Kahlil Gibran once said:
"Collecting nectar from flowers is the happiness of bees; but giving honey to bees is also the happiness of flowers."
In this life, you must not be too serious about small things. People who care about everything will live the most tiring life.
Calculating gains and losses all day long, you will gradually get stuck in the quagmire and unable to extricate yourself;
Always worrying about the rights and wrongs of human relationships, in the end you will lose your mind and become exhausted.
On the contrary, if you treat others with more understanding and act with more tolerance, you will find that your life will be bright and clear.
As a human being, you win by being tolerant and lose by being careless.
I have seen such a story.
During the Three Kingdoms period, the Shu Kingdom appointed Jiang Wan to preside over the government after the death of Zhuge Liang.
One of his subordinates named Yang Xi was withdrawn and slow to speak. Jiang Wan spoke to him, but he only responded.
Some people couldn't stand it and muttered in front of Jiang Wan: "Yang Xi is so disrespectful to you!"
Jiang Wan smiled calmly and said :
"Everyone has his or her own temperament.
It is not his nature to let Yang Xi say something praising me in front of everyone; let him say it in front of everyone If I wasn’t, he would think I couldn’t stand up.
So, he had to keep quiet. In fact, this is what makes him valuable. ”
Many people do. I believe that giving in is a form of cowardice.
Not really.
In the vast sea of ????people, everyone has their own ideas, so conflicts and stumbling blocks are inevitable.
If you care about everything and refuse to give in, you will only add infinite burdens to yourself and others.
Only by providing understanding and tolerance can we have an open-minded attitude towards dealing with things.
As the saying goes, take a step back and endure the calm for a while.
Those who can give others room and convenience are truly open-minded people.
Giving is a kind of wisdom.
In life, only by giving up can you gain.
As Jia Pingwa said: "Don't give up, give up small to get small gains, give up big to get big gains."
Many times, giving is not loss, but another kind of gain.
There was such a story a long time ago.
There is a farmer who wins the best crop award from the local department every year for the corn he grows.
Every time, he distributed his winning championship seeds to other farmers in the same village without hesitation.
Someone asked him: "Why should you give such good seeds to other people?"
He said: "I am good to others, but it is actually good for myself.
The wind blows pollen and scatters it everywhere. If my neighbor sows inferior seeds, the quality of my corn will naturally be affected during the pollination process.
Therefore, I gave my seeds to others, thus ensuring the quality of my seeds. "
The words may seem simple, but they are profoundly philosophical.
Everything in the world is between giving and gaining.
The so-called hard work,
Only by giving help can you get gratitude; by giving care, can you get a smile; only by giving love can you get affection.
Just like in the movie "Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon". A line from:
"When you clench your hands, there is nothing inside; when you open your hands, the world is in your hands." ”
Giving is a choice, an attitude, and a kind of wisdom.
People who are truly wise will know how to give up and dare to give up.
Giving is a state.
I don’t know if you have ever experienced this:
When you have the ability to help others. No matter whether it is material support or spiritual encouragement, even if they are insignificant, you will be happy for it.
This is because sharing itself is a kind of happiness.
As the old saying goes, "Giving roses leaves fragrance in your hands." This is what it means.
In life, the tighter you hold it, the more troubles it will cause.
But when you learn to share, your heart will follow you.
There is such a fable.
A man is the richest man in the area. He is often anxious when facing his vast wealth. .
Therefore, he specifically asked a respected old Zen master for advice.
After hearing his troubles, the old Zen master did not open his mouth to explain, but asked him to carry two books. The man went to the river to fetch water with a chipped bucket.
The man was full of doubts: "How can the bucket be filled with water when it has such a big gap?"
The Zen Master smiled and said, "Just carry them with you, but please remember to pay attention to both sides of the road." ”
When he arrived at the river, the man tried his best to fill the bucket, but the gap was too big and it still leaked as he walked.
Seeing that the water in the bucket was getting less and less. , the man felt very upset. Suddenly he remembered the old Zen master's words, so he began to pay attention to the scenery on both sides of the road.
When he saw the delicate flowers dancing with butterflies, he was surprised. Stunned.
Looking down, he saw the two broken buckets again. It turned out that the water flowing out of the gap happened to irrigate the flowers on the roadside.
The man suddenly realized. /p>
It turns out that the true happiness of a person is not how many things he has, but how much he can bring to others.
The writer Hu Xueyan once said: "If you want to do big things, just do it." You must know how to share with others, rather than just keep it to yourself. ”
In this life, only sharing can double happiness and halve pain.
Therefore, don’t be stingy or mean, life is happy because of giving.
The highest state of life is just one word: "Give".
To know how to be tolerant is a kind of open-mindedness;
To be willing to give is a kind of wisdom in life. ;
Learning to share is a way of life
Gorky has a famous saying: "Giving is always more pleasant than taking." ”
Life in this world is a long journey. If you want to be rewarded one day, you must have sown and sacrificed along the way.