Answer: Many people make mistakes and always look for other people's reasons. Such a person is irresponsible and unreliable. When dealing with such people, you must be careful.

“Don’t take refuge in things, don’t shirk your responsibilities, act in your own right, and be at peace with things.” This is the Tang family motto passed down by Tang Yongtong, a master of modern Chinese studies, from his father Tang Lin.

Reliable people are responsible. Whether it is family, career or social responsibilities, as long as they are borne by themselves, they will not shirk them. Such people can make their families feel at ease, make their leaders feel at ease, and give the best to those around them. Strong sense of security.

In the TV series "Ordinary Glory", the possible consequences of having sex with unreliable people are profoundly demonstrated.

In a transaction, financial investment manager Wu Kezhi handed over the documents required for the work to his colleague Xu Taiping in accordance with the process.

Xu Taiping received the document and during the process of submitting it to the leader for review, he accidentally omitted a supplementary agreement.

As a result, the leader discovered it and a fire broke out on the spot.

Unexpectedly, Xu Taiping not only failed to admit his mistake, but also tried to shift the responsibility to the interns.

Wu Kezhi, who has an upright personality, defended the intern and exposed Xu Taiping's shameless behavior, and then the two had a fierce dispute.

The quarrel between the two became more and more fierce. Xu Taiping began to throw dirty water, claiming that the supplementary agreement was missing from the documents Wu Kezhi gave him.

As a result, it was clear that Xu Taiping was not careful in his work, but in the end Wu Kezhi was dragged into the water and criticized.

This is what happens when you have sex with unreliable people.

Once something goes wrong, you not only have to bear the grievance, but you also have to pay for the other party's fault.

The greatest reliability at work is to take responsibility and not shirk.

No matter how many difficulties you encounter, you are willing to face them and get the job done, instead of just leaving the problem to others if you disagree.

Only by working with reliable people, you will avoid many detours and suffer a lot of grievances.

Inamori Kazuo said in "The Way of Living": "Sticking to the bottom line is to awaken the 'conscience' hidden deep in our hearts, and do our best to make our own life clear." /p>

So, if you lose your bottom line as a person, no one is willing to have a heart-to-heart relationship with you; if you touch the bottom line as a person, you will not be able to live a good life after all.

When you live in this world, you must know your own bottom line, don’t say anything that hurts your feelings, and don’t do anything that goes against your conscience.

Be sincere with people who are worth dating, and stay away from people who are unprincipled as soon as possible.

The bottom line is our lifeline. If you keep the bottom line, you will keep your life.