In fact, to tell the truth, the more I grow up, the more I feel that there is no need to deliberately maintain a true good friend, and there is no need to dwell on negation, sensitivity and self-doubt for this.

If a relationship is related to the future, you doubt yourself, that is, you doubt each other, feel unwilling, unworthy and unable to find a suitable solution. This means that you are not alone and there are many other problems. Therefore, this is one thing that we need to learn to accept separation slowly. In fact, all the friendships I have experienced that give up halfway will eventually find that most of them have some signs of disintegration, without exception.

At that time, no matter how you struggled behind your back and tried to change anything, it was actually difficult to return to the original comfortable state. As Lin said, some feelings are broken, even if they can only be reconciled, they can't be the same. The trouble and sadness of breaking the game have actually given us the answer. Of course, I admit that I have friends, practical problems and my own problems during this period. Instead of always obsessing about a certain reason, learning to be tolerant is the breakthrough for us to get out of a relationship. In fact, as we grow up, we will really meet many friends with different feelings. Some people walk with us for a short distance, others walk with us for a while, but you can count the people who can walk to the finish line together with one hand.

I understand now more than ever that a good friendship is a relationship of mutual encouragement, mutual tolerance, mutual demonstration and common progress in a better direction. Therefore, even if we can't be friends for some secular reasons in the future, I won't slander you behind your back, complaining that you should always look up to yourself, treat your friends and be responsible for yourself at all times, and don't affect yourself now because of temporary emotional fluctuations. Especially for classmates and friends who are still studying, academic and mental health is really important.

True friendship is a long stream of water, and it doesn't need to be done deliberately. We will think of each other, have time to chat together, have no time to struggle together and miss each other.