1. Although we appear to be a harmonious family on the surface, I always feel that I am the only "outsider" and no matter how much I give, it is in vain. I am not as good as a guest who comes to my home.

2. Who is not loved by mother and father? Why do I become like a "servant" in the family after I get married? I can love whoever I want. I really don't want to be a bully anymore. Why should they bully me for anything?

3. In your husband’s family, you are just a work tool without thoughts and cannot express your opinions. Wouldn’t you feel aggrieved if it were you? The "bowl of water will be balanced" that was promised before marriage is just nonsense.

4. The mother-in-law did not treat her daughter-in-law as a daughter when she was young, but when she is old, she wants her daughter-in-law to treat her as a mother. Greedy people!

5. Don’t dislike your daughter-in-law for earning less. You should blame your son for not living up to expectations and not being outstanding. If your son earns more, he may not marry her, and if she earns more, she may not marry your son. She was wronged when she married into your family. If your son doesn’t have the ability to let her be a full-time wife, please shut up!

< p> 6. What you never expected is that it is not only your husband, but also your parents-in-law who have a sudden change of attitude after marriage. Before marrying you, you had the final say and everything could be given to you. But once you get married, Can't we just let them do what they want?

7. Sure enough, your mother-in-law is not your mother. No matter how much you give, you can't get anything in return.

8. No matter how good a mother-in-law is, she is still a mother-in-law, and her focus is always on her son and her grandson.

9. If you have the conditions, don’t live with your mother-in-law. Your mother-in-law is never your mother, and she won’t feel sorry for you. Of course, a good mother-in-law is still very good, but a good mother-in-law belongs to someone else’s family.

10. In marriage, life is too trivial. Men are the key to a harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Daughters-in-law often say that they treat their mother-in-law as their biological mothers, and mothers-in-law often say that they treat their daughter-in-law as their daughters. I don’t believe this.

11. 80% of mothers-in-law do not regard their daughter-in-law as daughters, while 80% of mothers-in-law regard their sons-in-law as sons.

12. More than 90% of mothers-in-law do not regard their daughter-in-law as a family member, but most of the daughters-in-law initially want to treat their mother-in-law as their biological mother. Later, they find out that they are just dogs and they are not well-fed, so that’s it.

13. When living with your mother-in-law, try to be as relaxed as possible and avoid major conflicts. Mother-in-law is not a mother, and a daughter-in-law is not a daughter. She will hold grudges if there is a conflict. It’s not about who is afraid of the other. It’s about having grudges after the conflict that may not be solved in the future. Get along naturally.

14. I suddenly felt that the sentence I saw last time made sense. After you get married, you are a relative to your mother's family and an outsider to your husband's family. You are helpless and only you will never betray yourself.

15. People who work hard all day are criticized for eating too much and doing too little. They want the horse to run but also want the horse not to eat grass. What a delusion!

16. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it takes ten years to see the mother-in-law and ten years to see the daughter-in-law. It is not something that can be seen through at the first meeting. Only long-term contact can see through it. Only when the mother-in-law does it, the daughter-in-law will reciprocate, not just Let you say it with your mouth, there is no such thing as good for no reason in the world.

17. Slowly I began to understand that my mother-in-law is not my mother, and I cannot be treated like a daughter.