1． A famous psychologist said: Parents allow their children to express all their feelings - positive and negative - which is the best gift they can give their children.

2. French educator Lu Jun once said: Self-confidence is simply a miracle for career. With it, your talents can be inexhaustible; a person without self-confidence will not seize an opportunity no matter how talented he is.

3. American psychologists once studied the personalities of 150 very accomplished people and found that they all have three excellent qualities: first, they have tenacity in character; second, they are good at doing things. Achieve your own goals and continuously accumulate results; third, be very confident and not feel inferior.

4. Nothing will happen unless you have a dream first. Carl Schenberger

5. Praise, affirmation and a kind attitude improve a child's self-perception; criticism, blame and an indifferent attitude reduce a child's self-perception.

6. The first education you should receive in life is the education of love.

7. Only when there is love in your heart can you discover love and "wonderful" children, just like beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

8. Everyone needs praise and recognition; this is true for adults, let alone children. It's not enough to just discover your child's strengths and strengths, you also have to express your praise without hesitation. The best way to mobilize children is to give them praise and tell them that they are the best!

9. Do not criticize your children in public, as this method seriously hurts your children's self-esteem. The truly effective method is: praise in public and criticize behind the scenes.

10. Parents who do not love, do not show love, or do not show enough love will definitely cause psychological disorders and defects in their children to varying degrees.

11. The difficulties that a person's psychological disorders bring to a person's life are far greater than the difficulties that ordinary physical defects bring to people.

12. If you have a healthy mentality, a person in a wheelchair can live a happy life; but a person with sound limbs and severely damaged mental health can only linger in pain.

13. After investigation: out of 100 times of discipline by parents, the children benefited less than 5 times.

14. Children need human dignity. Children are the most emotionally fragile people and the least able to withstand blows. Children are more tolerant than adults, not because they are not angry, but because they are fully aware of their own powerlessness.

15. A kind word can warm you in three winters; a bad word can hurt you in six months. Adult words can build people up, but they can also destroy people. If the purpose of parental discipline is to cultivate people, then do not beat or scold the children.

16. Accommodating children is not true love, but harm. If you want to raise a scoundrel, then "indulge" him and "accommodate" him; if you want to raise a great child, then in the face of the child's initial unreasonable demands, you must adhere to the principle of love. , reject him on the grounds of love.

17. Love is unconditional and non-utilitarian. Healthy, perfect and humane love cannot be done just because the child has potential and brings glory to oneself.

18. Westerners’ philosophy of loving children: My happiest time is the time I spend with my children. My children give me the strength to get through this. It is only after I have children that I truly know what love is. Children make my life full of sunshine.

19. Human life is a journey of learning to love yourself. Only by learning to love yourself first can you extend love to everyone you meet on your journey.

20. The method of associating a good feeling with something is the most effective way to change people's behavior without forcing it.