1, speak softly

In real life, many people are well-intentioned and well-intentioned, but after export, they have gone bad. Obviously, it is concerned, but it has become an accusation. In other words, there is something wrong with the tone of the words.

Guiguzi once said: "The mouth is the door of the heart, from which all wisdom comes." Speak softly, don't speak too fast, control your emotions and empathize.

Step 2 work hard

Be ruthless, have a bottom line and principles, and don't be a nice guy. A person always listens to other people's opinions and never has his own opinions and opinions. Usually, he seems to have a good relationship with everyone, but at the critical moment, no one wants to listen to his advice. Work hard and keep the bottom line. When the bottom line is broken, it is difficult for people to turn back.