Whether this friend you are talking about is yourself? This sentence is a popular meme on the Internet. The main meaning of this meme about whether the friend you are talking about is you or not is that when you ask an unspeakable question, in order to clarify the relationship with yourself, you make a virtual friend and say that this friend asked the question. Or it describes some people who will not admit to something wrong unless they are caught on the spot, so they pretend to be a friend and say it was this friend who did it. The emoticon package of "Is this friend you are talking about is you" comes from a scene in the TV series "Mr. Wu Qihua" in which the doctor played by Wu Qihua talks to a friend and asks if the friend you are talking about is you. From this emoticon package It started to spread. "Wonderful Hands" is a 1998 fashion medical drama produced by Deng Texi and starring Wu Qihua, Lin Baoyi, Cai Shaofen, Chen Huishan and others. The play tells the story of the work and life of medical staff. It was broadcast on Jade Channel in 1998.