Like all games, fouls and punishments are elements of love games. Of course, the premise is that the fouler has no intention of quitting the game. No foul is allowed, or if a foul is not punished, the game cannot be played.
3, a person, a nation, spiritual crisis, just shows that this person, this nation has a tenacious spiritual pursuit, with the courage of self-reflection. What is terrible is not crisis, but numbness.
A good woman is also good at protecting herself, but not by worldly wisdom, but by spirituality. She has the right intuition, which is her loyal life mentor, making her instinctively alert and distrustful of others.
Loneliness is the fate of human beings. It is based on the fact that each of us is an accidental existence in this world, from scratch and back to nothing. Nothing can change our destiny.
6. To know each other, the most important thing is the richness of the two souls themselves and the resulting mutual attraction, not their familiarity or even insight.
7. There is always a danger in a busy life, that is, being occupied by excitement, and gradually mistakenly thinking that excitement is life, and there is no life outside excitement. In the end, there is really only excitement and no life.
8. There can be no love, but if there is no desire for love, where is youth? There can be no understanding, but if there is no expectation of understanding, where can there be creation? You can wait for everything, but if you don't wait, where will you live?
9. For a noble heart, the biggest humiliation is to be jealous of others. This emotion exposed a fact that he didn't want to admit, and he felt inferior.
Many times, our inner eyes are closed. Therefore, we see the benefits, but we can't see the truth, the beauty, the world, but God. Our days are full, but our lives are empty, our minds are full, but our hearts are empty.
1 1. Life is a woman who is loyal to her life. You might as well try your best to dress her up and guide her, but no matter what she turns out to be, you should at least love her.
12, the feeling of first love is the simplest and strongest, but it also lacks connotation. Almost all first loves are similar. Therefore, although people can't forget the experience of first love, they often find that there are few things to remember.
13, a person must be neither too smart nor too stupid to be truly happy. People call this state between intelligence and stupidity the wisdom of life.
14, the only certain waiting in life is inevitable death. However, people seem to forget this and wait for something else, even to death. I am very sad and satisfied with this situation.
15. Wise people laugh at happiness like a dream, while fools seek happiness in their dreams. Neither of them admits that there is happiness in reality. It seems that a person must be neither too smart nor too stupid to be truly happy. People call this state between intelligence and stupidity the wisdom of life.
16, self-mockery is condescending to look at your weaknesses. Self-mockery is mixed with superiority and helplessness. Self-mockery makes self-mockers surpass themselves. A wise man laughs at his mistakes.
17, two ways to attract the opposite sex: first, show humor, wisdom and vitality, and arouse each other's curiosity; Second, show sadness, pain and depth, and arouse the sympathy of the other party. The unity of vitality and depth is the ultimate attraction.
18, great wisdom must be modest, great goodness must be tolerant, and great pride is often humble and peaceful. A person with a great sense of accomplishment should also have a mind that is tolerant of everything and tolerant of others. Smart and aggressive, little good people haggle over every ounce, little pride shows arrogance.
19, what is more precious than success is the pursuit itself. The pursuit that can be stopped by failure is weak, exposing the limited strength; The pursuit that can be successfully stopped is superficial and the limitations of depth can be seen.
20. Beauty thinks highly of herself, and beauty is often reserved. Beauty is unwilling to be lonely, and beauty is often romantic. These two factors are mixed together and restrict each other, which is charm. A cold beauty who is reserved blindly, or a slut full of romance, has no such charm.
2 1. In this godless world, who dares to say that he has seen through all the detours and desperate situations, so he is no longer confused and no longer needs to look for them? I will always be confused and always look for it. Confusion is my honesty, and seeking is my courage.
22. Great wisdom must be modest, great goodness must be tolerant, great pride is often modest and peaceful, and people with a sense of accomplishment must also have the mind to tolerate everything and be tolerant of all beings. Smart people are aggressive, good people haggle over every ounce, and small pride shows arrogance.
23. If a person can support himself by doing what he likes, and at the same time be with the person he likes and make them feel happy, it can be called happiness.
24, in an era of unprecedented devaluation of the spirit, if a person persists in doing it? Spiritual aristocrat? Rich in spirit and comfortable in material poverty, I believe he is really noble in spirit, not for vanity.
25. Just like what makes the desert look beautiful is a well hidden somewhere. Because there is an inexhaustible source of love hidden in my heart, the most desolate desert has become a beautiful scenery.
26. Love is a wonderful moment in life. Just like dawn and dusk, everything bathed in soft golden light becomes beautiful, including that kind of beauty. People in love think that beauty is the light source, but in fact, she is also the scene being photographed.
27. People reveal not only their own * * in the relationship between men and women, but also the beauty, ugliness, richness or emptiness of the soul. A person's attitude towards the opposite sex can best reflect his spiritual level and his height on the ladder from animals to people.
28. It's almost shameless to look at women only with * * eyes. But as a man, it is impossible to look at a woman. I can't figure out what a woman should look like in the eyes of a neutral man who has been filtered out.
29. Since all good values will become the past, it is necessary to recognize the rights of the past. The past is not empty, but the only possible form of all good values.
30. People with strong sexual desire are not too picky about their partners. Pickiness is the result of weak sexual desire, so we should use a reason to make up for this weakness. This reason is called-love.
3 1, many things, until today, when we can deal with them, we find how unnecessary they are. We used them, not because we needed them, but because we had them.
32. In love, the satisfaction of both parties depends on the feeling of the weaker party. If A loves B very much, and B only loves A five points, then they can only be satisfied with five points. The loss of the remaining five points will be a regret for A and a distress for B. ..
33. When a celebrity writes a famous book or makes other outstanding achievements, the power of judgment lies in history; Stars often appear in front of the public, so they are well known to the public, and the power of judgment lies with the public.
34. Life is purely accidental, so every life must be attached to another life, live together and walk together. Life is purely accidental, so every life does not belong to another life, like a gust of wind, without attachment. Every question has at least two opposite answers.
35. Love often takes time away from people, leaving an empty body and then leaving. Therefore, smart people are always wary of love, think twice before you act, or even don't.
36. Sometimes, a woman's hesitation or even resistance is an expectation that you will break her fortress. Of course, the premise is? Really interesting, kind-hearted? She is really in love with you. She refused to surrender because she hoped you could conquer her brilliantly as a hero and turn her into your glorious prisoner of war.
37. To make a long-term marriage, the general principles are intimacy and distance, openness and moderation. The best state is that neither side restricts the other's freedom with trust, and at the same time, it does not abuse its freedom with cherish.
38. In the contest, the emotional side will be at a disadvantage. How many strong emotions, angry or painful gestures can you persist without the audience present?
39. The most touching love seems to have no happy ending, and love is perfect because it is unfinished. ? Look at things like a dead man and live every day as if it were your last? .
40. Affection and singleness are not necessarily mutually exclusive. A man who is good at appreciating women, if he really falls in love with a woman, his love will be more full and devoted.
4 1, suffering can stimulate vitality or kill vitality; Can temper the will, can also destroy the will; Can enlighten wisdom, but also can blind wisdom; You can raise your personality or lower it, depending on the quality of the suffering people.
42. Appropriate restrictions are the sign of mature love. It knows how to keep the necessary distance between people. This distance means respect for the other person as an independent personality. Including respecting each other's right to be alone.
43. There can be no love, but if there is no desire for love, where is youth? There can be no understanding, but if there is no expectation of understanding, where can there be creation? You can wait for everything, but if you don't wait, where will you live?
44. Old people are romantic, which is rumored as an anecdote and denounced as a scandal. In fact, there is no need, just look at it with a normal eye, which is nothing more than a heat and a heat.
45. People are kites banished by logical leads. He fluttered in the wind and flew into the sky until he was exhausted. The logic lead was broken, and he finally fell to the ground and returned to the woman's arms.
46. Love for children is a kind of selfishness and selflessness, a kind of self-sacrifice that is not for the public. If this kind of kinship is blind, it can really make you sacrifice everything for your children, including yourself and the world.
47. Love is blind. As long as you are in love, it seems that one ugly covers all the ugly. Love is a discerning person. As long as it lasts, it really covers up all the ugliness.
48. In the state of free competition, natural selection eliminated the inferior, while in the state of autocracy, artificial selection eliminated the superior, but the mediocre were spared forever and had the most lasting vitality.
49. If short-term separation promotes love and long-term separation stifles love, then marriage occupies a more favorable position than not getting married, because it itself excludes long-term separation, and we only need to arrange some short-term separation for it.
50. A true enlightened person can gain a vision and wisdom from seeing through the world of mortals, so that he can stay in the world of mortals without being confused by them, and remain detached after joining the WTO.
5 1, among the gifts of God, sex is the fairest. No matter whether a person is rich or ugly, he can get happiness from sex, and the degree of his happiness does not depend on his poverty, wealth, beauty and ugliness.
Westerners have repeatedly stressed that wisdom is neither knowledge nor erudition. In a learned man, all he has is limited and temporary knowledge, and wisdom really wants to grasp infinity and eternity. Due to human limitations, this goal can never be truly achieved.
53. There are two tragedies in life. One is not getting your love, and the other is getting your love. There are two great pleasures in life. One is that you can't get what you love, so you can pursue and create. One is to get what you love so that you can taste and experience it.
54. Love is a chemical reaction of the soul. There is a kind between two people who really love each other? Affinity? Constantly decompose, combine and update. ? Affinity? The greater the reaction, the more intense and lasting it will be, and the more ardently love will be consolidated.
55. The essence of jealous talents is jealous of fame and fortune. Transcendent people stay away from jealousy because they are indifferent to fame and fortune. They neither envy others nor incur jealousy. I don't care if I'm jealous. If you care, you still care too much about fame and fortune.
56. In the state of free competition, natural selection eliminated the inferior; In authoritarian countries, artificial selection eliminated the best. Only mediocre people always survive and have the most lasting vitality.
57. There are many great figures in history. Behind their well-known reputation, there is often an unknown identity, that is, lifelong readers, that is, people who love reading all their lives.
58. If you are irresponsible for your life, you will not be serious. Mediocrity is the biggest lack of seriousness. The highest seriousness often seems cynical, and doing what others do seriously in laughter is the highest wisdom.
59. Humor is a healthy, witty and tolerant smile from a broken heart. Only detachment can lead to humor. The deepest humor is the smile from a heart that has been fatally hurt.
60. The survival time of a love is long and short, but there must be a shortest limit, which is the quality guarantee of love. Less than this limit, no matter how warm their feelings are, they can only be counted as a temporary infatuation, and they can't be called love.
6 1, great wisdom must be modest, great goodness must be tolerant, and great pride is often humble and peaceful. A person with a great sense of accomplishment should also have a mind that is tolerant of everything and tolerant of others.
62. The value of love lies in itself, not in its result. The result may be misfortune and happiness, but it will never be the most unfortunate and happy. In the process of love, there will be? Most? Experience and imagination.
63. Loneliness comes from love, and people without love will not be lonely. Perhaps loneliness is the most meaningful gift of love. Those who received this gift learned to love themselves and understand other lonely souls and the love hidden in their hearts, thus establishing a precious spiritual world for themselves.
64. Insomnia tastes different in spring and autumn. Spring night is a serenade and autumn night is a requiem. Listen to birds singing in spring and ghosts crying in autumn. Spring night is pregnant with people, and autumn night is sad for yourself. Spring night is color, autumn night is empty.
65. People often regard communication as a kind of ability, but ignore that solitude is also a kind of ability, and it is more important than communication in a sense. On the other hand, being unsociable is a pity, and being unable to stand loneliness is a serious defect.
66. Everyone is writing his own history, but this history lacks careful readers. We don't have time to read our own history, and even if we do, it's sloppy reading.
67. When a woman just has a sweetheart, her mood is extremely lingering and tortuous: there is resentment in missing, shyness in longing, and distress in sweetness. It is difficult for ordinary men to understand the mystery because of lack of care or patience.
68. If you lose money for a month, you can earn it again, and if you spend it, you can start again. However, it is not known whether we can meet again after parting. Thanks for the gains and losses, flowers and months remain the same, and people are old after several separations. The reason why life is the most bitter separation is that separation makes people feel the impermanence of life.
69. In a man's mind, a spoony and knowledgeable woman is the ideal lover. Infatuated, he got love. Judgment, he is free. This shows how selfish men are.
70. Buddha's wisdom abandoned love as the root of pain and stifled the will of life; Human wisdom should accept that pain is the inevitable result of love and turn it into the wealth of life.
7 1, in the innermost spiritual life, each of us is lonely, and love can't eliminate this loneliness, but it is precisely because we and others realize the loneliness of others that we are full of the most sincere love for others.
72. Everyone is a secret to others. ? Don't look at other people's faces, look at other people's hearts? People who love each other are just? Walking side by side in the dark? . Each strives to pursue the light in his heart, and feels this effort and encourages each other.
73. Time brings different gifts to different people, but it is the same for everyone, and then it takes away all the gifts, whether good or bad.
74. What is destroyed by trust and tolerance can never be saved by doubt and demanding. If the heart does what it likes perfectly, it will have an unbreakable home in this world.
75. Eyes are like water, but clearer and more transparent than water; Eyes are like the sea, but wider than it. It seems that the world in his eyes is much deeper and farther than the world outside his eyes.
76. A reliable measure of whether two people love each other is whether they try to figure out and appreciate each other. Two lovers must always ponder over each other, and they can't help playing, and the more they play, the more interesting they feel. If one day you feel bored and have no fun, love will be gone.
77. All the highest rewards and punishments are not external, but the spiritual consequences caused by the actors themselves. Nobleness is the highest reward for the noble, and meanness is the greatest punishment for the despicable.
78. Being understood is lucky, but not being understood is not necessarily unfortunate. A person who places his own value entirely on the understanding of others is often worthless.
79. I don't know what love is. I only know that if that face doesn't make you feel a kind of sweet melancholy, a kind of attachment sadness, then you certainly don't have love.
It is very normal and common for a man to flirt with other women. If he flirts with his wife, it is either extremely sick and disgusting, or it is extremely unusual that the love after marriage is fresh and moving.
8 1, philosophy is trying to transcend the limitations of human beings and reach the omniscience of God. In this effort, although mankind will never become a god, it has reached the limit of human greatness and thus approached God to the greatest extent.
82. People yearn for perfection but can't get it. How can this pain be alleviated? I replied: this kind of pain itself is contained in perfection, and alleviating it is not perfect. I thought to myself? Think about it like this, and the pain will be alleviated. Then I thought: perfection has also been lost.
83. In the vast universe, the birth of any creature is accidental, but the departure is inevitable; The encounter between one creature and another is always a thousand years, and the separation is indeed beyond redemption. After all, in this empty world, who is different from who is the end of the world?
84. Life is purely accidental, so every life must be attached to another life, live together and walk together. Life is purely accidental, so every life does not belong to another life, like a gust of wind, without attachment.
85. Rousseau said: Nature shaped me and then broke the mold. ? This statement sounds conceited, but it actually applies to everyone. Unfortunately, most people can't stand this self who has lost the mold, so they use a public mold to reshape themselves, and the results become so similar to each other.
86. It seems that if a husband wants to be virtuous, there must be a shrew at home. That will only add another bad character to her husband's other bad characters: lying.
87. People often regard communication as a kind of ability, but ignore that solitude is also a kind of ability, and it is more important than communication in a sense. On the other hand, being unsociable is a pity, and being unable to stand loneliness is a serious defect.
88. For a proud heart, the greatest humiliation is not being envied, but being envied by others, because this emotion exposes a fact that he is most unwilling to admit: his inferiority complex.
89. People cannot always be true, nor can they always be false. A little lie in many truths, or a little truth in many lies, is moving.
90. Guan Hanqing "half? Title:? It's hard to be half a fool to scold you as a beautiful enemy. Although I was angry, I refused and agreed. ? Men and women are equally attractive. I figured it out. Where are the beautiful friends? I see. How can I be sad?
9 1. Good love is resilient and can be pulled away, but it cannot be stopped. Lovers are not bound to each other, which is a sign of their confidence in love. No one restricts anyone, and in the end, no one can live without anyone. This is true love.
92. When everyone is born in this world, there must be a position that suits him best, just waiting for him to claim it one day. Whether a position is the best for him should ask his life and soul to see if they are happy.