Famous aphorisms about making friends cautiously
In our lives, making friends is always inevitable, so how should we be cautious when making friends? Below are some famous quotes and aphorisms about cautious friendships that I share with you. Welcome to read them.
1. Just as true gold must be recognized in fire, friendship must be tested in adversity. ——Ovid
2. The best way to deal with the fear of external enemies is to make friends as much as possible; for people who cannot be friends, at least avoid making grudges with them; if you can even do this If not, you should avoid interacting with them as much as possible and alienate them for your own benefit. ——Epicoo
3. First light and then thick, first sparse and then dense, first far and then close, this is the way to make friends. ——"Hu's Family Instructions"
4. You don't need to pay attention when talking to friends, but when facing enemies, you must always be on guard. ——Lu Xun
5. Sincere friendship seems to be healthy. Only when it is lost do you realize how valuable it is. —— Cordon
6. Never fall into pride. Because when you are proud, you will reject other people's advice and the help of friendship; because when you are proud, you will be stubborn when you should agree; because when you are proud, you will lose the objective criterion. ——Pavlov
7. A good friend is often obtained in adversity.
8. When making friends, you must choose the one who is better than yourself. It is beneficial to talk about it thoroughly and discuss it. Those who are arrogant, disrespectful, and lead others to do evil will harm their friends. A gentleman and a gentleman are friends who share the same path; a gentleman and a gentleman are friends who share the same interests. When making friends, only take their strengths and ignore their weaknesses.
9. The best way to deal with the fear of external enemies is to make as many friends as possible; for those who cannot be friends, at least avoid making grudges with them; if you cannot even do this, try your best to Avoid interacting with them and alienate them for your own benefit. ——Epicoo
10. The end and pinnacle of all goodness, the last star of life is friendship. ——E. Markham
11. Relatives are given to us by God, and friends are chosen by ourselves. ——Mamfold
12. A gentleman uses literature to make friends, and friends to help people. ——"The Analects of Confucius"
13. The so-called treating others with courtesy means treating others the way you like others to treat you. ——Chesterfield
14. Alas, I can no longer stand this trick of destroying natural kindness and true friendship - false style. What "due pride"! What a "taste" and "privilege"! The order of taste and rank is bullshit and should be thrown into the fire! Arrange with taste and privilege? The masters of etiquette in previous eras were specialized in this! Come, now come a great ceremonial officer to arrange equality in society. May your scepter swallow up all deceptive golden rods! If this is not the eternal truth, if the world will not do it, if the great worship of the world is not deception and idolatry, then we might as well bring back the Stuart kings and cut them off at the pillory." Free speech” ears! —— Thackeray
15. The taste of sugarcane is sweet, and friendship becomes more profound over time. ——Yuan Mu
16. A person who wants to make friends with everyone is not anyone’s friend. ——Pfeifer
17. The most valuable thing in life is to know oneself, and to meet flesh and blood relatives from all over the world. ——"Yanmen Collection"
18. In the face of misfortune, understand your friends. ——Herder
19. A gentleman avoids sexual relations and chooses friends as if he were a teacher. ——Jia Dao
20. I need three things: love, friendship and books. However, there is so much connection between these three! Fiery love can enrich the content of books, and books are people's most loyal friends - Montaigne
21. A gentleman does not mirror water, but mirrors people. If you look in the mirror at water, you will see the face; if you look in the mirror at a person, you will know the bad and good fortune. ——Mo Zhai
22. Live like this; so that your friends will not become enemies, and your enemies will become friends.
——Pythagoras
23. In addition to the concept of disinterest, mutual respect seems to be another important point of friendship. ——Moroa
24. Those who know the danger but do not tell it are enemies. ——Goethe
25. If you want to understand a person, look at his friends.
26. Some people are complimentary to you, but they are not friends in times of need. ——Shakespeare
27. Young men and women should maintain a sincere relationship, that is to say, there must be a relationship that neither exaggerates nor underestimates anything. If you don't deceive each other, if you respect yourself and others, then no matter what kind of relationship you maintain - friendship, love, etc. - it will be a healthy relationship. ——Makarenko
28. Those who betray their companions often unknowingly perish themselves together. ——Aesop
29. Wholehearted help and closeness are the highest state of friendship. ——Valois
30. When the weather is cold, you will know the pines and cypresses, and you will find friendship in times of adversity.
31. If you fail to understand the other party’s true identity, you must never reveal your heart. ——Balzac
32. Those who can please me will be able to harm me, so I should guard against them; those who are willing to discipline me will be willing to help me, so I should admire and listen to them. Use the word "light" to make friends, the word "deaf" to stop slander, and the word "engraved" to blame yourself.
33. Friendship established on the basis of business is better than business established on the basis of friendship. ——Rockefeller
34. Those who unite with power will lose power and become separated. ——Sima Qian
35. If you make friends with the friendship of discussion, your knowledge will improve day by day; if you use prudent actions to benefit your life, your path will become farther and farther. ——Master Hongyi
36. The back is the past, the back is the present, and there are some people from the country. It is not a good idea to make broad and knowledgeable friends, such as reading famous books; to make elegant friends, such as reading poetry; to make cautious friends. Making friends is like reading a holy book; making funny friends is like reading a legendary novel. The friendship of fighting games lasts forever, the friendship of love lasts forever; the friendship of power lasts forever, but the friendship of morality lasts forever.
37. Only in times of hardship can you see your friends’ sincerity. —— Krylov
38. All friends will receive the reward of their loyalty, and all enemies will taste the bitter cup of their sins. ——Shakespeare
39. Those who can only share happiness with you but not suffer with you have lost one of the keys to the seven doors of heaven. ——Kahlil Gibran
40. To make friends, you must make loyal people. Just as a smart doctor must check the pulse and examine the root of the disease before treating a disease, you must also test the character of the other person when making friends, otherwise it will be dangerous. ——Ibn Mugafa
41. People’s hearts can only be won, not gifts. —— Yeats
42. Friends will know us in times of joy; we will know friends in times of adversity. ——Colinth
43. No friendship lasts forever. People come and go in your life, and sometimes the process of friendship is short-lived and limited. ——Sophia Loren
44. In misfortune, useful friends are more necessary; in luck, noble friends are more necessary. In misfortune, looking for friends is out of necessity; in luck, looking for friends is out of nobility. ——Aristotle
45. Rely on your parents at home, and rely on your friends when you go out. ()
46. As long as we have experienced the process of growing up and maturing together, it is enough to turn the most superficial acquaintance into the closest confidant. ——Logan Smith
47. Choose your friends carefully! The pure selfishness will put on the mask of friendship, but also set traps to trap you. ——Krylov
48. It is better to befriend a fool than to be a villain. ——Sima Guang;