Everyone wants to be able to speak eloquently, do things beautifully, win the appreciation of others, and show off their abilities with ease. However, whether you have social skills and service level are mainly reflected in whether you can grasp the scale of speaking and the propriety of doing things. Appropriate speaking standards and appropriate service measures are the most effective ways for people to gain social recognition, appreciation from superiors, support from subordinates, love from colleagues, and help from friends.
1. Original text
If you hit the mark nine times out of ten, you may not be surprised. If you miss one, you will be disappointed, especially in Pianji. Discuss Cong Xing. A gentleman would rather be silent than impetuous, clumsy than cunning.
Translation
Nine out of ten sentences are correct, and people may not praise you, but if one sentence is incorrect, many people will criticize you. Accusation; Nine out of ten strategies are successful. People may not necessarily praise your success, but if you fail once, complaints and accusations will come one after another. This is why a gentleman would rather remain silent than be impetuous and talkative, and would rather appear clumsy. Not trying to be smart.
Think before you speak
In a complex society, all kinds of relationships are confusing and all kinds of phenomena are intricate and ever-changing. Especially in interpersonal relationships, there are not many situations where people are jealous of others. When you say nine out of ten sentences correctly, no one may praise you, but if you say one sentence wrong, you will often be criticized in various ways.
2. Keep your mouth secret and guard your thoughts strictly
Original text
The mouth is the door to the heart. If the mouth is not kept secret, the true secret will be revealed; the mind is the heart. If you are not careful enough, you will be able to take all kinds of evil paths.
Translation
The mouth is the door to the soul. If the door is not tightly guarded, all the secrets inside will be leaked; the will is the feet of the heart. If the will is not firm, it may Go astray like a lame person.
It is not advisable to gossip. In interpersonal communication, you not only need to be cautious about keeping your mouth shut, but also pay attention to the artistic beauty of language.
3. Planting more peaches and plums, but not accumulating poems and books
Original text
Planting more peaches and plums and less thorns will open a path of blessing; not accumulating poems and books Accumulating jade is like building a foundation for disaster.
laid the foundation for disaster.
A kind word can warm the winter, but bad words can cause trouble for no reason
People need praise just like seeds need sunshine. A simple word of praise can cheer others up and make them more happy. Good integration of emotions between people. "Plant more peaches and plums and less thorns", from a certain perspective, is to persuade us to be good at praising, say more words of praise and encouragement, and say less words of sarcasm. Everyone who understands artistic praise will realize that praise brings the same joy to the giver and the recipient, just like painters and musicians take pleasure in creating beauty for people. It gives people warmth and makes this complicated world full of joy. joy.