It separates ideal from reality, school from society, freedom from marriage ... Many things have changed qualitatively since this time, and many people feel that they have changed from this time, both physically and psychologically.

after the age of p>25, we find that there are many established rules in real life, some of which are famous sayings that appear in books, and many of which are "feelings" after experiencing "life".

After p>25 years old, you should really understand:

1.

Don't make ignorance true, this sentence is true.

2.

The meaning of work is to achieve personal value, and the word achievement is never simple, so just think about a job that is easy, fun and rich.

3.

It is easier to succeed by distinguishing between what you really like and what you think you should like, and doing what you like and are good at.

4.

Luck is the embodiment of strength. Don't blame yourself for bad luck. People who can seize the opportunity have been working hard.

5.

It's important to have an ability at work: re-ordering.

The cultivation of the ability to reply lies in your usual habits. Record your thoughts and things you have done in time, take time to look back and sort them out, and you will gradually realize how important the ability to summarize, analyze and summarize is.

6.

Don't stay up late, be kind to yourself.

7.

Rejection is a right. Don't be embarrassed to hurt you. Learn to say "no" whether in love or at work. When others feel dependent on you, if your help becomes "deserved", it will be you who will suffer in the end.

8.

One must have two abilities, namely, speaking well and controlling emotions. People who can control their emotions can be more comfortable in life.

9.

The attitude towards feelings must be quality rather than quantity. Be sure to be with someone you like enough. This relationship is meaningful to you.

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This world can never be fair, and fairness can only be relative, not absolute, so don't complain, complaining is the most useless thing in this world.

11.

All the overburdened present has a past where you didn't work hard enough, and all the present you are trying to change has a promising future.

12.

EQ is more useful than IQ, and ability is more useful than education. The highest IQ is to be able to do your own thing at the right time, and the highest EQ is to be empathetic.

13.

Believe in yourself! Believe in yourself! Believe in yourself!

never give up on yourself, and don't sell yourself short.

14.

Don't speak ill of others behind their backs, especially when others induce you to comment.

15.

Please refuse the help that may be impossible at the beginning.

16.

Don't talk ice with summer insects, there is no winter in their world.

17.

If an unfamiliar person borrows money from you, don't borrow it, which means that his familiar people have borrowed it all, and no one has lent it to him.

18.

When you take other people's things, be sure to say so, and always keep a sense of boundaries.

19.

Sometimes doing nothing is better than doing it, especially when you are anxious.

2.

For adults, not giving a decisive promise means refusing.

21.

Be sure to "dare" what you deserve.

if you dare, others will know that you really paid.

if you dare, others will know what to keep you.

22.

Persistence = advantages, and doing things that are valuable to people and themselves for a long time will produce competitive advantages. After a long time, others will naturally see what you are doing. Don't worry.

23.

Cultivate a hobby other than survival skills, and you will rely on it to survive many difficult times in the future. Moreover, the style of this hobby should not be too low. Accompanying you through lonely things will eventually enter your soul.

24.

You can listen to everything, but don't believe everything. Think more for yourself.

25.

Aesthetic and self-knowledge.

Aesthetics not only refers to the distinction between beauty and ugliness, but also refers to the distinction between good and bad, good and evil, and the three views of right and wrong, which is not simple.

Life before the age of p>25 should be added, because we are still young and have to learn. But after the age of 25, you should learn to do subtraction, prioritize and don't waste time and energy on unimportant things.

Life is not as lovely as we think, but we still have to love it. Because it teaches each of us to grow, gain and lose in a unique way, and guides everyone to find their most comfortable posture to live a lifetime.

above.

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