“Whose youth is not confused, but you must grow up in confusion. Only by gritting your teeth and persisting in the suffering of this moment can you see the scenery of the next moment.”

This is what I am doing During that period of confusion, I saw a sentence that made me understand that confusion is not terrible. As long as you keep growing, you will eventually be able to see the sun one day.

Most of the rebellious stages of others were in junior high school, but at that time I was very good, I would listen to my parents, listen to the teacher, and study hard.

Later, I got my wish and was admitted to a better high school in our county. That’s when I started to feel confused.

So I started to be rebellious in my life. It was also at that time that I began to understand that children in the rebellious period may not deliberately want to oppose their parents and teachers, but just want to find an outlet.

In high school, the grades I was once proud of were not outstanding, so I began to impose stricter requirements on myself and work harder, but it was counterproductive.

During that high school period, I was quite confused and didn’t know what to do.

Because I put too much pressure on myself, I started to suffer from insomnia. There will also be some very strange thoughts in my mind, and my temper will become very bad.

I thought about giving up until I saw that sentence.

Sometimes you have to admit that a sentence you saw without thinking will save you.

Whose youth is not confused? I still chose to persist.

The night gave me black eyes, but I used them to find light. This is a poem by Gu Cheng, and I use him as a quote to inspire myself.

When I am lonely, frustrated and helpless, when no one cares about me, I will think, life is a long road, if I can’t even endure these, what else can I do?

When I first entered college, I was full of hope, like a butterfly emerging from its cocoon, free from restraints and flying freely. But I never thought that college would bring me endless loneliness. Running for study committee members, participating in club activities, taking part in knowledge competitions... I walked together in high school, but now I am alone. I thought the god of luck would favor me again, but this time I ended up being an abandoned orphan. No matter how dark the night is, I still have that unbeatable flame and I can finally see the light.

I am afraid of being alone, but now I am used to eating alone, reading alone, and doing things alone. From complaining at the beginning to being obedient now, I have gone through a stage of growth. Loneliness is an essential experience for a person's growth. And I broke through the dark night and found my own splendid thousand suns.

I once watched a video with such a sentence, which deeply moved me. When life weighs you down, don’t forget to give yourself a little applause. The road is still long, so don’t be disappointed. Such a seemingly simple sentence suddenly penetrated into my heart and touched my painful spot. Indeed, life has given us too much pressure, and who can guarantee that he will always carry the huge pressure forward. We are walking on a life path that we know nothing about, and we are under heavy pressure of life. What can we do, what should we do? Give up or move forward? Giving up means giving up on life, or even life. Moving forward means continuing to explore the unknown life under pressure. I think more people are willing to choose to move forward like me, so please remember that when life weighs us down, don’t forget to give yourself a little applause. The road is still long, so don’t be disappointed. The poorest people are just begging for food, and those who don't die will always come forward.

"When we miss the sun, please don't be discouraged. We must keep hope, because there are still moon and stars. When we miss the moon and stars again, don't give up on ourselves. We must see Hope, because there will still be sun tomorrow. If we miss everything, we can’t give up hope, because life itself is a kind of hope. ”

In life, there will always be various dissatisfactions and difficulties. , being ridiculed and not understood by others, many times we want to give up, but persevering is a victory.

There was a period of depression in my journey. I resented the unfairness of the world and didn’t understand why it became like this.

I am busy working hard for life every day, firmly believing that my efforts will always be rewarded. I fall down and get up again and again. At that time, I was looking forward to recognition and encouragement. , but no, there was only ridicule and disdain, so I gradually lost what I insisted on, and I began to doubt whether my efforts would really be rewarded?

Some people are talented, but I am born dull. Their lack of effort is the result of my hard work. After hard work, they leave me far behind. As the saying goes: "The stupid bird flies first." But I will always be tired. ah!

I lost all my courage, confidence and persistence. I degenerated, followed the crowd, waited for death, and even felt violent. I stubbornly stayed away from the crowd and enjoyed solitude.

Later I saw this passage:

"When we miss the sun, please don't be discouraged. We must keep hope, because there are still moon and stars. When we miss the moon and stars again, we should not give up on ourselves. We should see hope, because there will still be the sun tomorrow. If we miss everything, we cannot give up hope, because life itself is a kind of hope.

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I began to understand that it was me who had lost hope! I couldn’t see the hope of tomorrow or the rewards of my hard work, so I surrendered, but life itself is a kind of hope. ! If there is life, there will be infinite possibilities. If there is hope, life will be colorful.

If you have hope, happiness will come to you. May you always have hope and be clear and clear!

When a person is in confusion and trough, no words can support him. Who is not gritting his teeth, trying hard to live, persisting in pain, fighting tenaciously, and pretending not to care.

Life is like a yin and a yang. When you are full, you will lose, and when you are full, you will gain. There is no growth.

Confusion is just a stage, and you will eventually get over it. Every trough is a turning point, and the worst is nothing more than this. As long as you are still there, it is not too late.

The biggest danger we encounter is not that there is no one to help, or that the current situation is difficult, but that you forget and do not trust the courage and strength you can show in the Jedi, or are obscured by the confusion of the moment and do not try. Go ahead and wake it up.

It is people and things that give words the ability to transcend darkness, not the so-called chicken soup for the soul.

No matter where you are, remember, don’t. I lost myself and trusted my inner strength.

When I was most confused, I closed myself off for a long time and thought about countless reasons. I was on the verge of mental collapse. Finally, I found that you were there. Here we are living and breathing, the outside world is still exciting, the earth is still turning, and the sun is still rising every day.

Suddenly I thought of a sentence, "Life is like this, and it is you who is making things difficult for you. You can't get through it." It’s just you, others don’t care at all.” You have to live or die here. No one cares about you except yourself. Everyone just comes to this world for a visit. Whether you leave happily or sadly, it all depends on your choice.

I suddenly felt funny, and then I suddenly understood!

For me, whenever I encountered a difficult question, I didn’t know how to do it. When I was confused, a sentence appeared in my mind, there is a road to the mountain of books, and there is no limit to the sea of ??learning, and there is no limit to the boat. Stop working hard and diligently, because a person's success may not depend on his intelligence and wisdom, but on his perseverance and diligence. Because I always feel that the pain of learning is temporary, and the pain of not learning is lifelong. .

When I started working and preparing to start my own business, this was also the time when I was most confused and confused. This sentence--it’s rare to take a chance in life. I am burdened with a lot of pressure in life, but I always feel that if I dare to take the first step, I will eventually grow. No matter how long the road is, you can complete it step by step. No matter how short the road is, you will never reach it if you don't take the first step. Perhaps the god of luck often comes just because we take one more look, think more, and take one more step. What do you think?

"We can't keep going like this"

When I was most confused, this simple sentence kept me going.

I believe everyone will be confused sometimes.

When we were in school, we were ignorant and didn’t know which major or school to apply for; after working, we didn’t know what kind of job we should choose, stable or challenging; when we encountered setbacks, I don’t know how to solve a problem and can’t find an outlet; when I enter into a marriage and have a conflict with my partner, I don’t know how to better maintain the relationship; when I have a disagreement with my parents, I don’t know whether to obey my parents or stick to my own. Choose...

You will experience a lot in life, and many times you don’t know what you want to do and how to do it. But, no matter what, as long as you are alive, life must go on. Instead of being confused all the time, it's better to take action first. Maybe time will tell you what is the right thing to do.

There is a saying that goes well: "Many people fail not because they lack a plan before taking action, but because they lack action before planning." Only by taking action can you know where you need to improve and which direction is your exit, right?

So, when I’m confused, I tell myself “No matter what, get moving first”

First of all, when I’m confused, I rely on the good memories of the past and the good hopes for the future. Yearning to support it. The truth that touches me is this: Girls will be married off if they don’t work hard to make money. Because I need to work hard to make money, I have to be so busy that I don’t even have time to get lost. Instead of wasting time being confused, it is better to spend time working hard and learning to find something to do. This way you will be so busy that you have no time to think or be confused. But I also understand that everyone has a period of confusion when they lose themselves. Don’t be afraid at this time. Give yourself a trip or go out of your current circle to get in touch with some new things and make some new friends. In the process of your exploration, you will find a new self and find what you want. Therefore, the confusion is only temporary, and we must seize the time to solve the problems at hand.