The world belongs to you and has nothing to do with others. In this way, you can skip a lot of worries and pain. This is the wisdom that Mr. Yang Jiang has learned throughout her life. It is also the sentence that inspires me the most and gives me the most sense of security.
Do you still remember the dreams you had when you were young?
Impetuous society and impetuous people’s hearts, although the education we have received since childhood is that the process is more important than the result. And what about the laws of real life? The process is important, but the results are even more important. So we started to move forward faster and faster, no matter what. Hurry up, go faster, go faster, go faster, it seems to be our goal. And, is it really okay to be fast regardless of everything? I want to become famous overnight, I want to be successful, I want to get rich overnight, is there really such a good thing? While we are pursuing speed, have we ever reflected on what precious things we have lost? Maybe it's health, maybe feelings, maybe, even life.
Sunshine and wind and rain are all waves given by fate. We must learn to accept them all.
As we grow up and lose our youthfulness, the idea that we once thought we were unique and the only one is gradually fading away. We finally admit that we are just ordinary people, ordinary ordinary people. You will feel pain when you are injured, you will cry when you are sad, and you will also find it difficult to make money and stay together. We begin to realize that fate is fair and gives every life equal joys, sorrows, sorrows and pains. We begin to understand the difficulties of our parents, begin to understand compassion and mercy, and begin to know that peace and health are the greatest blessings. I no longer long for the ups and downs of fate, I would rather the years are long and peaceful.
Where is the home? My peaceful place is my hometown.
There is no such thing as empathy in the world. Your pain is your own, your tears are your own; your happiness is also your own, and your laughter is also your own.
When you feel depressed, please learn to heal alone. We often say that crying children get candy, but please face this problem squarely. First, you are no longer a child. 2. There is a form of human weakness called "watching the excitement is not too big a deal". 3. Learn to deal with and solve problems alone. Talking about your misfortune to the world all day long will only make people stay away from you. There is a classic saying in "La Traviata": Even the gods are not willing to listen to the confessions of the unfortunate. Don't be sad, be strong, and slowly wait for the trough to pass.
When you feel happy, please mute your joy. 1. Your starry eyes and raised lips will tell the world that you are happy. 2. One of the weaknesses of human nature is jealousy. People who are jealous to the point of madness are very scary. Please learn to protect yourself. 3. Happiness will not last forever. When you are at a low point one day, your low profile can protect you.
The world belongs to you and has nothing to do with others. May you have the ability to overcome obstacles and embrace your world gently.
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I am a very insecure person, but around him, the sense of security returns little by little
Safety Feeling is actually intention and preference?
For example:
It’s when he tells other girls that I’m on the phone with my girlfriend
It’s when he does other things every time What am I going to do at this time?
Everything is answered and everything is settled
It was him who said, you don’t have to be so good with me, you will always be a kid
He said, don’t meet too many boys, I will buy you flowers, let you drink hot water, and take you home
He said, I will always be there, as long as you are still here Love me
He said, I feel so sad when you cry
He said, I just want to treat you well and make you happy
He said, I like you so much, not just to say it
He said that the epidemic is something we cannot decide, but I will always love you and miss you. When the epidemic is over, I will hold you tightly
He said, you are in my future plan
This boy loves me with all his heart, he will take care of my emotions, I give him all my tenderness, and he gives me all my preference, okay Want to see him.
Security is the first inner feeling that everyone is born with, and it is also one of the biggest worries that accompany life. In fact, only you can give yourself safety, and the same is true for a sense of security. The promise of others is just a sign, a psychological hint, comfort or support under the current conditions and environment. Real security ultimately depends on oneself. However, as a psychological effect, the safety guarantee promised by the other party is indeed a strong backing for progress. With psychological support and protection, there will be no worries in action.
When we were young, we were just learning to walk, and we didn’t dare to cross small potholes or ditches. Our parents stood behind us and stretched out their hands to encourage us. Baby, go over boldly. It’s okay. I’m here. I’ll help you from behind.
So, we crossed over with confidence. I didn't fall in, and there was no accident. From then on, we were no longer afraid of small holes or ditches, we just stepped over them and grew up. The biggest support and the most secure thing our parents give us is, don’t be afraid, we are there!
When we grow up, we encounter difficulties at work, or there is a task that needs to be completed, and we don’t know whether we can do it well or whether we can complete the task with high quality as required. At this time, we feel uncertain and worry about gains and losses. frown. The leader said, go ahead and do it boldly. If anything goes wrong, I will be responsible for it. As a result, our confidence doubled, our courage grew, and we finished the job in one go. It’s not as difficult as I imagined, and there are not so many questions to think about. From then on, we moved forward boldly, made breakthrough progress in our work, felt a sense of accomplishment and gained a sense of security, our career was successful, and our work went smoothly. At this time, leaders are the strong backing for our successful adults. The most secure thing to say is, don't be afraid, go bold, I will take care of anything!
When in love, a woman often worries that the man will not be able to guarantee her future loyalty, love, family, and life. Then a series of problems such as house and car will arise and become annoying topics or influences. Obstacles to Emotional Progress. At this time, the man said firmly and clearly, "Don't worry, this is no problem, you are my favorite, I will protect you throughout my life to live a good life, happiness and joy!" The woman was instantly relieved and all she wanted was this sentence. In fact, life requires two people to struggle together and work hard together. No matter how hard and tiring it is, just love each other! At this time, love is the greatest sense of security. Don't worry, I will always love you is the most secure sentence!
No matter where you are, behind you is the motherland.
During the epidemic, this sentence touched me the most.
Regardless of whether we are rich or poor, regardless of our position and background,
We should all be grateful that we grew up in a warm, harmonious and secure country.
When the epidemic struck, countless medical workers stepped forward.
Build the strongest fortress against the epidemic,
protect each of us.
Many people have sacrificed their precious lives for this~
Every word and sentence that I am typing now,
are filled with gratitude and gratitude!
Because of a strong motherland, there will be quiet and good years.
No matter where we are, there is my great motherland behind us!
I love you China