Lin Xiangru was named Shangqing for his feat of "returning to Zhao safely", ranking above Lian Po. Lian Po defy spirit, threatened to humiliate Lin Xiangru face to face. Lin Xiangru learned that, as far as possible to avoid, tolerance, not conflict with Lian Po. Lin Xiangru's minions thought he was afraid of Lian Po, but Lin Xiangru said, "The State of Qin did not dare to invade our State of Zhao because of me and General Lian. When I tolerate and succumb to General Lian, I will put the national crisis ahead and personal grievances behind! " When Lian Po heard this, there was the story of Lian Po's "offer a humble apology".

Renyi Hu tong

Dong was a native of Jiyang, Shandong Province, and was an official in Beijing during the Ming Dynasty. One day, he received a letter from home saying that his house was built to lay a foundation, and he had a quarrel with his neighbor, hoping that he could use his power to solve the matter. Dong immediately wrote a book after reading it, saying, "A thousand miles to send books is just for the wall, and I can't help laughing and breaking my heart;" You are very kind to me and close to me. Why not give up both feet? "After the family saw it, they felt that Dong made sense. When building a house, they voluntarily gave up a few feet of land. Neighbors saw Dong Jia's behavior and felt something, so they followed suit. As a result, the two families gave up a place eight feet wide. After the house is built, there is an alley, which the world calls Renyi Hutong.

well-known saying

Tolerance is the only test of civilization (asking for help)

The art of wisdom is the art of knowing what to tolerate (william james)

Generosity is the greatest thing (Irving)

● There are many occasions in life: what you intend to achieve with resentment, what you can achieve through forgiveness, and what you can achieve through forgiveness. -(Sidney Smith)

Forgive sincerely, and then forget it (UK)

Forgiveness is human and forgetting is sacred (James Glenn)

● Tolerant people are the most impatient, and tolerant people are the most intolerant (bernays)

The noblest revenge is forgiveness (Hugo)

● People who have not tolerated others are not worthy of being tolerated by others. But who can say that there is no need for tolerance? (Turgenev)

God of justice, tolerance is our most perfect behavior (Wordsworth)

Only brave people know tolerance; Cowards will never tolerate it. It's not in his nature (Stern)

Tolerance is either good or bad for people (Burke)

● Never approach a person who hurts others' teeth but opposes revenge and advocates tolerance-(Lu Xun)

● Want to be warm and smooth, don't want to observe, and cut it clearly.

● Let a hundred flowers blossom and a hundred schools of thought contend

● Strictness is love, looseness is harm, and it will deteriorate if you are not careful.

● Pet is harmful, and strictness is love.

● Cultivating you is to love you, and spoiling you is to harm you.

Love is deep, but responsibility is severe (France)

● The family is not strict to recruit thieves, and people are not strict to recruit risks.

● Poor teaching leads to teachers' laziness.

● If you want to be a party, the rules must be strict.

Gentlemen love virtue, while villains love tolerance.

● Be lenient with others and be strict with others.

● Be strict with yourself and be lenient with others.

Forgive others with affection and reason with law.

Be hard on yourself and be nice to others.

Treat others with spring breeze and treat yourself with cold wind.

● Be generous to others and humble to yourself; The responsibility should be thick and the responsible person should be thin.

● Blame yourself with the heart of others, and forgive others with the heart of forgiving yourself.

Try to forgive others, but never forgive yourself (Silas)

When you have to let go, you must let go, you must forgive and forgive.

● People who are not as good as themselves cannot be sick (Xue Mingxuan)

People should be tolerant of each other: everyone has weaknesses, and in his weakest aspect, everyone can be cut and mashed (Keats)

In order to live in harmony with all men and women, we must allow everyone to keep their individuality (Schopenhauer)

● Wide to strict, strict to wide, wide to strict (Zuo Zhuan)

Low compassion, kindness and power.

● Combining leniency with severity can accomplish things.

● Wide and chestnut, strict and warm "Huainanzi"

● The way to govern the country is to care about fierceness and leniency (Song Zhuxi)