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(1) Famous Quotes

1. If a man wants to rule his country, he must first regulate his family; if he wants to regulate his family, he must first Cultivation of one's body; those who want to cultivate one's body, first rectify their mind; those who want to rectify their mind, first be sincere in their intentions; if the mind is righteous, then the body will be cultivated; if the body is cultivated, then the family will be in order; if the family is in order, then the country will be governed; if the country is governed, then the world will be peaceful.

——"The Great Learning"

2. A gentleman is likened to righteousness, and a villain is likened to benefit. —— Confucius

3. Those who are not strong in ambition are not wise enough. —— Mo Zhai

4. Be poor and strong, and never fall into the clouds. ——Wang Bo

5. Don’t worry about poverty and lowliness, and don’t dwell on wealth. ——Tao Yuanming

6. Forget the past like smoke, and be selfless in your heart. —— Tao Zhu

7. Those who accomplished great things in ancient times not only had extraordinary talents, but also had perseverance. ——Su Shi

8. Do not do evil because it is small, and do not do good because it is small. Only those who are virtuous and virtuous can obey others. ——Liu Bei

9. The value of life is not measured by time, but by depth. —— Leo Tolstoy

10. A pessimistic person is defeated by himself first, and then defeated by life; an optimistic person defeats himself first, and then defeats life. ——Wang Guozhen

11. The journey of a gentleman is to cultivate one’s character through tranquility and cultivate one’s virtue through frugality. If it is not indifferent, it will not clear its aspirations, and if it is not peaceful, it will not be far-reaching. ——Zhuge Liang

12. When an ordinary man sees humiliation, he draws his sword and stands up to fight. This is not brave enough. There are great brave men in the world who are not surprised when something happens suddenly, and are not angry when something happens without reason. ——Su Shi

13. When you see the virtuous, think about them, and when you see the virtuous, reflect inwardly. ——"The Analects"

(2) Collection of witty sayings

14. The power of the chain of habit is very weak, so it is often not felt, but once it is felt, it is already a firm bond. Indestructible.

——Don’t develop bad habits

15. The most noble person can also become ignorant, rude and rude due to habit, and even be rude to the point of inhumanity.

16. The house should be cleaned frequently, otherwise it will be filled with dust; the face should be washed frequently, but if not washed, it will be covered with dust.

17. The wisest way of life is to defy the habits of the times and at the same time live in violation of them.

18. The foundation of any achievement is to establish a good character. Those who have always been knowledgeable and capable of undertaking great undertakings must first establish their foothold in terms of character.

19. If you encourage yourself with the strength of ice and frost, your character will be noble and noble; if you use the capacity of the sky to accommodate others, your virtue will be vast.

——Master Hongyi.

20. Treating cultivation with cultivation is not true cultivation; treating uncultivation with cultivation is real cultivation.

21. Self-cultivation does not mean that you will not lose your temper, but that you will not lose your temper easily. People who don't lose their temper are not necessarily well-educated people. People who lose their temper easily are people who lack self-cultivation.

22. A person who wants to achieve something in life must constantly strengthen his own cultivation. Otherwise, he will either be destroyed by flowers or by rumors.

23. How to stop slander is to say that there is no argument. The stronger the argument, the more skillful the slanderer will be.

——Qing Shen Hanguang's "Jingyuan Yu"

24. Belief in oneself and one's own strength is a good thing, especially if it is based on a solid foundation of knowledge and experience self-confidence, but without this there is a danger of becoming arrogant and unwarranted overconfidence.

——Frunze

25. Apart from humans and locusts, there are few animals that can make a mess when visiting an area.

——Ma Changshan's "Flowers of Thoughts"

26. Learning is a person's true special skill, the first characteristic, the first strength, the first wisdom, and the first One source. Everything else is the result of learning, the blessing of learning.

——The famous writer Wang Meng discusses learning

Examples

﹡Celebrity examples﹡

Ford’s cultivation

There is a "Ford Company" in the United States. Its founder is Ford. After graduating from college, he applied for a job at a car company. The three or four people who applied for the job with him all had higher academic qualifications than him. After the interviews with the first few people, he felt that he had no hope. But once it comes, let’s make peace with it. He knocked on the door and walked into the chairman's office. As soon as he entered the office, he found a piece of paper on the ground at the door. He bent down to pick it up. He found that it was a piece of stained paper and threw it into the wastebasket. Then he went to the chairman's desk and said, "I'm here to apply for Ford." The chairman said, "Very good, very good! Mr. Ford, you have been hired by us." Ford said in surprise: "Director "Boss, I think the first three are better than me. Why did you hire me?" The chairman said, "Mr. Ford, the first three are indeed better educated than you and have a good appearance, but their eyes can only see big things. You can't see small things. I think people who can see small things will naturally see big things in the future. A person who can only see big things will ignore many small things and he will not be successful.

That's why I hired you. "That's how Ford got into this company. The company soon became famous all over the world. Ford changed the name of the company to "Ford Company", which also changed the entire U.S. national economy accordingly, making the U.S. automobile industry the leader in the world. This is what it is today." Ford, the founder of the American Ford Company. People say, is this piece of waste paper important? People who see small things can see big things, but people who can only "see" big things may not necessarily be able to see small things. This is a very important lesson. .

[Instructions] A piece of paper determines a person's destiny. Although this is accidental, it is also inevitable. A person's cultivation can play a decisive role in his success. Use this When selecting materials, you should pay attention to the fact that a person's accomplishments are shown through his subtle actions. Although there are accidental factors, they are also determined by his own accomplishments. Therefore, Ford's success is not determined by luck, but by his own quality. < /p>

[Applicable topics] "Seeing the big from the small", "Details determine fate", etc.

McCarthy's "cigar"

At a press conference, People found that McCarthy, the vice president of the American media giant ABC, who was sitting in the front row, suddenly squatted down and got under the table. Everyone was stunned and wondered why the tycoon would do something so damaging to his image in public.

After a while, he got out from under the table, waved the cigar in his hand, and said calmly: "I'm sorry, my cigar fell under the table. My mother told me that I should cherish every penny I have." "

McCarthy is a billionaire. Logically speaking, he should not pay attention to this cigar that fell on the ground, but he gave us an unexpected answer.

[Instructions] This is a kind of wealth cultivation, which is the source of their great wealth.

[Applicable topics] "Cherish", "Frugality", "Confidence".

The sum of a hundred zeros is still zero

After Einstein's "Theory of Relativity" was published, someone concocted a book "Hundred People Refuting the Theory of Relativity". Einstein dismissed it. He said: "If My theory is wrong, a refutation is enough, a hundred zeros add up to zero. "

Jenner was a British physician. More than 200 years ago, he proved that vaccination with cowpox could protect people from smallpox. This conclusion was strongly opposed by many parties at the time. Some people Some said he was blasphemous; some accused him of treating people like animals; some proposed depriving him of the right to practice medicine; some proposed expelling him from the medical association. But Jenner ignored these secular prejudices and malicious attacks and firmly believed that his conclusion was correct. . He said: "Let others decide, I will go my own way! "Facts have proven his scientific conclusions. With confidence, Jenner opened the door to immunology and saved countless lives.

[Instructions] There is a difference between confidence and pride. Pride is a This is a manifestation of arrogance, overestimating oneself without reality, and acting based on subjective assumptions. The result is always failure. Confidence is not the case. It can make a full and correct evaluation of all aspects of one's own situation. This kind of evaluation is by no means blind but is based on scientific analysis of objective reality. Without the self-confidence of Einstein and Jenner, there would be no subsequent success.

[Applicable topic] Confidence is not. Pride and arrogance can be applied to topics such as "confidence" or "persistence"

﹡Everything in society﹡

People who can say "thank you"

A reporter did a market survey and went to a shopping mall to pick out things. He usually didn’t buy anything. Before leaving, he wanted to see if the salesperson would say “thank you”, but none of them did. Some people even showed boredom and dissatisfaction. Under the reporter’s words, When prompted, some people would say come back next time, but no one said thank you or anything like that. The reporter was very disappointed as he was walking on the roadside when he suddenly heard someone say "Thank you, come back next time." He followed the sound and found out It was an old man selling newspapers on the roadside. The reporter was so pleasantly surprised that he deliberately went up to ask for directions. He observed that the old man was very polite. The reporter happily gave him a Fuwa, the mascot of the Olympic Games, and thanked him for his contribution to the urban civilization of Beijing. Despite his contribution, the old man was also surprised that the idioms he had spoken for decades were suddenly rewarded. He thought it was an unexpected gain. He was not beautiful, but he made people who communicated with him feel warm. We say that people are cultivated people.

[Tips] Learn to be grateful, that is, respect others in interpersonal interactions, be kind to others, cherish what others give, and express gratitude from the bottom of your heart in return. .

Gratitude is a broad mind that can accommodate the ups and downs of life. Thanks to the steepness of the mountains, we can appreciate the infinite scenery of "seeing the small mountains at a glance". With thunder and thunder, rainbows can be seen flying after the wind and rain; thanks to poverty, the hardships of life are a priceless wealth; thanks to tenacious opponents, only in fierce competition can we burst out with dazzling success.

[ Applicable topics] "Cultivation is reflected in practical actions", "Cultivation is reflected in the subtleties", etc.

"Don't talk to strangers"

"Don't talk to strangers". , this is a reminder given to citizens by a well-meaning police officer in a certain city during the Spring Festival in 2006.

Faced with this eye-catching warning sign erected at a certain train station, people talked a lot. Some said it was a concrete manifestation of the people's police's concern for the citizens. Some said that this kind of reminder would further deepen the already indifferent relationship between people. deteriorating, some people asked: "Is our society so sad that we only have passive reminders?" We may remind people not to believe the words of strangers, but we should not use individual cases to hurt the hearts of the majority of good people and shake them. The basis of trust in society.

"Don't easily help people who are in urgent need of help in a car accident." This is also a terrible conclusion drawn from the bad behavior of individual injured people. The driver of a taxi company found an injured person on the road. The old lady, afraid of being relied on by her, said helplessly: "Mom, I am willing to take you home, but you must first write me a "guarantee" to promise that I did not hit you. This is such a sad gray Humor!

[Instructions] The civilization of society is composed of the cultivation of citizens. The moral level of a country is determined by the moral level of each of its citizens. There is no civilized individual image. There is no civilized country image. This material is designed to help everyone improve their own literacy and guide everyone to understand the true meaning of life.

[Applicable topic] This topic is suitable for explaining "There are problems with moral cultivation in today's society." ”, use these two examples to stimulate readers’ reflection.

﹡Yilin﹡

The cultivation of a bottle of water

A reporter A teacher from a normal school who received the donation welcomed a donor, a wealthy Hong Kong industrialist.

In order to quench their thirst at the airport, they each bought a few sips of mineral water. The plane arrived, and everyone threw the mineral water in their hands into the trash can. They saw Monopoly coming off the plane, and they went up to greet Monopoly.

Monopoly had a very good attitude. Good, and very easy-going. He was holding a bottle of mineral water in his hand like some tourists. He was talking and laughing with the reporters and teachers with the bottle. People saw that the rich man was almost holding it. There was an empty bottle with only a sip of water at the bottom. As his hand shook, the mineral water made a slight sound. He held the bottle with a sip of water until he was in the car that took him there, but he still didn't throw it away. .

There was water in the car, and someone handed him a full bottle of mineral water. He waved his hand, drank the remaining water in the bottle, put the bottle down, and took the full bottle. bottles of mineral water.

This time he left a donation of 500,000 yuan. His name is Tian Jiaping, a well-known Hong Kong industrialist and philanthropist. He has donated 1 billion yuan in 20 years. < /p>

[Instructions] Cultivation has nothing to do with status, no matter rich or poor. Even an old man selling newspapers can make him taller than ordinary people; as for Mr. Tian Jiabing, in addition to his love, he is also more caring. The most touching thing should be the bottle with only one mouthful of water.

[Applicable topic] This material can be used for "cultivation" topics to refute some topics such as "cultivation". The argument that "cultivation is possessed by certain people"

I am the best

There was a little boy wearing a ball cap, holding a bat and baseball in his hand, and came to his home fully armed. Backyard.

"I'm the greatest hitter in the world," he said confidently, throwing the ball in the air and swinging hard, but missing.

Undeterred, he threw it into the air again and shouted: "I am the most powerful hitter. "

He swung the bat again, but unfortunately he missed again.

He was stunned for a long time and carefully inspected the bat and baseball.

He stood up and tried again, this time telling himself: "I'm the best hitter. "

However, his third attempt failed again.

"Wow! He suddenly jumped up, "It turns out that I am a first-rate pitcher!" "

[Tips] Sometimes it's easy to regain confidence in yourself - the facts are still facts, and you just need to change your perspective.

[Applicable topic] This topic is applicable to " "Confidence" topics. Confidence is not about ignoring one's own shortcomings, but about finding one's strengths and establishing the belief in struggle.

Compulsory courses in life

—A group of college students went to a certain national ministry Laboratory visit. The secretary of the minister poured water for everyone, and the students looked at his work with blank expressions. One of them asked: "Is there any green tea? It's too hot. When pouring water for Lin Hui, he said softly: "Thank you, thank you for your hard work on such a hot day." "The minister came and greeted everyone. Only Lin Hui applauded a few times. After the minister said something, he handed out the commemorative brochure. The students casually took the brochure handed over by the minister with one hand. Only Lin Hui Hui took it with both hands and said respectfully: "Thank you." Two months later, Lin Hui was hired by the ministry laboratory. Some students were quite dissatisfied, but the instructor said: "Actually, your chances are exactly the same. Your grades are the same." Better than him, but besides studying, you need to learn too many things, and self-cultivation is the first lesson. ”

[Instruction] What we learn is not just knowledge, but more importantly, we must learn how to behave and learn how to improve our self-cultivation.

[Applicable topics] “Cultivation”, "Cultivation and knowledge", "compulsory courses", etc.

﹡Social science knowledge﹡

The magic of self-confidence

As long as people give up on themselves and are full of self-confidence, they may overcome difficulties and achieve success. This is proved by German psychiatric expert Lindemann through personal experiments. Lindemann believes that as long as a person has confidence in himself, he can maintain mental and physical health. At that time, the whole country of Germany was paying attention to the tragic adventure of crossing the Atlantic Ocean in a single boat. More than a hundred brave men had failed in the boat one after another, and no one survived. Lindemann concluded that these victims were not defeated physically in the first place, but mainly died of mental breakdown, panic and despair. In order to verify his point of view, he conducted the experiment himself despite the objections of his relatives and friends. In July 1900, Lindemann sailed a small boat alone into the rough Atlantic Ocean. He was conducting a psychological experiment that had never been done before in history, and the price he was prepared to pay was his own life. During the voyage, Dr. Lindemann encountered unimaginable difficulties and was on the verge of death many times. He even had hallucinations before his eyes, his motor sense was also in a state of numbness, and sometimes he felt really desperate. But as soon as this thought arises, he immediately blames himself loudly: Coward, do you want to repeat the same mistakes and be buried here? No, I will definitely succeed! Finally, he successfully crossed the Atlantic Ocean.

[Instructions] The role of self-confidence is huge and obvious. With self-confidence, you can stimulate your potential and achieve success. Many people's mentality of "being afraid of wolves before and tigers behind" is a manifestation of lack of self-confidence.

With confidence and perseverance, you can realize your dreams.

[Applicable topics] This material can be applied to many topics, as long as it proves the "importance of self-confidence". When using it, you should pay attention to elaborating from both pros and cons, so that it will appear more objective and rational.

Usage guidance:

1. Material guidance:

When discussing whether ability is more important or cultivation is more important, many of the above examples can come in handy. Self-cultivation does not just refer to politeness, self-cultivation includes a lot of content, so when we use materials, we must know clearly what point of view you want to discuss, and then carefully select the appropriate examples. Avoid scratching your beard and eyebrows, no matter what. Twenty-one situations where you fill in an example as soon as you think of it.

There are many examples of self-confidence above, but not all are the same. For example, "I am the best" is more suitable for topics such as "optimism and looking at things from multiple angles"; while "The Magic of Self-Confidence" is suitable for essays on topics such as "perseverance". Only by knowing the material thoroughly can you do whatever you want in the examination room without falling into convention.

1. Title examples:

"Human nature is like a flower, cultivation is like a stamen" "Reflection of the soul" "Farewell, the moss in the corner" "Give yourself a touch of confident sunshine"

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2. Examples of excellent paragraphs:

① Cultivation is a pot of fire that melts the frozen heart;

Cultivation is a glass of wine that warms strangers ;

Cultivation is a spring breeze, blowing green the season of life;

Cultivation is a ray of sunshine, lighting up the way forward.

②A pure cultivated heart is a clear spring, which nourishes the purest thoughts of human civilization; a beautiful cultivated heart is a bud, which will reveal a business The abundant spring; a colorful self-cultivation heart is like a cloud, which leads to the sky full of colorful clouds...

③A person with connotation should be broad-minded and not care about trivial matters; He should be knowledgeable and talented, but not arrogant; he should be mellow and understanding, understand the truth without being unsophisticated and snobbish; he should have a potential charisma that makes others identify with him invisibly...

< p>Connotation is like pure water, although it is bland but has flavor; connotation is like a quiet lotus, blooming but not ostentatious; connotation is like a high Bodhi, enlightening people with wisdom. The connotation is like a big tree under the scorching sun in midsummer, providing a cool place for people; the connotation is like the scenery in the journey of life. Without it, the journey will be less interesting...

3. Appreciation of Examples

Buying out the mother? Buying out the mother seems incredible. After listening to the following story, you will suddenly understand. ?

This is what happened: A few days ago, Granny Li, a rag picker, took her two biological sons to court and asked them to give her a pension, otherwise, she must be bought out. ?

Judge Liu learned that Granny Li was widowed in middle age and relied on her own scavenging to save money for the education of her two children. After graduating from college, the eldest son worked in the Municipal Personnel Bureau. The second son failed to pass the exam and worked in a family Work in a motorcycle parts factory. After Granny Li lost her ability to work, her two sons took turns supporting her for a period of time and fulfilled their responsibilities. The problem is that Granny Li found a wife despite the strong opposition of her sons, so the sons stopped supporting her. The reason is: Old people do not remarry in middle age, but remarry when they are old, which obviously increases the burden on their sons. Grandma Li also had her own reasons: she was too busy earning money to raise her children and fulfill her responsibilities in her middle age, and had no time to find a companion. She would be lonely when she got older. Moreover, the old man had his own pension to support himself, so it did not make him any worse. They have no reason not to provide themselves with living expenses due to the burden on their children. ?

Judge Liu tried to mediate many times, hoping that the two brothers could understand the old man's remarriage and fulfill their support responsibilities, but they never listened. In the end, the case had to be heard in court.

The two sides debated for four hours with no result. Just when the judge announced the mandatory execution of the verdict, Granny Li unexpectedly shouted: "I ask my sons to buy me out at once."?

This sound" Buyout” alarmed everyone. Granny Li clarified what she meant: She had raised the eldest child for 22 years and the second child for 19 years. Although the living standard was low at that time, there was a minimum standard of living. Now she is required to buy out her son in one lump sum based on the current minimum living standards. Then everyone will have nothing to do with each other and ask the judge to calculate how much money each son should give. ?

At this time, the people in the audience started talking. They only heard about buying out their seniority. How could a son buy out his mother? The judge and several judges discussed for a while and then calculated on the computer: Based on the current minimum living standard of 120 yuan per person per month, it is 1,440 yuan a year. In this way, the eldest son will pay 31,680 yuan in 22 years, and the second eldest son in 19 years. Payable is 27,360 yuan.

The buyout fee was just announced, but I didn’t expect that someone would applaud. At this time, Granny Li's defender said: "According to relevant legal provisions, the old man's request is reasonable. If the defendant continues to fail to fulfill his obligation to support the elderly and bear responsibility, as a lawyer, I suggest that the relevant unit lay off the two unfilial sons and do a one-time thing." Buy out."?

After hearing what the lawyer said, the two brothers panicked. They were most afraid of being laid off, so they had to express their willingness to continue to support the elderly. ? The audience immediately applauded enthusiastically, and Granny Li held the hands of her two sons and cried: "Children... you are so poisonous that you can't eat your own children! How could I ask you to buy out? You can really afford the money, what's the share between mother and son?" Can the love and sense of responsibility be bought out?"?

After hearing what their mother said, the two sons burst into tears. ?

Comments "Buying out the mother" is a proposition that can turn one's heart upside down and cause a strong earthquake. The article is ingenious and tells us a shocking story: Granny Li, who once made a living by picking up rags, stopped supporting her two biological sons because she remarried, so Granny Li filed a lawsuit against her two sons. court. Under the mediation of the court, the two sons had to take on the responsibility of supporting the elderly again. The story is simple and clear, but the thoughts it triggers are shocking. ?

The story has twists and turns and is full of emotions and emotions; the language is concise and fresh, and the intention is profound and alarming. It is truly a masterpiece.