Although the vast majority of people try to go with the "majority" and integrate into the collective, the history of human society has never been led by the "majority" but follows the "28/20 rule." , that is, 20% of people enjoy the services of 80% of people. In the Internet society, even the "19-law" is not impossible. The world will always be led by a small group of people. If you work so hard to be gregarious and want to be a harmonious part, there is really no need.

In the workplace, especially newcomers, when entering a new environment, they will have some anxiety. They worry about whether they will be liked by others, and they try their best to integrate into the new group while worrying. But this matter is not as important as you think, because "being gregarious" is not the primary criterion by which the world evaluates you.

Study hard, grow at the fastest speed, and understand this industry to the maximum extent. The most important thing is to become the most useful rather than the most gregarious talent in the workplace.

Once you become the person with the best performance, then people will naturally rush to build a good relationship with you. "If you bloom, the breeze will come." This is what it means.

Don’t waver in your determination just because you don’t fit in. You have to know that you may be making progress at this time.

Yes, successful people are lonely. There is such a famous saying: "Later, many people asked me how I felt when I was wandering on the road alone at night, but what I thought of was not the loneliness and the long road, but the magnificent waves. The ocean and the stars shining in the sky.

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