Women's "three fears" and men's "three noes" worries will become complicated after marriage, because it is easier to get along with each other in love and the pressure on both husband and wife will gradually increase.
Over time, elegant women before marriage have become yellow-faced women after marriage. Women are afraid of getting old and suddenly find wrinkles in their eyes. Seeing the erosion of time, but unable to retain it, this is undoubtedly a blow to women. Women are afraid of being tired, and the housework after marriage makes them overwhelmed. It seems that they have been working indefinitely and suddenly lost hope of life; Women are afraid of being dull, and their married love life tends to be dull. Without your sweetness, everything around them will feel dull.
For married men, it seems that the pressure brought by wife and family accounts for a greater proportion than the dissatisfaction at work, and sometimes they have to face the situation of no money, no power and no sense of accomplishment. Men all want to get rich, but the reality is often unsatisfactory. In the face of their wives' excessive demands, they are a little more annoyed and helpless. Men also want to be masters forever, but marriage often can't let them exert their dominance to the extreme. On the other hand, there is no sense of accomplishment in work, and I have worked hard for a long time but got nothing. When they get home, they are depressed, difficult to be understood by their lovers, and there may be quarrels, which makes them worry twice.
When sorrow is shared, the pain of mind and soul will be alleviated. It is also valuable for couples to set aside a little time every day, even a few words to express their views. This is the exchange of thoughts and emotions, and troubles will gradually dissipate in this invisible fusion.
A good marriage is a process in which husband and wife can naturally put together a part of their lives and share them with each other. Smart women know how to understand and tolerate. Men often have a "gentleman" complex. Tell him your heart. Know that he loves you, not just your appearance. The wrinkles around his eyes are sometimes proof of happiness. Let him know that he is your only support, and housework will naturally be shared; True love will never disappear with the passage of time. Let him know that you want to keep this love fresh, and your worries will be really solved.
While telling one's own anguish, guide the other person to tell one's own troubles and establish a new balance, so that the relationship between husband and wife will be further strengthened. For example, support each other at work, care more about him when he is tired, and whisper when he is in a bad mood: Husband, what's wrong with you? Let me share it for you. Don't worry me. In this way, he will certainly thank you for your concern and understanding.
If you love your wife, happiness needs to be shared, and troubles need to be shared. In family life, the wife's feelings are gentle and delicate. Husband and wife are the best confidants, and of course they are also the best confidants. Tell him many things and listen carefully at the same time. In the relationship between listening and being listened to, let the pain and troubles in your heart disappear.