Pinyin: jǐ suǒ bù yù, wù she yú ré n
Interpretation: Don't impose what you don't want to accept on others.
Said by: Analects of Confucius Yan Yuan: "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you."
Don't impose on others what you don't want to accept.
Extended data:
"Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" was Zhou Li's earliest principle and was highly praised by Confucius, the founder of Confucianism. In other words, if you ask others to do something, first of all, you are willing to do it yourself, or you follow others, then your request will be at ease; It is generally understood that you can't ask others to do what you can't do.
This sentence reveals an important principle in dealing with interpersonal relationships. Confucius means "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you".
People should be broad-minded, not narrow-minded, but magnanimous and forgive others. If you impose what you don't want on others, it will not only destroy the relationship with others, but also make things deadlocked and out of control.