Why don’t you fall in love? Don’t fight against human nature. Just let her understand that there are limits to advancement and retreat, love is limited, and she can prioritize and don’t delay her studies and career. A girl can’t hold back her love when she’s in love

If you must be heartless and loveless, then learn from Buddhism. Form is emptiness, emptiness is color.

That is why there is no color in the air, no eyes, ears, nose, tongue, body, mind, colorless sound, fragrance, touch, no ignorance, no end of ignorance, and no old age or death. There is no old age, death, no suffering, no path, no wisdom, and no gains. Or, all potential dharmas are just like dreams and bubbles, like dew and lightning. It should be viewed as such

The same is true for love. It is just a illusory scene, a mirage, and a feeling. Once it has passed, it will no longer be real.

The reason why people fall in love is similar to animals in estrus. The secretion of hormones and the attraction between males and females is quite low-level