The Buddha said that only by looking back five hundred times in the past life can we pass by in this life. It is such a rare fate for two people to meet each other in the vast sea of ????people and know, love and stay with each other. But as the saying goes, marriage is the grave of love. Love is a matter for two people, and marriage is a matter for two families. Once you get married, there are more and more things to consider, and it becomes more complicated, so there will be more problems, so quarrels between couples are very common. Something, even a trivial thing may become a trigger.

But quarreling is not a bad thing. If two people treat each other with respect, then there might be a problem? Sometimes when a couple quarrels, their friends or relatives will say "quarrel at the end of the bed and make peace at the end of the bed". This is a common saying among the people. I think many people have heard it, but why can the couple be able to "quarrel at the end of the bed"? What about the "end of the bed"? The first sentence of this saying tells us why! This is because "husband and wife do not have an overnight feud."

Sometimes the quarrel may be just to vent to each other and vent the dissatisfaction in the heart. After the quarrel is over and the anger is gone, nothing will happen. After all, some couples have this way of getting along, and they always have to quarrel from time to time. Mouth, in this way, not only will it not affect their feelings, but the more noisy they are, the deeper their feelings will be. If a couple wants to spend their lives together, they must learn to tolerate each other. Only in this way can their lives last longer. And we must be honest. It is best to talk about any problems openly and resolve any conflicts as soon as possible. If you really quarrel, you will quarrel, but you can't hold grudges. It is normal for husband and wife to have friction, but if they reconcile after the quarrel, the matter will be over. Don't hold on to one thing. Let go, otherwise it will be more likely to intensify conflicts.

Sometimes the quarrel between the two parties may be just impulsive, but in fact, if they each sleep and calm down, when they get up the next day, they may not be so angry about the same thing, and there must be someone on both sides of the couple. Show weakness first, say soft words, and give the other party a step down. This way the conflict can be easily resolved. Life itself shouldn't care too much, otherwise it will make life very tiring. Since you love someone and are willing to form a family with him or her, then you are naturally willing to tolerate and accommodate the other person. There is affection in your heart, and hatred is only temporary. Anger will not exist for long, so reconciliation is only a matter of time. Bumps and bumps in life are inevitable, but if you think more about each other's good qualities and forget about each other's unhappiness, life may be easier. Today's couples should remember that there is no one-night feud between husband and wife, and quarrels at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed. Instead of getting divorced easily.

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