Buffett once said: The best investment for a man is to choose the right wife? . The help a good wife brings you is irreplaceable. Sure, this? Right, wife? It has nothing to do with beauty. Many people think that a good wife must be beautiful, but this has nothing to do with beauty and ugliness.
During the Three Kingdoms period, Zhuge Liang's wife, Huang Yueying, was said to have yellow hair, dark skin and ugly appearance, but she was a well-known talented woman, familiar with the art of war, knowledgeable in astronomy and geography, and resourceful. According to legend, the wooden ox and flowing horse invented by Zhuge Liang was developed from the skills taught by Huang Yueying. Huang Yueying can be said to have greatly helped Zhuge Liang's career.
Why is it that a man's best investment is to choose the right wife? We can see from the following points.
A suitable wife will give you the greatest support when you are frustrated.
In 2008, Huang Guangyu was arrested and investigated for economic crimes, and Du Fu was also implicated. But in the second trial, Huang Guangyu tried to protect his wife Du Fu, so Du Fu was released. Although Huang Guangyu was arrested, Du Fu told Huang Guangyu in prison? It's okay, honey. When you get out of prison, I'll give you something better, okay? . If nothing else, I think any man is very satisfied.
In fact, when a man is at a low ebb, what he should care about most is his wife. The wife's opinion and behavior directly affect a man. If Du Fu gave up Huang Guangyu at that time, or complained endlessly about Huang Guangyu, then he wouldn't understand. I believe that Huang Guangyu is suffering in prison and there is no hope. With Du Fu's support and encouragement, he was relieved, he had hope, and he worked harder. Not to mention that Du Fu can develop Gome to this point, which is really commendable. Life has a wife, what more can a husband ask for?
Second, a suitable wife will give you the most considerate care when you are tired.
I don't know how you understand the definition of home. Bian Xiao thinks so: A place with a beloved woman is called home. Of course, this is just Bian Xiao's understanding. When I am tired and tired, I come home and see the bright light left by my wife in the dark night; Watching his wife fall asleep on the sofa in pajamas; Looking at the hot food left by my wife on the table: at this moment, I feel that all the hard work and all the fatigue are gone. I am blessed to have such a wife at home.
We don't need many words, we understand each other, maybe a look, maybe an action. She understands you very well. No gorgeous confession, no vows of eternal love, only her long-term companionship. What she gives you is the greatest love and the most intimate care.
Third, a right woman, you win, accompany you to the throne, you lose, accompany you to make a comeback.
Don't talk about social reality, people are realistic. Now people can share wealth, but how many people can accompany you to make a comeback. Many people resolutely choose to leave you when you fall, because she doesn't want to suffer with you, and others are afraid of suffering. There is nothing wrong with human reality, because it is also human instinct.
Anyone can enjoy the splendor, but it is really valuable to share joys and sorrows with you. Never give up when you are frustrated in life, never complain, always support you silently behind your back and build a home with you. Such a woman is the greatest luck in your life.
In fact, no man wants to see his beloved woman suffer with him. On the contrary, it is because of the support of your wife that you work harder and understand the responsibilities a man should have. Such a woman is an important person in your life.