1. When there are too many things in the heart, it will become chaotic and disorderly, and then the heart will also become chaotic. Some painful emotions and unpleasant memories, if filled in the heart, will make people depressed. Therefore, sweeping the floor and removing dust can brighten a gloomy heart; clarifying things can help you say goodbye to troubles; throwing away some unnecessary pain can create more and greater space for happiness.

Appreciation: People can only reap the success that truly belongs to them in a relaxed and happy rhythm only if they act according to their ability, let go when they should, and stop when they should.

2. True friendship is rare in the world, and this kind of friendship is even rarer between equally matched people. Xingxingxixixingxing is just the common exaggeration of the world. True friendship only exists between people of different status. Only this kind of friends can stand together through thick and thin and live together through thick and thin.

Appreciation: Is there any help and dedication without asking for anything in return? If there is, or it only shows the benevolence of the giver, it is not enough to explain the existence of true friendship. In addition to being free of any utilitarianism, the more important prerequisites for true friendship are spiritual communication, emotional acceptance, recognition of values, congenial interests and hobbies. In short, mutual happiness. The probability of this kind of acceptance and appreciation happening between people of the same sex is not impossible, but it is extremely low and is likely to "only exist between people with different statuses." However, if it happens between people of the opposite sex, it will inevitably have an element of love.

3. Beauty is like fresh summer fruit, which is perishable and difficult to survive. Moreover, it often makes the young debauched and makes the elderly somewhat embarrassed. ?If beauty is attached to a good person, it will make good deeds dazzling and make evil deeds shameless.

Appreciation?: Beauty is like a double-edged sword, but it is a gift from God anyway. But relying too much on beauty will inevitably make people shallow and become the fruit of summer.

4. Young people's mistakes often ruin things, while older people's mistakes only make things that could be done more and faster be done less and slower.

Appreciation: It is better to miss than to make a mistake. Don't rush things. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Don't do anything that is only accomplished in one battle. Don't do anything desperate. There is room for maneuver in everything.

5. When happiness comes suddenly, people are often overwhelmed by the whirlpool of happiness and fall from the peak of happiness. To accept happiness is to cherish happiness instead of just settling in it. It is like facing a jar of old wine. Drinking it in one gulp will often make you drunk and unconscious. Only by sipping carefully and slowly can you taste the real mellow and sweet taste. .

Appreciation: Life is a kind of endurance, and you need to learn to support it. Support career, support family, and even support the entire society. Where there is support, there will be tolerance. How much weight is supported, how much pressure must be endured.