1. In life, success or failure is relative. The important thing is to show your attitude towards life. When the road is twists and turns, quietly watch the clouds of life rolling in and out; when life is frustrated, quietly appreciate the bitter and joyful charm of fate; when life is prosperous, listen to the glorious movement of life! Therefore, life is both ordinary and noble. Keep the fire of the soul in the darkness, the spirit of the soul in the failure, and the firm belief in the heavy rain. Pain and happiness are the secret to moving forward in life.
2. The life you choose is not what you want, but the price of leaving is too high. Once you get used to stability, you don't want to change anymore, so you make do, and your life is actually over. We have to take care of ourselves. The state of Consummation is different for each person. Everyone will be Consummated if they do well what they have to do. So don't judge others, everyone is different, and only you are qualified to evaluate yourself.
3. Don’t jump to conclusions when something happens. Even if you have the answer, you have to wait. Maybe there is a better solution. There are different answers from different perspectives. You must learn to think from other people's perspective. Especially when you encounter trouble, you must learn to wait. Take a look and watch. In many cases, not only are the troubles resolved, but good luck may also come.
4. In this life, people have the same opportunities, and human understanding is a magical thing. Different understandings, the same environment, and the same event may have many different results. Only when you allow yourself to meditate and enjoy a moment of tranquility in life can you savor the many things in the world and truly understand the true meaning of life.
5. A person, a lifetime, a path. As he grows older, his views and mentality also change. Different environments breed different people, different scenery affects different moods, and different attitudes lead to different endings. People go to higher places, and water flows to lower places. Only when you stand high can you see far.
6. The shallow water is noisy, but the deep water is calm. If you want to achieve great things, learn to be calm. As the saying goes, the more capable a person is, the more low-key he is and the more stable he is in doing things. The bigger the thing to be done, the wider and more complex the people and things involved, the more important it is to know ourselves and our enemies. Low-key people are not easy to be seen through because they are good at hiding, and are not easy to be guarded against because of their ordinary appearance. They are always taking the initiative. If you can keep your breath, you will not act rashly, and you will be able to seize the opportunity, and you will win if you take action.
7. Life is like a dream, and time is ruthless. Suddenly looking back, I realized that living is a mood. It doesn't matter whether you are poor or rich, whether you gain or lose. Everything is fleeting. Think about it, no matter yesterday, today or tomorrow, it is a good day to be enlightened. Regardless of family, friendship, or love, being able to cherish it forever is a good mood!
8. If you can’t look away, just carry it. If you can't let it go, just remember it. If you can't bear to part with it, just keep it. When one day... I can no longer carry it, I will look away! I can’t remember it clearly, so I put it down! If you can’t keep it anymore, then give it up! So don’t worry too much about some things, just turn a blind eye or close one eye, and it will pass. Cherish the people in front of you and do the things in front of you. Everything is wonderful! Remember, if it’s cloudy, it won’t necessarily rain.
9. No matter what happens around you, no matter what happens in the future, you must retain the essence of kindness. Only when you are kind can the world be broad and others can be tolerant. You must have a heart to help others, be materially rich, and have no limitations in spirit; you must have words of praise for others, good words can warm the winter, and bad words can make the summer cold; you must have pure eyes, you see it is simple, all living beings are not complicated; Be helpful, less about icing on the cake, more about helping others when they need it; be patient, and you will get as much as you accept.
10. Desire is like sand in your hand. The tighter you hold it, the more you lose. Only when you learn to let go and be willing to give up can you truly gain. Gains and losses are just relative terms. When you think you have gained, you may be losing; when you think you are losing, you may be gaining. The so-called perseverance means to give up confusion and gain enlightenment, to give up small things to gain big things, to give up illusions to keep truth, and to give up emptiness to gain reality. Take everything lightly, be open-minded, and let everything go as it pleases. If there is no intention to gain, there is no loss.
11. Not taking it seriously is called tolerance, but taking it seriously is not tolerance.
When I see this person doing bad things, I often think in my mind, then you can’t bear it. What is tolerance? Don't take it to heart at all. Only when you have nothing on your mind can you be tolerant. Why don't you worry? All appearances are false. The six realms of reincarnation are false, don’t take them to heart. ——Old monk Jingkong
12. If you want to become a great person, you must first be generous. A generous person has a tone of voice that is neither alarming nor fearful, a character that is neither arrogant nor impetuous, an imposing manner that is neither arrogant nor arrogant, a manner that is neither obscene nor trivial, a person who is quiet and elegant, moves calmly, and walks freely and freely. A generous person is like a flower with an elegant and long fragrance; like a tree with lush and evergreen branches and leaves. A generous person can play his or her role with peace of mind, do the work at hand conscientiously, and do not fight for fame or fortune, nor get entangled in money.
13. The meaning of life is to use your own beliefs to shoulder your responsibilities. There are no unnecessary tests in this world. As the saying goes, there is always a pit in every carrot. Just prepare as many dishes as there are guests. Life has already prepared enough hardships. There is no need to waste more efforts on fate. Destiny can't be simpler. How is life? It's a cool autumn day.
14. We often live for others to see, and we also stare at how others live. So, we put on a mask for ourselves, even if we feel bitter and tired, the mask is still inlaid with an eternal smile; when we see the smiles on other people's faces, we always suspect that they are also wearing masks. In fact, happiness belongs to you. Never use others as a reference. Others cannot be you, so how can they know the path you have taken and the joy and pain in your heart.
15. This is a kind of simple persistence of life beliefs, calmness in the face of the slanting rain of the years, balance and indifference between the gains and losses of fate. If the mind is at peace, the world will be at peace.
16. Keep your eyes open and your heart open. The difference between genius and ordinary people may lie in a pair of eyes and a heart. For some things, some people can only see the surface and think about the present, while some people can see the connotation and think about the future. Keep your eyes open, your heart open, and welcome every opportunity in life. I believe you will usher in the dawn of success!
17. It is not years that make people mature, but experience. The maturity of plants is the evolution of state; the maturity of life is the improvement of consciousness. The years have changed the country and appearance, but it cannot make people's hearts grow naturally. The realm of life can only grow as much as you understand after experiencing it. A young man who dares to venture forward and is quick to understand is also a hero; if he wastes his time and does not open his mind, he will become a fool. Life is familiar and the mentality is indifferent.
18. Everything in life is not achieved by calculation, but by kindness; it is not achieved by seeking, but by cultivation. The breadth of your mind determines the pattern of your destiny. You can have as much as you can tolerate. Only when you have an open mind and think through everything, can you take it up and let it go, learn to tolerate your temper, know how to restrain your desires, be rational when you retreat, be generous when you are humble, get rid of distracting thoughts and selfishness, and less comparison and care, will you be able to adapt to the circumstances.
19. To follow fate, you must first know that everything in the world is subject to the constant change of causes and conditions. Love, hate, obedience, honor and disgrace will not last long and cannot be persisted. Secondly, experiencing both pain and joy arises from conditions. Previous attitudes and behaviors shape subsequent life experiences. Rather than being overjoyed or sad about the outcome, it is better to carefully and carefully choose between good and evil. To follow the fate is to do things with all your heart and soul and contribute to the welfare of all sentient beings; on the other hand, gains and losses follow the fate without any increase or decrease in intention.
20 Danqing doesn’t know that old age is coming, and wealth and honor are like floating clouds to me.
The bamboo stick and mango shoes are easier than the horse, who is afraid? A coop of mist and rain will last a lifetime.
Bodhi has no tree, and the mirror is not a stand. There is nothing in the first place, so how can it cause dust.
The same is true for pleasure in the world. Since ancient times, everything has flowed eastwards.
Everything is human-made, everything is fate; the situation arises from the heart, and it will naturally be easier to take a step back.
Don't be surprised by favor or disgrace, just watch the flowers blooming and falling in front of the court; you have no intention of leaving or leaving, just follow the clouds rolling and relaxing in the sky.