Insist on saying good things about others behind their backs, and don’t worry that the good things won’t reach the ears of the person involved.

When someone speaks ill of someone in front of you, you just smile.

When you persuade others, if you do not take into account the self-esteem of others, then no matter how good your words are, it will be useless.

It only takes one sentence to destroy a person, but it takes a thousand words to cultivate a person. Please be more merciful.

There is no need to look back to see who is cursing you? If a mad dog bites you, do you have to lie down and bite him back?

Sit quietly and think about your own faults, and don’t talk about the faults of others.

Quietly observe your own mistakes and don’t comment on others’ mistakes.

The heart of a villain should be guarded against accidental consequences.

Use the heart of a villain to save the belly of a gentleman.

Don’t talk behind anyone’s back, and don’t talk behind anyone’s back.

The words of an honest man are as reliable as his collateral. ----- Cervantes It's refreshing to be honest, and it's the most popular thing to do. ----- Balzac

Go your own way and let others say it!

A gentleman is known as righteousness, and a villain is known as benefit. —— Confucius