Good evening, everyone!

I am xxx's mother in Class 4, Grade xxx. First of all, I would like to thank the school and teachers for giving me such a good opportunity. As a second-grade parent representative, I feel very honored to stand here and share the experience of children's growth education with you!

Before sharing, we must first thank all the teachers for their education, cultivation and care for our children. Without the hard work of all teachers, our children would not have made such great progress, so I must first thank all teachers for their care and education. As a parent, I don't have any experience in educating my children, and I don't have any special methods except words and deeds and companionship. I know the parents here are more experienced than me in this field. I hope everyone will communicate more and learn from each other in the future. The following is my usual experience in cultivating children's study habits and family education, hoping to * * * encourage all parents and friends present here!

First of all, it is the cultivation of study habits:

1.？ Finish the homework you can do between classes and don't take it home. From the first year of high school, he was trained to wash his hands and do his homework. You can play after you finish your homework. Habit becomes nature, and now he is very proud to go home from school and do his homework after two years of promotion. When he was in the first grade, he did his homework very slowly, so I set him a reasonable time limit and must finish it within the time limit. This avoids his inattention, wasting time and inefficiency. The habit of active and timely learning can cultivate children to form the concept of muddling along and cherishing time. After finishing your homework, tidy up the stationery and textbooks for the second class. Where to get your own reference materials and where to return them. Cultivating children to form a good habit of sorting things after use can not only save time for finding things, but also help children develop a sense of responsibility of "taking care of their own affairs to the end".

2. Do your homework independently in the room, and your parents won't accompany you. Don't do anything else when you do your homework. I think creating a good learning environment for children at home. The light is sufficient, the air is fresh, the room is clean and tidy, and there are no articles unrelated to study piled up on the desktop. Even study materials, try not to put them. Children should also be given a quiet thinking space when studying, and don't distract their attention. When children are studying, don't study while playing, and don't eat to increase their attention. A child's habit of concentrating on studying or doing things will lay a good foundation for his higher and deeper learning and development in the future.

3.？ When you write your homework, you should know what you know, know what you know, and check it carefully after you finish it, so as to ensure the accuracy of your homework. The handwriting is neat, beautiful and clear. Writing carefully can not only improve the correct rate of children's homework, but also have positive significance for correcting children's learning attitude and developing a serious and responsible attitude. For children in lower grades, it is a special and very important habit not only to write Chinese characters well, but also to have correct writing posture. As parents, we should remind our children to do a good job of "punching one inch and one foot" when writing, that is, the body is punched from the desk, the pen is one inch away from the nib, and the eyes are one foot away from the desktop of the book. This is of great significance to protect children's eyesight, physical development and self-control.

4. Review and preview carefully every time after class and before the new lesson. Why do you want to preview? Because preview can cultivate children's self-study habits and self-study ability, enhance independence and reduce dependence; ? Finding problems and problems in preview and taking them with you can reduce blindness and enhance the effect of listening to lectures. ? After preview, I have a preliminary understanding of the text, so there is enough time to think and digest what the teacher has taught in class, which is conducive to a deeper understanding of the text content and consolidation of classroom knowledge. ? Repetition is the basic means to strengthen memory, and previewing before class is equivalent to learning first, which is conducive to strengthening memory. Why review? Because what the teacher just said was impressive and clear. Psychologists believe that what you have just learned is the easiest to forget in two or three days, and it is best to review it within 24 hours after learning. If you put it off for too long, you have forgotten a lot of lessons you have learned, and reviewing it again will get twice the result with half the effort. Learning itself is a gradual process. Only by doing more practice and thinking can we know clearly.

5.？ Combine work and rest. After you finish what you should do, you can play for a while, read extracurricular books and play chess. Many parents mistakenly think that play and study are opposites, but in fact, the time for people's brains to concentrate is limited. After a certain period of time, the child's energy, attention and memory all declined. Relaxing the overstressed brain properly can improve the learning efficiency, and only by combining work and rest can we learn well.

6.？ Constantly praise and encourage, consolidate good behavior. Children are very sensitive to praise. For example, Po's handwriting is standard, neat and neat, and I will admire him: "Your handwriting is very good today!" " "In this way, he will not only be very happy and proud, but also greatly enhance his enthusiasm and confidence in serious writing. When children finish everything, our parents give them a short praise, which makes them feel that good behavior can be praised. It feels good. As long as we keep hinting, children will have independent desires, develop in a good direction, and constantly solidify their own behaviors, and children will gradually take the initiative to form good habits.

7.？ Communicate with children often. In the evening, I will communicate with Po about the contents of school study or the activities I participated in that day, so that he can feel the concern of his parents and help me to know his life at school in time. If I find any problem, I should listen to his thoughts, tell him my views on the problem appropriately and give him reasonable opinions and suggestions. I will also share what I have seen and heard, sometimes it is a very funny thing; Sometimes it is about the knowledge of plant cultivation and care; Sometimes it's an introduction to places of interest and historical sites. This can not only enhance the affection between parents and children, but also improve children's ability to observe and analyze things.

Anyone who has come into contact with Po, whether my friends, colleagues or teachers who teach him, all agree that he is an obedient, sensible and versatile child. I think this is inseparable from the teachers' inculcation and the words and deeds of the adults at home.

I have some humble opinions about my family education to share with you:

1.？ Cultivate persistent hobbies. Hobbies can enrich our lives. Liang Qichao said in "The Joy of Learning": "Ordinary people always live in fun, and life is valuable. If you look sad for decades, life will become a desert. What's the use? " Po attended erhu initiation class in kindergarten at the age of 4 in summer. He offered to study. I said it's good to study as a hobby, but if you want to learn, stick to it. Can you do it? He said he could do it. The first lesson teaches beats and cognitive notation. I looked at him in class, and the beat couldn't keep pace at all. This symbol is a gobbledygook, I don't understand it at all. After class, he had the idea of being a deserter. He told me not to study, and I saidno. You promised to study hard and stick to it. Everything is difficult at the beginning, and it can be done with more practice. Spend time at home and patiently teach him to beat time and time again. In the understanding of notation, if you can't sing once, you can sing twice, and if you can't sing twice, you can sing three times until you fully master it. After class, he can keep up with the rhythm of the beat, and he can sing it by drawing a simple score casually. At that time, there were nearly a hundred children taking erhu lessons, and today only 15 is still learning. Xu teacher, the monitor, told me privately, "I'm really worried that Po won't make it. The left hand can't press the string correctly, and the hand shape is wrong. The right hand bow is not on the right track either. I thought you might not come to class at that time. I didn't expect to persist until now. Now the voice is accurate, the hand shape is good, and the bow is on the right track. Good sense of rhythm. You adults don't have to worry about it. " His persistent efforts finally paid off: he passed all the exams and he has been fighting for by going up one flight of stairs. His erhu study has entered a very benign learning track: he can consciously learn new tunes and keep practicing. I will practice my favorite songs, even if I have passed the test. Maybe my children were not excellent in those days, and to put it bluntly, they were at the bottom. However, this does not mean that he really has no talent and can't do it in the future. Once parents don't insist, children can find reasons to give up. Only by constant practice, even a little progress, progress is good. Persistence sometimes keeps us away from success. Hard work may not be successful, but it will certainly not be successful without hard work and persistence.

2.？ Care about his curiosity about new things. Po asked me, "Mom, why am I alone?" Why am I not a dog? Isn't it a cat? " I gave him a perfunctory answer: "Because your mother is human, so are you." He asked again, "Why are you alone?" I answered him, "Because your grandparents are human." He asked again, "Why are grandparents human?" I suddenly realized that he was discussing philosophical issues with me. Who am I? Where is the land I come from? where am I going? He unconsciously began to explore himself, and his self-awareness gradually formed. I said, "This question is beyond my ability to answer in one or two sentences. I recommend you to watch Oscar Bernifi's What am I or Jostan Gard's Sophie's World. You can learn the answer you want to know from it. " Our children will ask strange questions at every stage, easy and difficult. Parents should not easily say "what a silly question, don't ask again." It is easy to kill children's curiosity to explore the world. Difficult problems enable him to get answers from books. Caring for and keeping children's curiosity is the driving force for him to explore the world in the future, and it is also the help of learning. Don't underestimate children. Their thirst for knowledge and understanding of new things far exceed adults' imagination.

3.？ Cultivate his good habit of helping others and doing housework. Housework can promote the development of children's motor skills, cognitive ability and the cultivation of love and responsibility. When Po is free at home, I will say to him: Can you help me with some housework? I really need your help. Children naturally want recognition. For example, I will let him make wonton with me. Tell me how to pack it quickly. How to wrap it? Although he wraps it slowly and has little stuffing at present, the shape of wonton is triangular, and it is particularly eye-catching to cook it in a pot with ingot-shaped wonton. But this does not affect his willingness to wonton with adults every time. I was particularly proud when I ate my own wonton: this is my wonton. Over time, he will offer to help with the housework. And I won't sayno. Every time he finishes housework, I will say thank you to him and praise him for his good work. This can consolidate children's good behavior and make it a habit. I told Po that you should be grateful to those who helped you, because no one is born with an obligation to help you. Be grateful, and you will naturally lend a helping hand when you meet others in trouble in the future. Now he is used to saying thank you after getting help from others. People who know how to respect others will be respected by others. Gratitude is a life attitude and a basic etiquette.

The child is actually the mirror of the parents, but the behavior reflected by this mirror is slightly delayed, and the shortcomings and advantages of the parents will be reflected in the mirror of the child. I hope we can constantly reflect in front of the mirror and be the best ourselves.

As a parent, I have the following requirements for myself:

1. Actively cooperate with teachers to do a good job in children's study. Teachers are much more professional than parents. Therefore, actively cooperating with teachers is the best shortcut to improve children's academic performance.

2. The road to growth may not be smooth sailing, and failure is the practice of life. Failure and frustration can make children feel depressed. At this time, our parents should encourage their children to analyze specific problems, so that they can have the courage to face up to the failures and setbacks they face and how to turn them into the power to go far.

Parents should read more books and become role models for their children. Reading can not only help parents to increase their knowledge, broaden their horizons and improve their self-cultivation. If you dabble in all aspects of knowledge and improve your cognitive ability, you can explain and understand children's behavior from a scientific point of view, and you can get twice the result with half the effort when educating children.

There is a saying in Weibo, an education expert in Wang Renping: "Your today is your child's tomorrow. If you yell at your child today, don't blame him for calling you tomorrow; If you are impatient with your child today, don't blame him for being impatient with you tomorrow; If you tell your child today that he is not as good as others, don't blame him for complaining that you are not as good as others' parents tomorrow; You ask your child to be perfect everywhere, don't blame him for his inferiority and cowardice; If you are used to beating and scolding children, don't blame him for advocating violence or servility; Don't blame him for being irresponsible if you don't know the boundaries yourself. Therefore, real education should be a kind of practice, which is the innocence, selflessness and agility of children, and washes away the impetuous, skilled and arrogant psychological process of adults. A good education should be that parents constantly discover themselves through the mirror of their children, revise themselves, dig themselves up, and take their new selves as their children's models and models. We met a better self in the process of education. "So, there are no children with poor education in this world, only parents who don't understand education.

Someone once said, "Family is the pool where children practice swimming. Once the child has mastered the essentials, the whole ocean is his stage. " The formation of good habits is a long and complicated process, and the final formation requires the patient and meticulous work of teachers and parents. As long as it is constantly grasped and standardized, children's good behavior can be consolidated, internalized from external domination into conscious behavior, and finally become a good habit for children to benefit for life.

Maybe some parents will be like me. Looking at other people's children, we generally see many advantages, while looking at our own children, we see many disadvantages. Because we know our children very well and have high expectations for them, it can be said that children's efforts can hardly meet the requirements of parents. Therefore, as parents, we should treat our children rationally, be more peaceful and less harsh, and treat their growth with a normal heart. We should protect children's self-confidence, tap their potential and let them grow up happily. Every child is the best. Please trust our children. Let's cheer for the children!

Finally, I wish all the teachers and parents present good health and smooth work! I wish the children healthy growth and happy study with the joint efforts of teachers and parents!

Thank you!